i am the soft stars that shine at night @lilacponds - Tumblr Blog

in the last couple weeks, my best friend and wife has shown me the orville, and we proceeded to watch all three seasons. They love it and we're excited to show it to someone, and I was curious + always eager to make my wife happy.

I'm in shambles. I have dreams.

I need one of those "do it for her" memes with my girl Alara to make my desktop background.

IT'S GOT SUCH AMAZING WRITING IT MAKES EVERYTHING ELSE I'VE EVER SEEN LOOK LIKE A KID'S SHOW IN COMPARISON!!!!!

#im in fucking shambles it can't be over already #APPARENTLY A NEW SEASON HAS BEEN WRITTEN IT JUST NEEDS TO BE PRODUCED #I NEED IIIIIIIIT #also my wife is. platonic wife. I have not gotten legally married #Charlie chatters

lilacponds

Please help me and my parents keep our apartment.

I hate to ask for help but me and my parents need it sorely.

I'm a queer, neurodivergent and disabled person who lives with their parents. My mother is disabled, and has severe panic attacks leaving the house; my father is unemployed, has had multiple heart surgeries, and is diabetic. We have three very well-loved cats.

We are struggling. We have fallen on hard times, and we need help. While me and my father are both looking for a job to help us catch up on overdue bills, we will be losing our house if we don't pay off our last notice within the week. We have nowhere to go - we don't have close family we can ask for help, and we've lived in this apartment for the last 24 years. We can't do anything, except ask for help.

Please help. My father has nearly killed himself with all the hard work he's done in the past two decades to keep a roof over our heads, and if we lose that, we have nothing. He deserves better.

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lilacponds

EDIT - in 8 hours, my amazing friends have given me what I needed, and more.

I am so thankful to be part and have been part of amazing communities, to know so many kind-hearted, amazing, selfless, loving people. I just

I'm gonna go cry in relief for a little bit.

#8 hours...#maybe i truly am doing something right here with my life #thank you all so much

Please help me and my parents keep our apartment.

I hate to ask for help but me and my parents need it sorely.

I'm a queer, neurodivergent and disabled person who lives with their parents. My mother is disabled, and has severe panic attacks leaving the house; my father is unemployed, has had multiple heart surgeries, and is diabetic. We have three very well-loved cats.

We are struggling. We have fallen on hard times, and we need help. While me and my father are both looking for a job to help us catch up on overdue bills, we will be losing our house if we don't pay off our last notice within the week. We have nowhere to go - we don't have close family we can ask for help, and we've lived in this apartment for the last 24 years. We can't do anything, except ask for help.

Please help. My father has nearly killed himself with all the hard work he's done in the past two decades to keep a roof over our heads, and if we lose that, we have nothing. He deserves better.

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#gofundme #help #fundraiser #this like genuinely doxxes me but i cannot stress how much we need help. urgently.#please.

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cont'd.; "It would be great if you could submit within 24 hours."

#oh.................#submitting something #undertale

liesandnights

No rizz just sparkly loving eyes and a heart that feels ready to pour right out of my ribcage at any given time.

#me

if i see another post hating on reader insert fics on my dash im going to lose it

if you don't like em then they're not made for you just don't fucking READ THEM

"i would not say that" cool then you're not the target audience

"they're just badly disguised self-inserts" and?

ive written a venti reader insert comfort fic once - i wrote it because *i* needed it. i made it a reader insert instead of a self-insert cause i wanted to share the feeling of comfort to anyone else that would see themselves into it and needed it.

if it's true that media cannot have *everyone* as a target audience, why do reader insert fics have to be relatable to everyone that stumbles across them? like of fucking course if im writing some self-indulgent gay shit with a fictional man, people that aren't attracted to men won't like it, but that doesn't mean i have to hide it away like some sort of dirty secret

genuinely, what the fuck happened to "don't like don't read"?

"charlie people are allowed to have opinions and dislike reader insert fics" yeah and im allowed to bitch about how they make fun of reader insert writers. cause there's a difference between smm not being your cup of tea and sharing how its ewww yuckyyy grooossss geeermsss so cringyyyyy

idk man, you don't have to enjoy smm people do for fun, or for comfort, or for coping, but like, if you have to tear us down... idk man, we're not forcing our fics down your throat. go find some fucking whimsy or some shit.

#its absolutely insane man and im about to start unfollowing people #not a threat just a fact #let people have some fucking fun #im not gonna let some jackass on the internet make me feel bad for creating something self-indulgent #OR for sharing said work with like-minded people that also enjoy it!#self-indulgence isnt bad guys. step off the fucking saintly train or whatever yall are tryna ride #Charlie chatters

turing-tested

contrary to popular belief not everyone has an innate sense of internal gender or care to have one or seek a name for it, some people go their whole lives without questioning their occupation in one of two gender roles, but for some people, if pressed, they don’t feel that internal sense of ‘i am a woman’ or ‘i am a man’, and in that case i feel the switch over to transgender vs cisgender relies on active identification of a gender other than the one they were assigned. if someone’s like ‘idk dude I just work here’ then that’s valid

#i would describe my gender as not exactly ‘idk dude i just work here’ #more like…..when someone assumes you work somewhere that you don’t #but you know how to help them so you do it anyway #my gender is wearing a red shirt at a target

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cobblepottery

A portion of people in the notes are like ‘but that makes you trans. That’s called being agender’ and another portion of people are going ‘this is how the majority of cis ppl feel and it’s NOT agender’ and personally I feel like both of them are missing the point here. Yes a lot of people identify as agender because of this feeling. Yes a lot of people with this same feeling still identify as cis. These are not mutually exclusive experiences and it doesn’t mean the agender people are secretly cis or the cis people are secretly agender. It just means they have very similar experiences of gender that they choose to conceptualize and label differently, and neither of them are mistaken or wrong to do so.