We can’t hate ourselves into a version of ourselves we can love. ~Lori Deschene
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We can’t hate ourselves into a version of ourselves we can love. ~Lori Deschene
While my self-love journey is on-going, here are a few things I try to remember when I think I'm not good enough and I'm tempted to be mean to myself.
What we want, isn’t what we need
Naturally, we approach based on physical attraction and sometimes the qualities that we need in a partner aren't in anyone we are attracted to and that's the problem.
These days, things are endlessly more complicated and frustrating, and dating as a millennial is seriously screwed up.
So, I found this to be an amazing read. I don’t think it’s for millennialbut for everyone who has ever thought of not being single. Note, I didn’t say in a relationship because there are so many single people in relationships. When we reflect on past and present relationships we can stop and ask ourselves, “ WHAT AM I DOING?” Actually, we need to shout it! We have these realistic (no they’re not) expectations that are based on baseless standards for the most part. I want this, idon’t want that because... and the “valid” reason becomes invalid when you realize this perfect 10 isn’t so perfect. Meaningless sex, why? Because you “ cyaanbuy puss innabag”, “haffitest drive the car before you buy it”. When will we actually stop and realize that what we have been doing and the way in which we think have become detrimental to our existence.We have developed idealsbased on faulty principles concocted by our oppressor.