My loves, you can't lose divine union with your whore energy. You must truly release your "good girl" inheritance as well. That has been the huge difference between me and most of my female relatives and friends from back in the day. At my high school reunion online, classmates from 1994 looked far older than they were/are. It wasn’t about wrinkles. Wrinkles are human and they are beautiful. It was about vitality. The spark was gone. Many I am chronologically older than, but look and feel younger in real time. They ask me WTF I'm doing. Baby, it's my "whore" that is highly creative. What I’m maintaining or being responsible for is my creative, sensual energy, not in reckless behavior, but presence with it. When that current keeps flowing, you remain lit from within. And that internal light changes everything.
In other words, you lose your whore ENERGY, then you lose your fire, spark, and real life fire and aliveness. Let me be clear, I'm not talking about "turning tricks." When I say "whore," I speaking specifically about turning over your life force like how farmers turn over soil before planting into the ground. I'm talking about: Staying connected to your vitality. Feeling at home in your body. Moving through the world with playful magnetism. Owning your sensual nature without shame. Letting creativity and desire circulate, even when you’re celibate or as you wash dishes.
Even if celibate, you must feel your own whore ENERGY when you simply sashay down the street after dinner on your digestive walk. Or get into your whore energy through your vocal cords when you talk on the phone to a friend. It's critical if you are female to not lose your whore, i.e. your wholeness, the unification of Mary Magdalene and Mother Mary, whom patriarchy split apart and turned into two women instead of leaving as ONE WHOLE WOMAN.
If you are in a monogamous relationship, you still must keep curiosity and flirtation with life, creative expression, and pleasure in simple things like when talking, laughing, dressing, or dancing. My whore energy shows up when I lift weight or spread in a deep stretch. I don't just flop down on my mat mindlessly. I spread and straddle onto my mat. In other words, you have to feel like water, like you like sex, enjoy sound, things like that, even if you are not having sex with anyone. That energy jiggling from you is a big time creative frequency that helps to regenerate your tissues. As a female, we were meant to be warm and wet for no reason at all. That is whore energy. Never forget that.
If you want to move into new narratives, you will always need access to your fire, your whore. In this work, the key distinction I make is about energy and not about sexual activity. It’s about ownership of sensuality, warmth, and creative charge. I re-frame “whore” as “whole” — meaning integrated, embodied, and expressive. If you are triggered by the word "whore" or just don't like it, consider not stopping there and turning away from the invitation, but reach for a reframe instead. Feel free to use phrases like "erotic innocence," "feminine vitality" "sensual aliveness," "creative sexual energy," or "embodied magnetism" in place of "whore." I use those phrases sometimes, but none of them activate me like the word "whore."
Whatever language you use, don't lose contact with this energy because you had a break up. Don't abandon your spark to become socially acceptable, fit in, be successful or get things done in life. Keep your inner current flowing in EVERYTHING YOU DO. Those who stay connected to their sensual, creative energy tend to move through life with more radiance and ease overtime.
Because this whore energy is creative and practical. It keeps you expressive and regenerative. It supports emotional openness. It helps with mental haelth. It contributes to your confidence and magnetism. When it’s alive, your body reflects it. You move differently. You age differently. You think differently. You walk differently. You create differently. You live life differently.
-India Ame'ye
