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The Quickest Surrender
âHold it right there.â Luna said as he tried to slip past.
He froze mid-step.
She already had that smug, knowing smirk plastered across her face. âIs there anything you want to tell me?â she asked,
He gave a quick, nervous shake of his head.
âMmm-hmm⊠You sure?â Luna pursed her lips together. âBecause someoneâs got a little waddle going on⊠and those cheeks are turning niicce and pink...." She gave him a slow up-and-down look. "Someoneâs been busy in his pamper again, hasnât he?â
âIâm not wet!â he blurted. âI swear, itâs dry! I havenât gone since the last change whenââ
âUh-huh. Sure, baby.â Her smirk deepened. âI didnât even mention being wet yet, and you jumped right to it, didn't you? Drop those pants right now so Nurse Luna can check. I think we both know what weâre going to find...â
His hands trembled as he pushed his pants down to his thighs. The heavy, sagging diaper put on full display.
âOh my! Look how plump and swollen you are!!â Luna cooed. âI donât even need to touch it to know itâs soaked. That little sag right there? Thatâs what we in the business call a heavy one. Iâve changed hundreds of these, sweetie. I can spot a thoroughly used pamper from across the room. So go aheadâŠkeep telling me how dry you are. Iâve got all afternoon...â
He shifted uncomfortably from foot to foot, face burning with embarrassment. âI⊠I really didnât mean toâŠâ he mumbled weakly, hands twitching like he wanted to pull his pants back up.
Luna let out a soft, amused laugh and shook her head.
âAww, look at you still trying so hard to be a big boy for me,â she said, voice dripping with mock sympathy. âBut big boys donât walk around with warm, swollen diapers between their legs, do they? They use the potty like theyâre supposed to.â
She paused, letting the words hang in the air as she stared at the obvious heavy sag between his legs.
âSo tell me, sweetieâŠyou were free to use the potty whenever you needed to. No one was stopping you.â Her head tilted, eyes sparkling with amusement. âSo why exactly are you standing here in a soaking wet pamper instead?â
He opened his mouth, face burning. âI⊠I couldnât make it to the bathroom in timeâŠâ
Luna raised an eyebrow, her smirk turning sharp and skeptical.
âOh really? Couldnât make it?â She tilted her head. âItâs not like the bathroom is far. Itâs not like your mittens were on. The door wasnât locked. Nothing was stopping you. You know that you're allowed to use the potty anytime you want. You donât have to use your diapers.â
She didn't believe him for a second, her voice dripped with condescending sweetness. "So go on, keep telling me your little story."
He tried again, sounding desperate. âI-I really had to goâŠâ
âDid you now?â Luna cooed, lifting the half-empty bottle and giving it a little shake. âI changed you into a fresh diaper just two hours ago. You barely finished half your ba-ba. And if you really needed to go that bad, you could have just used your words and told me. We could have walked you to the potty, pulled your pampers down, and let you pee-pee like any normal, potty-trained man would. I might have even held it for you.â
She leaned in slightly, eyes sparkling with mock curiosity.
âSo what seems to be the problem here⊠hmm?â
He opened his mouth, but nothing came out. He stammered helplessly, completely lost for words, face burning with humiliation.
Luna waited a beat, clearly savoring his silence, then continued smoothly.
âThe way I see it, two things could have happened hereâŠâ she held up a finger, "One: you didnât even realize you needed to go. You just let it happen without thinking. That means the unpotty training your wife hired me for is already rewiring that brain of yours.â
She raised another finger, âOr two⊠you knew you had to go, but instead of using the potty you were freely allowed to use, you deliberately chose to piss all over yourself, to wet your diaperâŠon purpose."
She crossed her arms, eyes gleaming expectantly.
"So which one is it, baby? Was it an accident? An 'uh oh's'? Or did you decide a diaper was where you preferred to go pee-pee?â
He stammered, eyes darting away. âI⊠I donât know⊠it wasnât like thatâŠâ
Lunaâs smirk grew wider, clearly enjoying his discomfort.
âItâs only been two weeks since your wife hired me,â she said calmly, considering. âFull unpotty-training can't have taken hold yet in such a short window, even with a professional like me. Which usually means one thingâŠâ
She let the words linger, watching his reaction.
âIâve seen this pattern before with quite a few clients. They pout, they whine, they throw little tantrums and swear they hate their diapers.â
Luna gave a small, knowing pause.
âSome of them like the attention. Some of them like to be spanked. And some of them?â Her voice dropped into a soft, conspiratorial tone. âSome of them get so excited the second I start changing their diapers that they pop a little baybee boner right there on the table. I have to be extra careful when I wipe them so they donât make a goo-goo mess all over the place from just the slightest touch.â
She looked him up and down slowly, her smirk deepening.
âAnd you⊠youâre starting to act just like them.â
âWhat?? Thatâs ridiculous!â he protested. âYou think I actually like wearing these stupid things?!â
âThatâs exactly what I think,â Luna replied calmly.
He scoffed. âYouâre crazy.â
âAm I?â She raised an eyebrow. âSo if I check inside your diaper right now⊠am I going to find anything a little⊠stiff?â
He backed up half a step, hands moving to cover himself.
âNu-uh. No running.â Luna set the bottle and fresh diaper down. âYou stay right here. Hands behind your back so I can get a proper look.â
He stood quivering as she stepped in close and groped the front of the soaked diaper firmly.
âHmm⊠definitely wet,â Luna murmured, giving it a slow, deliberate squeeze. Then her voice suddenly jumped into exaggerated, mocking delight. âAnd⊠ohhh my goodness! Whatâs this?" she gasped, "Is that a little stiffy I feel twitching away in there?â
He let out a mortified whimper, hips twitching involuntarily under her hand.
She tugged the waistband forward and peered inside, grinning wide.
âOh my! It sure is!!â she exclaimed, eyes lighting up with glee.
He tried to twist away, face burning crimson, but she held the diaper open with one hand and kept him in place.
âAwww! Look at you!â Luna cooed, voice thick with fake sympathy. âSoaked like a widdle tottler and your tiny tinky winky is rock hard in its pissy pamper! Throbbing and leaking like crazyâŠâ
She gave the front another playful squeeze, watching him squirm.
âWell, well, well,â she purred. âJust like I thought. Iâve seen this exact pathetic little routine dozens of times: grown men swearing they hate their diapers right up until their tiny widdle wee-wee starts leaking in one. Pathetic⊠and sooo predictable.â
Luna gave the front of his soaked and tented diaper one last firm, possessive squeeze, watching him tremble. She pulled her hand back slowly, clearly savoring his humiliation, then tilted her head with that signature smug smirk.
âSo tell me the truth right now, loud and clear...â she continued, voice sweet but commanding. âAre you going to keep pretending you want to be a big boy who uses the potty...or..." She leaned in closer, eyes locked on his, her face only inches away, "...are you going to admit you prefer pampers?â
He squirmed desperately, shifting his weight from foot to foot, the heavy soaked diaper crinkling loudly between his legs. His hands clenched into fists behind his back as sweat beaded on his forehead. He tried to look away, but she gently caught his chin with two fingers and turned his face back to hers.
âSay it,â she whispered, almost tenderly. âSay âI donât wanna use the potty anymore, Nurse Luna. I love going in my diapers. I only want to use my pampers!ââ
The silence stretched painfully long.
Luna simply waited, patient and utterly confident, still holding his chin so he couldnât escape her gaze. The only sounds in the room were his ragged breathing and the occasional wet crinkle of his sagging pamper. His face burned crimson. His erection throbbed visibly against the front of the soaked diaper. Every second that passed made the humiliation worse. He knew she could see exactly how conflicted and excited he was.
âGo on, baby⊠We both know itâs true. Say it for Nurse Luna.â
He swallowed hard, lips trembling. His eyes darted around the room, desperate for any escape, but there was none. The weight of her stare, the warmth of his own mess pressing against him, and the undeniable stiffness between his legs finally broke him.
âI⊠I donât wanna use the potty anymore, Nurse Luna,â he whispered, voice cracking with shame. âI love going in my diapers. I only want to use my d-d-diapers...â
Lunaâs smile widened, slow and deeply satisfied.
âThere we gooo!!â she said softly, almost tenderly. âThatâs exactly what I thought. Iâve seen this dozens of times, you know. Grown men swearing they hate their diapers, fighting it so hard⊠right up until they finally admit they love using them. Youâre not becoming incontinent, sweetie⊠youâre choosing your diapers because you like them. Perfectly capable of holding it⊠you just donât want to anymore! Do you?!?"
She gave his throbbing front one last teasing pat. âAnd because you were so honest with me, Iâm going to give you a little reward!" She said, smirking. "Part of unpotty-training is getting you properly sensitized to your diapers, teaching that little brain to associate them with pleasure. So Nurse Luna is going to be extra nice todayâŠâ
She let the words hang for a moment, watching him squirm with anticipation and lingering shame.
âSo hereâs how this is going to work, sweetie,â she said. âYouâre gonna get down on all fours like you do for tummy time⊠but this time youâre going to grind that hard little thing against your warm, pissy pamper until you make a biiiigg sticky mess in it!â
He flushed deep red but didnât argue. In fact, he was surprisingly intrigued. As he started to obey and drop to his knees, her hand pressed firmly against his chest, stopping him.
âNu-uh uh!" She clicked her tongue, "Not until I hear you say it again, baby. Not until you admit to me exactly how much you wuv your widdle diapurrs!! Say it, baby...use your words.â
His face burned crimson. âI⊠I wuv my diapurrs, Nurse LunaâŠâ
âLouder.â
âI wuv my widdle diapurrs!!!â he repeated, voice shaking.
âGood boy." She grinned, "Now get down on the floor.â
He dropped to all fours immediately and began humping frantically, grinding his rock-hard erection against the heavy, soaked, squelching padding with wild, shameless abandon. His hips bucked desperately, the loud crinkling and wet squishing sounds echoing through the living room as he rutted like a desperate animal in heat. Soft, needy whimpers and moans spilled from his mouth as he humped harder and faster, completely lost in the filthy pleasure of his own mess.
âKeep saying it, honey,â Luna cooed. âTell me while you hump. Tell me you never want to use the potty again.â
âI love my diapersâŠâ he gasped between frantic thrusts. âI never want to use the potty again⊠I only want my pampers⊠I love my diapersâŠ!â
His movements grew even more frantic, hips slamming harder against the warm, heavy mess. âI love my diapers⊠I only want my pampers⊠I never want to use the potty againâŠ!â
Any last reservations had completely vanished. He was moaning openly now, repeating the humiliating phrases over and over like a broken record while he desperately fucked his own soaked diaper.
"I never want to use the potty again! Just pampers! Just pampurrs! Just...just..."
Less than twenty seconds later his whole body locked up. His hips stuttered violently as he came. Hard. Flooding the already-soaked pamper with thick ropes of cum, groaning loudly into the carpet. Luna watched with a delighted smirk as his pathetic little spasms continued, milking out every last drop into his padding.
He collapsed forward, gasping and trembling. The heavily soaked diaper crinkled and squelched as he sluggishly rolled onto his back. His eyes fluttered open, still glassy and half-lidded, only to widen in sudden horror as he spotted Lunaâs phone aimed straight at him...recording everything.
âOh my goodness! Done already??â Luna exclaimed in exaggerated shock, pointing the camera at her own mock-surprised face. âIn twenty seconds? Aww! Someone must really love their pampers, huh?â
Post-nut clarity slammed into him like a truck. The shame hit hard. He cursed himself silently for letting his horniness take over, for saying those pathetic things, for humping his own pissy diaper like a desperate addict while she watched. And now it was all on video. Proof. Irrefutable evidence for his wife.
He tried to cover himself and reach for the phone, but she smacked his hands away.
âNu-uh! No hiding now.â She leaned over him and drew up the waistband so she could peek inside his diaper. Eyes going exaggeratedly wide.
âWow⊠such a big, nasty sticky mess in there!!â she laughed softly. âLook at all that cum mixed with your pee-pee. You really creamed your pamper like a proper little diaper boy. So fast, too! How pathetic.â
She slipped two fingers into the warm, sticky interior, slowly stirring through the thick mixture of his cum and piss. When she pulled them back out they were coated in glossy, stringy goo. âLook at thisâŠâ she murmured, holding her glistening fingers up in front of his face, spreading them so he could see the stringy ropes between them. âOpen up, baby. Taste what you just did.
When he hesitated, she simply pressed the sticky fingertips against his lips until he obediently opened and began to lick. The salty, warm taste of his own mess filled his mouth as she watched with smug satisfaction.
She gave the soggy, cum-filled front a patronizing pat, pressing the warm, sticky mess firmly against his sensitive skin.
âLooks like we have all the evidence we need,â Luna said with deep satisfaction. She finally lowered the phone, giving him a long, amused look as he lay there spent and humiliated. âWait until your wife sees this. Sheâll see exactly how effective I am at unpotty training you. Look at you⊠repeating how much you love your diapers and how you never want the potty again, while you humped your messy pamper like a desperate little bitch!â
Luna smiled down at him sweetly, clearly savoring the shame washing over his face. She casually tossed the fresh diaper onto the coffee table.
âYou wonât be needing this one,â she said lightly. âYouâre going to stay right there in that warm, sticky one you made for yourself.â
She pulled him up to his feet and guided him over to the blue couch. Luna sat down and firmly draped him across her lap, cradling his head in the crook of her arm. She picked up the half-empty bottle and pressed the nipple to his lips.
He squirmed and turned his head away with a weak, embarrassed whimper.
âNu-uh,â Luna cooed. âDonât fuss, baby. I think we're way past that by now. Do you need a little reminder of the state youâre in? Hmm?! Should we look inside your diaper again? Do you need to see what you did?â
She reached down and lifted the waistband of his heavily soiled diaper, holding it open so he could see the glistening, stringy cave of cum coating the entire inside.
He shook his head frantically, eyes wide with shame.
âYeah⊠I think we do need another reminder..." Luna said with mock sympathy. She slipped her fingers back into the warm, sticky interior, scooped up a thick, glossy glob of his cum, and slowly smeared it all over the rubber nipple of the bottle until it was shiny and dripping.
She pressed the goo-coated nipple firmly against his lips.
âOpen up, baby. Taste what you made while you drink your ba-ba.â
He whimpered, but didn't protest anymore, just hesitantly took the cum-crusted bottle into his mouth.
âGood boy,â she praised softly, rocking him gently as he began to suck. Her free hand slowly patted between his legs, pressing the warm, sticky mess against him with every rhythmic pat.
âFeel that?â she whispered tenderly. âThat warm, sticky goo-goo you just made? Thatâs all yours, honey. I didnât make you do that. You didnât have to say those things. You didnât have to hump your pamper like a desperate little cum-pumperâŠâ
He let out a soft, mortified whimper around the bottle nipple, his cheeks burning hotter as he suckled. The pathetic little sound only made Lunaâs smile widen.
She continued rocking him, her voice calm, soothing, and utterly condescending.
âYou know...most men I get assigned to take months to become fully diaper-dependentâ she cooed. âDaily hypnosis sessions, constant punishments, positive reinforcement when they use their diapers, negative reinforcement when they even think about the potty⊠the whole program. Some of them fight me for half a year before they finally break.â
She leaned down and planted a gentle kiss on the top of his head, her hand still patting the soggy, cum-filled front of his diaper.
âBut you? You broke completely in just two weeks.â Her voice dripped with mock amazement. âSo eager to give up the potty! Forever. How adorable⊠and how pathetic.â
He whimpered again beneath the bottle, a high, embarrassed sound that vibrated around the nipple as he nursed. Luna chuckled softly.
âSo while youâre suckling your ba ba like a good widdle baybee, I want you to really let this sink inâŠâ She rocked him a little slower, pressing the sticky mess more firmly against his skin with each pat. âI didnât unpotty train you, sweetie⊠you did it to yourself. You chose your pampers over a potty. Youâre going to be pee-peeing and poo-pooing in nothing else from now on. And now you get to sit in everything you chose like the good little diaper boy you wanted to be.â
Luna smiled sweetly down at him, watching his eyes glisten with shame.
âThatâs right⊠Let allll the choices you made soak in⊠until your wife gets home⊠and you can show and tell her yourself.â
Making the decision for them
The biggest mental health issue we see when speaking with ABDLâs and littles is the shame/desire cycle with regard to wearing & using diapers. This is especially pronounced when they believe theyâd be happier if in diapers all the time but have struggled to make it work.
Feelings of shame often are the catalyst which temporarily kills ABDL desires only for them to return stronger than ever a few hours or days later. This leaves your partner feeling both guilty about not committing to what they know would be good for them and guilty for having the desire to start with.
The good news is them having a supportive partner is the biggest advantage possible and you as their partner have the ability to transform their lives for the better.
Ask yourself if the following are true:
- They seem to be happier and/or less stressed & anxious when diapered
- Theyâre wearing diapers several times a week and often for multi-day periods
- Theyâre comfortable using them for #1 & #2
- Theyâve worn in different public situations
- Theyâve mentioned a desire to be 24/7 before
- They may have even tried 24/7 for a period before.
- You are comfortable with them wearing and using diapers
- You are willing to make some changes to your life if it makes them happier
- You are willing to be involved in their diaper wearing
- You can afford $200+ a month for their diaper supplies
If you answered yes to them all, using diaper discipline to âforceâ them into the situation they actually want can be extremely beneficial.
We have talked about many ways to use diaper discipline and although this may feel like one of the more extreme options it has proven to be very effective for couples weâve spoken to and to us directly.
So what are we suggesting? Well in short, you return your partner to diapers full time and stop this negative cycle for good. Think of this more as an intervention than a discussion.
Yes this will be hard at first and there will be times they resist but I guarantee if you stick to it the positive results will speak for themselves.
For this approach I donât recommend any half measures as this leads to gaps which can cause you and them to waiver and lead to the collapse of the benefits.
So if youâre willing and ready to take on some challenges to help your partner what should you do?
First decide a date from which this will start.
This should be 1-2 weeks away to give you time to prepare and the absolute ideal would be if theyâre away for a day or two immediately prior to this date.
Second is to get yourself fully comfortable with the rules youâll be setting out for them.
These are:
1. They will be diapered 24/7
2. The only exception to this is at work and with friends and family where they can wear pull ups but otherwise theyâll be in high absorbency medical or ABDL diapers.
3. When in diapers the toilet will be fully out of bounds, including at home, in public and on vacation.
4. They should now be treated as having bladder and bowel incontinence.
5. This isnât a short term change and will likely be permanent.
Also decide on these three rules which we highly recommend but are optional:
- At home all checks and changes will be carried out by me.
- All diapers must be worn until full or have been messy for over an hour.
- At home diapers arenât to be hidden and should be either be fully exposed or obvious through ABDL clothing.
Third, prepare for the change:
- Make sure you have a good stock of diapers for them.
- Iâd recommend having around 200 in stock with a mix of high quality but thinner medical diapers (e.g. Tena Slip Ultima), thick medical diapers (e.g. Megamax) and ABDL themed diapers.
- Gather diaper changing essentials including adult sized wipes, powder, barrier cream, disposable gloves & disposable changing mats (bedwetting mats are perfect)
- To help things along get a stock of suppositories, mini-enemas, laxative tablets, fibre supplements and Iâd also recommend devrom to be used to reduce smells.
- Buy some ABDL clothing essentials if they donât already have them:
- A couple plain onesies to be used in public
- A couple of ABDL onesies for at home and nighttime
- A few ABDL outfits for use at home for example a romper, play dress & baby style tshirts
- Create a dedicated diaper changing room for them including at a minimum:
- A changing table. Ideally this would be built but a dedicated bed with a changing mat can work ok as well.
- A diaper pail (try buy a big one as otherwise youâll be emptying it daily)
- Shelving / storage for their diapers and other supplies where theyâre not hidden.
- A good air freshener or air purifier
- Having a full day or two to prepare can be extremely helpful if you can time it to be around them being out of the house
- This is optional but some light restraints can be fun and a big help, primarily:
- Wrist and ankle restraints on the changing table
- A locking diaper cover
- Padded mittens
- Straightjacketshop is our favorite for these
The big day
This day is going to change both of your lives for the better. Make sure you have everything ready for when they come home. In preparation also do the final step to commit to this and throw away all of their underwear.
Upon arriving home tell them you have a surprise for them leading them up to the diaper changing area. Help them strip down and importantly dispose of their underwear into the diaper pail before getting the to lie down on the changing table. Attaching the wrist restraints are a good idea at this stage if youâve opted for them.
Itâs likely they will actually be excited at this point with this development so donât expect much resistance.
Diaper them into a thick ABDL diaper before telling them what youâve decided. Itâs best to give the background to your decision and focus on how you think this will be best for them and how you know deep down this is what they want.
Next, run through the rules slowly and a standout moment for me was reinforcing these to him by saying that this meant heâd be never using the toilet in our house again. This will be a lot to take in, and expect them try negotiate some changes to the rules but you should stay firm on all the major points.
Once theyâve calmed down from the excitement and nervousness of it all, dress them in ABDL clothes and try have the best possible evening. Cook their favorite meal, watch their favorite film, etc and keep them relaxed.
Likely more questions and worries will come up but you can normally handle these easily.
The question you will certainly get is âHow long will this last forâ and itâs important for both of you to accept that this isnât a game or short term experiment but a permanent change. Itâs very important you highlight this but you can provide a review period after a significant period of time.
I would recommend having a review after 6 months and decide if it should continue. 6 months is a good time period as itâs long enough to get through the initial challenges and far enough away to prevent them/you just waiting it out while not accepting the new reality.
First week
The first week is going to be a big adjustment as they realize youâre serious and you both get used to this new world.
As part of proving this isnât a temporary thing get them to try on all their clothes while thickly diapered and get rid of all which no longer fit well. Follow this up with a shopping trip to replenish their wardrobe with clothing for public wear.
Make sure their diaper area is completely hair free, we find hair removal cream works wonders.
You should also use this week to ensure they know the rules are serious. Iâd recommend using a suppository or laxative twice to ensure they fill their diaper and try make one of these be while around you.
Provide huge amounts of encouragement and praise all week. And reenforce that this is going to be great for them and you both.
Keep their diaper exposed at home or covered only by ABDL clothing, there should be no opportunity for them to not be wearing their diaper.
Finally try be as involved as possible in diaper checks and changes.
First month
With the first month try and get into the routine as much as possible and tick off different wearing and usage scenarios. Have meals out with them diapered, go on a day trip with a diaper bag packed, etc.
Continue to provide as much encouragement as possible and continue to check and change their diapers at home when you can.
You should also introduce daily fibre supplements for them as these are good for bowel health, can be used long term and although they will increase the volume of their bmâs it actually helps reduce the smell. Reducing red meats and fatty foods also helps keep the smell down.
This is also the perfect time to experiment with different diapers to see which are best for different scenarios. Try extending how long you keep them in the same diaper before changing to get familiar with their capacities. Expect several diaper leaks during this process and never punish them for these. A waterproof cover on your bed is a good idea.
Second month
Now youâre 30 days in you should be both used to the new situation and they should be now accepting this isnât a short term change.
This month you should encourage them to begin diaper training and form a bedwetting habit. When diapered they shouldnât be holding so check their diaper 30 minutes after a change and tell them off if itâs not already slightly wet.
Every night make sure they have 1-2 large glasses of water before bed and tell them you expect them to be wet in the morning. This process will take a few months but if you encourage them to relax and let go in bed and add punishments if you wake up in the morning and find them dry.
Finally you want them to become comfortable using their diaper fully even when out of the house. Have a day trip where theyâll be using their diapers a lot
Third month
This is the perfect time to go on a vacation together so if youâre able to, book a 1-2 week vacation. As theyâll not be around friends or family this whole period should be in diapers only from leaving your house to returning. When going through airport security a dry diaper is recommended to avoid setting off the scanners.
A vacation is a great time to get them even more comfortable with their diapers in public as they wonât be worried about meeting people they know. Experiment with them wearing thicker diapers than normal especially if youâre going on a longer day trip.
Also remember you should be treating them as if theyâre fully incontinent so this means swim diapers are a must. If you have your own pool then I recommend using an ABDL swim diaper but also take a discreet adult swim diaper option for use in public.
A vacation is also the perfect time for you to take 100% control of their diapering. Even if youâre not doing this at home Iâd recommend you doing all their diaper checks and changes for the whole period and make it clear they canât ask for a change.
Do not make any exceptions for toilet usage and if you have a day where a messy accident would be very inconvenient use a suppository in the morning or some ducolax tablet the evening before to ensure theyâre emptied out prior to the dayâs activities.
Forth month
Theyâll pass 100 days diapered this month so make sure to celebrate and congratulate them on the achievement.
You both might still be a bit shy about messy diapers at this stage and now is the right time to try change that. If youâve noticed they hide away from you when messy tell them this and that messy diapers are normal and not something you expect to change your activities together.
If youâre not checking and changing all their diapers already at least start a rule that they must ask permission to change. When they ask, conduct a complete diaper check where itâs fully exposed and either pull back the rear waistband or use your hand on the back of the diaper to check for messy accidents. The other key thing is donât always give permission, for example if itâs just messy and still has capacity tell them that it looks like it can hold more and to come back in an hour.
To help them get used to messing in your presence force the situation:
- Give them a suppository before settling down for a movie and donât allow them to getup or change until itâs finished.
- Make them take 2 ducolax tablets in the evening which will result in them messing overnight.
- Use a suppository before a drive or trip to go shoppingâš
Finally, they shouldnât be associating a messy diaper with an instant change. Itâs important that the state of their diaper doesnât influence your activities too much. Once theyâve messed try continue your plans for an hour or two until there is a convenient time to change him / let him change. For example if he messes in the early evening, his change can wait until after youâve eaten dinner together. Devrom and plastic pants really reduces the smell.
Fifth Month
Their diapered life will be feeling very normal now.
Now may be a good time to experiment with swapping out pull ups for thin diapers for work, friends & family. Iâd recommend maybe a cloth backed option so theyâre completely silent to build up their confidence. Make sure to give lots of reassurance that it is discrete.
Sixth Month
This is the review month so make sure to have a conversation about how theyâre finding things. Iâm sure youâll both agree itâs been positive and will want to continue.
Avoid reducing the rules at all and Iâd recommend now is the time to commit to them being diapered fully and phase out the pull ups completely.
I think itâs worth calling out to them that this means youâre committing them to diapers permanently. Now is a good time for you to increase your involvement to be checking and changing all their diapers at home.
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This post ended up longer than we expected but hopefully itâs will be useful to you as a partner of an ABDL. As always my DMâs are open and Iâm happy to chat with anyone who is thinking about this for their partner and wants some advice.
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đ - Describe your perfect shower/bathtime with your partner. Are there bath toys? Maybe a shower melt or bath bomb? Does CG wash little one with just their hands, a brush, sponge?
Oooooooooh! I like this one, thank you. I think for me I'd love a biiiiiig bath which makes me feel small, it'd be a bubble bath, nice and hot, with lots of toys inside and stuck on the wall.
And my cg would be washing me with a sponge and their hands, with a jug for rinsing, and I would melt if they hummed or sang whilst doing it đ„°
So uhm this sissy decided to be a bit daring.
I went and took pictures around midnight in a little forgotten park/ forresty bit. Hope you like em if you have suggetions please tell me
Ps. Should i shave everything down?
For clarification i had a long coat with me which i used in case someone would be there
Oh my princess. You just keep proving to me time and time again how you desperately need diapers. Look at you messing your diaper. I think potty privileges are hearby revoked for good. You'll just have to get used to messing your diapers. Cry all you want, Princess, I've made my decision and it's final.
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f-fine but everyone pls be rly rly nice to me im rly shy abt this...
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