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ă Local aroace & lover of fantasy and monsters.
ă Damaged characters and happy endings are my jam.
(this is basically my junk account now)
Story stuff -> @thefortunatemisfortunesseries
Regular stuff -> @virtualmenace
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ă Local aroace & lover of fantasy and monsters.
ă Damaged characters and happy endings are my jam.
(this is basically my junk account now)
Story stuff -> @thefortunatemisfortunesseries
Regular stuff -> @virtualmenace
The idea that not being able to feel an emotion/do a particular thing makes you less human is ableism. Calling someone a narcissist/psycho/sociopath/schitzo because you think they're mean or don't like them is ableism.
Obligatory reminder that the bechdel test is satire and not meant to be a serious tool of literary analysis.
Werewolf weight gain, my beloved <3
Alright, who wins? A group of monster hunters with 2 decades of murderin' experience or a jaded twink that just discovered werewolves exist? Place your bets.
you don't even have a dog
Any person: *Talks about how Christianity ruined their life, and how Christian institutions gave their abusers access to them, and how the bible is used to justify abuse, slavery, misogyny, rape, and bigotry against homosexuals, with explicit verses condoning all of those things*
Christians: But theyâre not real Christians! Iâm Christian and I donât do that! Jesus wouldnât approve of that! Jesus loves you! God is good! God loves you! Christianity is good! We donât care what actually happened to you, we just donât like you viewing our religion in a negative light and weâre using it to silence you! Weâre good people and we deserve Heaven! đ
Imagine if any other privileged group did that. Imagine if you talked about white supremacy and most white people said that the people doing that weren't racially pure as an explanation.
^ This
Stop asking little girls if they have boyfriends Stop referring to the boys that little girls are friends with as their âlittle boyfriendsâ Stop telling little girls theyâre going to have boyfriends or be âboy crazyâ Stop raising children on heteronormativity and let them be children
Additionally: 1. Itâs not funny 2. Itâs not cute 3. You are embarrassing them 4. You are completely disregarding them when they tell you ânoâ and you insist
Stop doing the same to little boys too.
They are not âa little ladyâs man.â
Donât excuse him picking on a girl as him having a crush. Correct the behavior and stop treating it like itâs cute and normal.
Also stop insisting little boys have crushes on significantly older women. Itâs gross.
Just let kids be kids.
Its not âmen and women just cant be friendsâ its âyou fourced romantic implications on children and made them uncomfortable/embarassed, socially conditioning them to not platonically interact with the opposite sexâ
Stop it. let kids be kids. Let kids be friends
EXACTLY
Aroace culture is loving whump and sickfics because they allow you to explore love and intimacy without the expectation of sex
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ND culture is no object permanence. If someone hurts me, regardless of how close they thought we were before, they are nothing to me now. I no longer love or care for them, because now theyâre just âthat bitch who hurt meâ.
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Aroace culture is I only like romance books if theyâre queer. Gay? Gimme. Lesbian? Love it. Bi for bi? Beautiful stuff. But the instant that you try to sell me a romance where both of the leads are cisgender heteroromantic heterosexuals, Iâm out. If thereâs no queer element for my aroace ass to relate to, Iâm not interested.
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Some affirmations for people with trauma caused by christianity:
There is no such thing as original sin
You are not inherently evil or sinful
Making mistakes doesnât make you evil or sinful. It makes you human, and all humans make mistakes
You do not deserve eternal torment for any reason
You do not deserve eternal torment for being queer
You do not deserve eternal torment for being neurodivergent
You are not a bad person for leaving the church
You deserve love
You deserve respect
You deserve freedom from the church
Aroace culture is âThis show/book/game has great aroace rep!â And itâs NEVER THE MAIN CHARACTER.
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Neurotypicals try to call out shitty behaviour without being ableist challenge (Impossible)
Aroace culture is punk. Seeing how society views relationships (as exploitable and a hierarchy) can make it easier to be aware of other weird/harmful aspects of mainstream culture.
I don't want romance or sex so I worry less about being physically attractive so I'm less susceptible to peer pressure and capitalistic marketing beauty campaigns. Which means I'm critical of things like the Ozempic craze and "clean girl aesthetic" and current (conservative style) fashion trends. Does everyone really want to wear all beige and be stick thin and waste time doing "no makeup makeup looks" ?? Or do they just think they need to do that to be loved/accepted/happy/marketable.
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Hot take: Saying to a romance-repulsed aromantic âAw, thatâs so sad! I hope you find someone somedayâ is like saying to someone whoâs on birth control âI hope you get pregnant!â NO. Why are you wishing our worst case scenarios that weâre actively avoiding on us?