RJ Lockehart

Queer Fantasy | Artist | A-spec | Punk | Monster Enjoyer | Werewolf Enthusiast

[literarymenace]

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》 Local aroace & lover of fantasy and monsters.

》 Damaged characters and happy endings are my jam.

(this is basically my junk account now)

Story stuff -> @thefortunatemisfortunesseries

Regular stuff -> @virtualmenace

[virtualmenace]

The idea that not being able to feel an emotion/do a particular thing makes you less human is ableism. Calling someone a narcissist/psycho/sociopath/schitzo because you think they're mean or don't like them is ableism.

[literarymenace]

Obligatory reminder that the bechdel test is satire and not meant to be a serious tool of literary analysis.

[literarymenace]

Werewolf weight gain, my beloved <3

[thefortunatemisfortunesseries]

Alright, who wins? A group of monster hunters with 2 decades of murderin' experience or a jaded twink that just discovered werewolves exist? Place your bets.

[tuherrus]

you don't even have a dog

[madamefeu]

Any person: *Talks about how Christianity ruined their life, and how Christian institutions gave their abusers access to them, and how the bible is used to justify abuse, slavery, misogyny, rape, and bigotry against homosexuals, with explicit verses condoning all of those things*

Christians: But they’re not real Christians! I’m Christian and I don’t do that! Jesus wouldn’t approve of that! Jesus loves you! God is good! God loves you! Christianity is good! We don’t care what actually happened to you, we just don’t like you viewing our religion in a negative light and we’re using it to silence you! We’re good people and we deserve Heaven! 😇

[whereserpentswalk]

Imagine if any other privileged group did that. Imagine if you talked about white supremacy and most white people said that the people doing that weren't racially pure as an explanation.

[madamefeu]

^ This

[businessofwomen]

Stop asking little girls if they have boyfriends Stop referring to the boys that little girls are friends with as their “little boyfriends” Stop telling little girls they’re going to have boyfriends or be “boy crazy” Stop raising children on heteronormativity and let them be children

[madmadmadamem-deactivated202006]

Additionally: 1. It’s not funny 2. It’s not cute 3. You are embarrassing them 4. You are completely disregarding them when they tell you “no” and you insist

[turning21wasunimpressive-deacti]

Stop doing the same to little boys too.

They are not “a little lady’s man.”

Don’t excuse him picking on a girl as him having a crush. Correct the behavior and stop treating it like it’s cute and normal.

Also stop insisting little boys have crushes on significantly older women. It’s gross.

Just let kids be kids.

[nerdgul]

Its not “men and women just cant be friends” its “you fourced romantic implications on children and made them uncomfortable/embarassed, socially conditioning them to not platonically interact with the opposite sex”

Stop it. let kids be kids. Let kids be friends

[kketamine]

EXACTLY

[aro-ace-culture-is]

Aroace culture is loving whump and sickfics because they allow you to explore love and intimacy without the expectation of sex

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[ndcultureis]

ND culture is no object permanence. If someone hurts me, regardless of how close they thought we were before, they are nothing to me now. I no longer love or care for them, because now they’re just ‘that bitch who hurt me’.

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[aro-ace-culture-is]

Aroace culture is I only like romance books if they’re queer. Gay? Gimme. Lesbian? Love it. Bi for bi? Beautiful stuff. But the instant that you try to sell me a romance where both of the leads are cisgender heteroromantic heterosexuals, I’m out. If there’s no queer element for my aroace ass to relate to, I’m not interested.

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[madamefeu]

Some affirmations for people with trauma caused by christianity:

There is no such thing as original sin

You are not inherently evil or sinful

Making mistakes doesn’t make you evil or sinful. It makes you human, and all humans make mistakes

You do not deserve eternal torment for any reason

You do not deserve eternal torment for being queer

You do not deserve eternal torment for being neurodivergent

You are not a bad person for leaving the church

You deserve love

You deserve respect

You deserve freedom from the church

[aro-ace-culture-is]

Aroace culture is ‘This show/book/game has great aroace rep!’ And it’s NEVER THE MAIN CHARACTER.

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[celinethefeline]

[madamefeu]

Neurotypicals try to call out shitty behaviour without being ableist challenge (Impossible)

[aro-ace-culture-is]

Aroace culture is punk. Seeing how society views relationships (as exploitable and a hierarchy) can make it easier to be aware of other weird/harmful aspects of mainstream culture.

I don't want romance or sex so I worry less about being physically attractive so I'm less susceptible to peer pressure and capitalistic marketing beauty campaigns. Which means I'm critical of things like the Ozempic craze and "clean girl aesthetic" and current (conservative style) fashion trends. Does everyone really want to wear all beige and be stick thin and waste time doing "no makeup makeup looks" ?? Or do they just think they need to do that to be loved/accepted/happy/marketable.

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[madamefeu]

Hot take: Saying to a romance-repulsed aromantic ‘Aw, that’s so sad! I hope you find someone someday’ is like saying to someone who’s on birth control ‘I hope you get pregnant!’ NO. Why are you wishing our worst case scenarios that we’re actively avoiding on us?