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“Open. Open! Ahhh!”
I find that nothing regresses a man-baby quite like putting a pacifier in their mouth. It tells them that their words mean nothing. Their pathetic little pleas don’t matter. Their silly little thoughts are moot. All while keeping them mute.
It forces them to internalize what’s going on. In addition to the sight, sound, smell, and feel of the diaper they’re about to wear, we take over their final sense. With every whimpering breath they take, the little rubber bulb rubs over their tongue. They can taste the latex, feel the shield press against their lips as the diaper closes over their hips. The soft, whimsical tunes playing in the background beneath your milky, matronly voice telling them how adorable and pathetic they look. Everything coming together to make them feel like a wimpy wittle baybee.
They can try to deny it all they want, but it’s hard to make a strong argument when there’s a big fat pacifier in their mouth! Binky your baybees, girls!!
Dang right, sis! And they will complain first but their little mumbling is soooo adorable... 🥰🥰
Everywhere, everytime - a quick, strong grip to the diapered butt keeps your little clean and dry and reminds him, who is in charge and whats bis place... 🥰
Überall und jederzeit – ein schneller, fester Griff an den Windelpo hält deinen Kleinen sauber und trocken und erinnert ihn daran, wer das Sagen hat und wo sein Platz ist... 🥰
Open wide!
The dream! 🥰
🥹💋💄❤️🔥
The sensation it gives you after knowing to at you are finally what you longed to be. It’s crazy !!
Yes, Mistress 🥵
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Jederzeit bitte 😫🙏🙏💓
Every time please 😫🙏🙏💓
Morning Diapee Checks…
Yes, mommy 🥰🥰
Wife: Be good, baby. Nana (wife's mother) is here to take care of you while I go to the cocktail party with Derek. Mom, can you stay overnight if I spend the night at Derek's? Nana: Sure thing honey. You go have fun!
A short but enthusiastic review of the Rearz Hypnos:
Saying I have a “mild” oral fixation is about like saying the Mediterranean is a salty bathtub with fish in it. Many say that their first contact with ABDL was via diapers, my first interest was always the pacifier
Accordingly, I searched for a loooong time for a suitable one and the closest thing to my expectations for a long time were the ones from LFB. But it was never 100%. With the biggest one, the teat was a little too long, so that the tip was uncomfortable on my palate, and a little too wide, so that it hit my gums. The size smaller was too small. Frustrating…
Now I've tried the Hypnos from Rearz and I have to say I'm really impressed. The suction part is only slightly shorter and narrower than the LFB and it fits perfectly. It is also softer so that it fits better in the mouth. I've tried it out a few nights now and - it stays where it's supposed to and doesn't fall out. This has rarely happened to me so far. I don't have any jaw problems in the morning either. The size of the shield takes a bit of getting used to and unfortunately it's only available in white, but I hope that Rearz will soon add more designs
I'm thrilled! And no, even if it sounds like it, unfortunately I don't have a cooperation or advertising contract :D
Ein kurzer aber umso begeisterterter Erfahrungsbericht zum Rearz Hypnos:
Zu sagen, ich hätte eine "leichte" orale Fixierung ist ungefähr so, als würde man sagen, das Mittelmeer ist eine salzige Badewanne mit Fischen drin. Viele sagen, dass ihre erste Berührung mit ABDL über Windeln war, mein erstes Interesse war immer der Schnuller
Dementsprechend habe ich laaaange nach einem passenden gesucht und das, was lange Zeit meinen Vorstellungen am nächsten kam, waren die von LFB. Aber es war nie 100%. Beim Größten war das Saugteil ein klein wenig zu lang, so dass die Spitze unangenehm an meinem Gaumen lag, und etwas zu breit, so dass es an mein Zahnfleisch stieß. Die Nummer kleiner war zu klein. Frustrierend...
Nun hab ich den Hypnos von Rearz ausprobiert und muss sagen, ich bin mega begeistert. Das Saugteil ist nur minimal kürzer und schmaler als beim LFB und es passt perfekt. Zudem ist es weicher, so dass es sich besser im Mund anpasst. Ich habe ihn nun schon einige Nächte ausprobiert und - er bleibt da, wo er sein soll und fällt nicht raus. Das ist mir bislang selten passiert. Ich habe am Morgen auch keine Kieferprobleme. Das Schild ist etwas gewöhnungsbedürftig groß und leider nur in weiß erhältlich, aber ich hoffe, dass Rearz da bald bei den Designs nachlegt
Ich bin begeistert! Und nein, auch wenn es so klingt, ich habe leider keine Kooperation oder Werbevertrag :D
Making the decision for them
The biggest mental health issue we see when speaking with ABDL’s and littles is the shame/desire cycle with regard to wearing & using diapers. This is especially pronounced when they believe they’d be happier if in diapers all the time but have struggled to make it work.
Feelings of shame often are the catalyst which temporarily kills ABDL desires only for them to return stronger than ever a few hours or days later. This leaves your partner feeling both guilty about not committing to what they know would be good for them and guilty for having the desire to start with.
The good news is them having a supportive partner is the biggest advantage possible and you as their partner have the ability to transform their lives for the better.
Ask yourself if the following are true:
- They seem to be happier and/or less stressed & anxious when diapered
- They’re wearing diapers several times a week and often for multi-day periods
- They’re comfortable using them for #1 & #2
- They’ve worn in different public situations
- They’ve mentioned a desire to be 24/7 before
- They may have even tried 24/7 for a period before.
- You are comfortable with them wearing and using diapers
- You are willing to make some changes to your life if it makes them happier
- You are willing to be involved in their diaper wearing
- You can afford $200+ a month for their diaper supplies
If you answered yes to them all, using diaper discipline to “force” them into the situation they actually want can be extremely beneficial.
We have talked about many ways to use diaper discipline and although this may feel like one of the more extreme options it has proven to be very effective for couples we’ve spoken to and to us directly.
So what are we suggesting? Well in short, you return your partner to diapers full time and stop this negative cycle for good. Think of this more as an intervention than a discussion.
Yes this will be hard at first and there will be times they resist but I guarantee if you stick to it the positive results will speak for themselves.
For this approach I don’t recommend any half measures as this leads to gaps which can cause you and them to waiver and lead to the collapse of the benefits.
So if you’re willing and ready to take on some challenges to help your partner what should you do?
First decide a date from which this will start.
This should be 1-2 weeks away to give you time to prepare and the absolute ideal would be if they’re away for a day or two immediately prior to this date.
Second is to get yourself fully comfortable with the rules you’ll be setting out for them.
These are:
1. They will be diapered 24/7
2. The only exception to this is at work and with friends and family where they can wear pull ups but otherwise they’ll be in high absorbency medical or ABDL diapers.
3. When in diapers the toilet will be fully out of bounds, including at home, in public and on vacation.
4. They should now be treated as having bladder and bowel incontinence.
5. This isn’t a short term change and will likely be permanent.
Also decide on these three rules which we highly recommend but are optional:
- At home all checks and changes will be carried out by me.
- All diapers must be worn until full or have been messy for over an hour.
- At home diapers aren’t to be hidden and should be either be fully exposed or obvious through ABDL clothing.
Third, prepare for the change:
- Make sure you have a good stock of diapers for them.
- I’d recommend having around 200 in stock with a mix of high quality but thinner medical diapers (e.g. Tena Slip Ultima), thick medical diapers (e.g. Megamax) and ABDL themed diapers.
- Gather diaper changing essentials including adult sized wipes, powder, barrier cream, disposable gloves & disposable changing mats (bedwetting mats are perfect)
- To help things along get a stock of suppositories, mini-enemas, laxative tablets, fibre supplements and I’d also recommend devrom to be used to reduce smells.
- Buy some ABDL clothing essentials if they don’t already have them:
- A couple plain onesies to be used in public
- A couple of ABDL onesies for at home and nighttime
- A few ABDL outfits for use at home for example a romper, play dress & baby style tshirts
- Create a dedicated diaper changing room for them including at a minimum:
- A changing table. Ideally this would be built but a dedicated bed with a changing mat can work ok as well.
- A diaper pail (try buy a big one as otherwise you’ll be emptying it daily)
- Shelving / storage for their diapers and other supplies where they’re not hidden.
- A good air freshener or air purifier
- Having a full day or two to prepare can be extremely helpful if you can time it to be around them being out of the house
- This is optional but some light restraints can be fun and a big help, primarily:
- Wrist and ankle restraints on the changing table
- A locking diaper cover
- Padded mittens
- Straightjacketshop is our favorite for these
The big day
This day is going to change both of your lives for the better. Make sure you have everything ready for when they come home. In preparation also do the final step to commit to this and throw away all of their underwear.
Upon arriving home tell them you have a surprise for them leading them up to the diaper changing area. Help them strip down and importantly dispose of their underwear into the diaper pail before getting the to lie down on the changing table. Attaching the wrist restraints are a good idea at this stage if you’ve opted for them.
It’s likely they will actually be excited at this point with this development so don’t expect much resistance.
Diaper them into a thick ABDL diaper before telling them what you’ve decided. It’s best to give the background to your decision and focus on how you think this will be best for them and how you know deep down this is what they want.
Next, run through the rules slowly and a standout moment for me was reinforcing these to him by saying that this meant he’d be never using the toilet in our house again. This will be a lot to take in, and expect them try negotiate some changes to the rules but you should stay firm on all the major points.
Once they’ve calmed down from the excitement and nervousness of it all, dress them in ABDL clothes and try have the best possible evening. Cook their favorite meal, watch their favorite film, etc and keep them relaxed.
Likely more questions and worries will come up but you can normally handle these easily.
The question you will certainly get is “How long will this last for” and it’s important for both of you to accept that this isn’t a game or short term experiment but a permanent change. It’s very important you highlight this but you can provide a review period after a significant period of time.
I would recommend having a review after 6 months and decide if it should continue. 6 months is a good time period as it’s long enough to get through the initial challenges and far enough away to prevent them/you just waiting it out while not accepting the new reality.
First week
The first week is going to be a big adjustment as they realize you’re serious and you both get used to this new world.
As part of proving this isn’t a temporary thing get them to try on all their clothes while thickly diapered and get rid of all which no longer fit well. Follow this up with a shopping trip to replenish their wardrobe with clothing for public wear.
Make sure their diaper area is completely hair free, we find hair removal cream works wonders.
You should also use this week to ensure they know the rules are serious. I’d recommend using a suppository or laxative twice to ensure they fill their diaper and try make one of these be while around you.
Provide huge amounts of encouragement and praise all week. And reenforce that this is going to be great for them and you both.
Keep their diaper exposed at home or covered only by ABDL clothing, there should be no opportunity for them to not be wearing their diaper.
Finally try be as involved as possible in diaper checks and changes.
First month
With the first month try and get into the routine as much as possible and tick off different wearing and usage scenarios. Have meals out with them diapered, go on a day trip with a diaper bag packed, etc.
Continue to provide as much encouragement as possible and continue to check and change their diapers at home when you can.
You should also introduce daily fibre supplements for them as these are good for bowel health, can be used long term and although they will increase the volume of their bm’s it actually helps reduce the smell. Reducing red meats and fatty foods also helps keep the smell down.
This is also the perfect time to experiment with different diapers to see which are best for different scenarios. Try extending how long you keep them in the same diaper before changing to get familiar with their capacities. Expect several diaper leaks during this process and never punish them for these. A waterproof cover on your bed is a good idea.
Second month
Now you’re 30 days in you should be both used to the new situation and they should be now accepting this isn’t a short term change.
This month you should encourage them to begin diaper training and form a bedwetting habit. When diapered they shouldn’t be holding so check their diaper 30 minutes after a change and tell them off if it’s not already slightly wet.
Every night make sure they have 1-2 large glasses of water before bed and tell them you expect them to be wet in the morning. This process will take a few months but if you encourage them to relax and let go in bed and add punishments if you wake up in the morning and find them dry.
Finally you want them to become comfortable using their diaper fully even when out of the house. Have a day trip where they’ll be using their diapers a lot
Third month
This is the perfect time to go on a vacation together so if you’re able to, book a 1-2 week vacation. As they’ll not be around friends or family this whole period should be in diapers only from leaving your house to returning. When going through airport security a dry diaper is recommended to avoid setting off the scanners.
A vacation is a great time to get them even more comfortable with their diapers in public as they won’t be worried about meeting people they know. Experiment with them wearing thicker diapers than normal especially if you’re going on a longer day trip.
Also remember you should be treating them as if they’re fully incontinent so this means swim diapers are a must. If you have your own pool then I recommend using an ABDL swim diaper but also take a discreet adult swim diaper option for use in public.
A vacation is also the perfect time for you to take 100% control of their diapering. Even if you’re not doing this at home I’d recommend you doing all their diaper checks and changes for the whole period and make it clear they can’t ask for a change.
Do not make any exceptions for toilet usage and if you have a day where a messy accident would be very inconvenient use a suppository in the morning or some ducolax tablet the evening before to ensure they’re emptied out prior to the day’s activities.
Forth month
They’ll pass 100 days diapered this month so make sure to celebrate and congratulate them on the achievement.
You both might still be a bit shy about messy diapers at this stage and now is the right time to try change that. If you’ve noticed they hide away from you when messy tell them this and that messy diapers are normal and not something you expect to change your activities together.
If you’re not checking and changing all their diapers already at least start a rule that they must ask permission to change. When they ask, conduct a complete diaper check where it’s fully exposed and either pull back the rear waistband or use your hand on the back of the diaper to check for messy accidents. The other key thing is don’t always give permission, for example if it’s just messy and still has capacity tell them that it looks like it can hold more and to come back in an hour.
To help them get used to messing in your presence force the situation:
- Give them a suppository before settling down for a movie and don’t allow them to getup or change until it’s finished.
- Make them take 2 ducolax tablets in the evening which will result in them messing overnight.
- Use a suppository before a drive or trip to go shopping
Finally, they shouldn’t be associating a messy diaper with an instant change. It’s important that the state of their diaper doesn’t influence your activities too much. Once they’ve messed try continue your plans for an hour or two until there is a convenient time to change him / let him change. For example if he messes in the early evening, his change can wait until after you’ve eaten dinner together. Devrom and plastic pants really reduces the smell.
Fifth Month
Their diapered life will be feeling very normal now.
Now may be a good time to experiment with swapping out pull ups for thin diapers for work, friends & family. I’d recommend maybe a cloth backed option so they’re completely silent to build up their confidence. Make sure to give lots of reassurance that it is discrete.
Sixth Month
This is the review month so make sure to have a conversation about how they’re finding things. I’m sure you’ll both agree it’s been positive and will want to continue.
Avoid reducing the rules at all and I’d recommend now is the time to commit to them being diapered fully and phase out the pull ups completely.
I think it’s worth calling out to them that this means you’re committing them to diapers permanently. Now is a good time for you to increase your involvement to be checking and changing all their diapers at home.
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This post ended up longer than we expected but hopefully it’s will be useful to you as a partner of an ABDL. As always my DM’s are open and I’m happy to chat with anyone who is thinking about this for their partner and wants some advice.
Reasons Why ALL Boys Belong in Diapers
Boys are messy creatures. From their sticky fingers to their questionable aim in the bathroom, boys have never been good at keeping things clean. A diaper just simplifies the whole process—no more "oops, I missed" or "it was just an accident!"
Moms and girlfriends are already cleaning up after them. Ever noticed how boys conveniently “forget” how to do laundry, dishes, or pick up their own socks? They already expect someone else to handle their messes—diapers just make it official!
They think farting is funny. So let’s see how they like a full diaper. Boys love to giggle about their own gas, but let’s see how funny it is when there’s more than just air in their diaper. Oh, what's that? Suddenly it's "not so funny"? Thought so!
They have the attention span of a goldfish. Oh, look! A ball! A car! A flashing light! Boys get so distracted by the simplest things—who has time to actually remember to use the potty when there are way more important things to focus on? Best to keep them safely diapered so they don’t make a mess when they inevitably forget.
They have NO shame. Boys will scratch, burp, and do all sorts of gross things in public without a second thought. If they have no problem acting like babies in front of everyone, why not dress them like one too?
They never know when to stop playing. Boys will run around, roughhouse, and completely ignore their obvious potty signals until—oopsie! Too late! Rather than trusting them with big boy underwear (as if!), it’s just safer to keep them padded so they can go whenever they inevitably lose track of time.
They’re so lazy. Let’s be honest, even if a boy could make it to the potty, would he really want to? Getting up, stopping what he's doing, actually aiming—so much effort! It's just easier to let him go in his diaper like the helpless little thing he is.
They still act like babies, so they might as well wear what babies wear. Boys whine when they don’t get their way, throw tantrums over the smallest things, and sulk when they lose. If they’re going to act like fussy little toddlers, they should be dressed like one too—diapers included!
They hate being told what to do. Which makes it even more fun! The best part? They’ll huff and puff, but there’s nothing they can do about it. They can squirm all they want—at the end of the day, they’ll still be right where they belong: safely diapered.
Deep down, they know they belong in diapers. At the end of the day, all their silly protests and puffed-up bravado don’t change the truth—boys just aren’t meant for potty training. They’re much better off being padded, protected, and properly taken care of. And while that will never change, their diapers certainly will—again and again and again
Please reblog I you agree, that all boys should be in diapers 24/7! Thank you @all4thedips for your suggestions and help.
Oh, ja, bitte!! 😳
There’s something cute about a boy in pink, girly diapers.🥰
For some reason today not knowing if I will ever have a little again, is making me sad. I'll be fine, but right now I'm gonna pout ☹️
........ and yes mama's pout too 🤭🤭
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And so many littles out there in this cruel, cold and grey world have the same thougts and lose more and more of their hope to find a loving mommy. Why is it so hard to find another and get together?? 😞😟
Unser Abendritual - Schlaflied mit Mami
Schlaf, mein Schätzchen, komm zur Ruh, mach nun deine Äuglein zu. der Schnuller tanzt, die Windel weich, Schäfchen holt dich ins Traumreich!
Husch ins Bettchen, Nacht ist da, morgen weckt dich die Mama. Wenns leis raschelt in der Nacht, weiß ich, wer ins Höschen macht.
Häschen wacht nun über dich, sichrer Schlaf im weichen Licht. Fest gewickelt liegst du fein, Bettchen gibt Geborgenheit.
Husch ins Bett, die Nacht ist da, morgen weckt dich die Mama. Wenns leis raschelt in der Nacht, weiß ich, wer ins Höschen macht.
Und während du im Bettchen liegst, dich ganz leis im Träumchen wiegst, zieht sich Mama ganz fein an – braucht jetzt einen richtgen Mann!
Husch ins Bettchen, Nacht ist da, morgen weckt dich die Mama. Wenn es laut wird in der Nacht, wird Mamas Höschen heiß gemacht.
Our bedtime ritual - Lullaby with mommy
Sleep, my sweetheart, rest your head, close your little eyes in bed. The pacifier dances, the diaper is soft, sheep will take you to dreamland, aloft!
Hurry to bed, the night is here, tomorrow Mama will wake you, my dear. When it rustles softly in the night, I know who fills their pants in the quiet light.
The bunny watches over you, safe sleep in soft light too. Wrapped up tight, you're lying sweet, the bed gives comfort, oh so neat.
Hurry to bed, the night is here, tomorrow Mama will wake you, my dear. When it rustles softly in the night, I know who fills their pants in the quiet light.
And while you lie in bed so still, rocked gently by your dream-filled will, Mama dresses up so fine – she now needs a real man to shine!
Hurry to bed, the night is here, tomorrow Mama will wake you, my dear. When it gets loud in the night, Mama’s panties will feel the heat all tight.
❤️“Ive got you little one, now let’s get you changed and ready for preschool”❤️
Yes 🥰
☀️☁️ Sunny Little ☁️☀️
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Pure happiness and joy 💖
Pure Lebensfreude 💖