Apparently there is a post and a blog  that being sent anonymously to several people around the internet. this is a little disturbing, and when it first came out, honestly, I didnât know what to do. The post implies that I am a rapist and raped my sister. the post doesnât provide proof, but thatâs certainly enough for some people on tumblr.Â
My sister and I DID deal with some shit. together. and I donât have a bunch of juicy hearsay, but i do have my sisterâs own words.Â
I called my sister, the only person in the world who can really vouch for me on this. I told her about what was going on and I didnât really know what to do. She was extremely willing to help me after hearing the situation. This is something both of us have lived with for years. As CHILDREN (under 13), both of us had some very serious experiences, including abuse from others. But as an older sibling I felt a lot of guilt growing up about this. The older I got the more I blamed myself for what went on, even though iâve learned that nothing was really my fault CONSIDERING I WAS A CHILD and BEING SLIGHTLY OLDER had no baring on what we went through.
The other thing that I generally keep private is that when I was 18-19 (which is about the age that this post suggests i would be) I was sexually abused by a boyfriend for extended periods of time. Several friends can back up this story, though I shouldnât have to back up my own rape. However, if you are skeptical, you can feel free to message me and I can put you in contact with people who know whats up here.Â
There is ONE person who knows both of these details. She had tried to use them to sway mutual friends during our fallout. The person in question originally had sent messages to people I knew, only off anon. Basically, this is a personal drama situation that has been blown out of control by someone so malicious that they would twist two personal experiences from my past that they were told in confidence and fabricate their own story out of it.
This is someone that is so intent on their personal vendetta that they felt the need to anonymously create a blog where they would threaten me and use triggering instances of my past to try to hurt me publicly. Had they had much real evidence besides some goofy tweets iâve made, they wouldnât be interested in hiding anonymously.Â
On that note, here is my primary source. I wasnât 100% sure how to do this without putting my sister in danger, but we have tried to work something where not only could she express herself in her own words, but she could also confirm her identity enough that it would be worth more than an angry anonymous person.Â
This person isnât just threatening me. They are threatening my family. They are throwing something out into the void that affects peopleâs lives, and all for the sake of a petty grudge.Â
Itâs absolutely disgusting that I would need to call up my 20 year old sister (who has her own life and struggles and does NOT need to be reminded of this time in her life) to speak for me here. Its ridiculous that as a victim of rape, I would have to defend myself against an accusation that I inflicted and perpetuated the very thing that happened to me only 6 year ago, or that I should be forced to address some VERY PERSONAL parts of my life publicly. This is a really fantastic example of why tumblr witch hunts can be dangerous.Â
 heres a screencap of her message
I am at an utter loss of words as to what i just read. ) I am literally at a loss of words because that is literally all bullshit. you must especially believe me because yes- i have and always have had a love-hate relationship with my sister. and I have always been aware that it is the same way around. we are both female, and 4 years apart. we were always at different stages, trying to out cool or out shine each other. trying to put our foot in the door into similar groups of people, and then separating into different lifestyles and clashing very normal. but she is also my older sibling. and even when we didnât get along, we have always shared a similar sense of humor and a love of stories and movies and characters and books-
and someone is  is claiming that she raped me(??????) I feel so beyond offended and appalled and honestly more than anything violated that someone is claiming that  she was the cause of a traumatic event that happened to me- especially that my sister, whom i love and respect endlessly, to be the abuser whoever would have the audacity to to such a thing is out mf my reach to mentally even imagine. I feel crushed that my sisters character has ever been questioned or misconstrued or warped like this. Iâm not sure if Iâm mostly heartbroken over this or enraged. I know a lot of people who know her have probably read this, and I am absolutely sure that they feel the same way. I donât really have any sort of âinternet presence but felt the need to speak out about this. not only for my sister, but for myself. i have NEVER felt abused by my sister. anything that happened to us happened to both of us. It was something that we suffered together.
heres a photo of her with the message she sent.
here is a photo of her timeline, to prove that her facebook account is legit
You can also contact her via twitter if you feel the need. She created this account to liveblog game of thrones to me a few months back.Â
https://twitter.com/pukequeen2014
basically whoever posted this shit is scum of the earth, and for every disagreement my sister and I have ever had, we agree on this one absolutely. I doubt this post will get as much traction as the sleezebag who made the slander blog considering i donât plan on anonymously dropping it into peopleâs inboxes, but hopefully all of this primary source is enough to basically squash this piece of garbage who thinks its cool to use someoneâs personal trauma and tumblrâs tendency to witch hunt as a way to hurt me.
on a related note, itâs really classy of OP to use this particular brand of abuse as a way to attack a rape victim. way to go i guess.Â
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