So Your Little Is Wetting the Bed
To be absolutely clear: this is all quite unserious advice directed to consenting adults in a power dynamic relationship. Consent is paramount! That said, if you want to shop for some fun AB/DL items, check out the links included below.
First of all, congratulations! The potty untraining process can be hella tough. But that first wet bed – or that first soaked nighttime diaper – marks a major milestone for the two of you. Of course, it gives any sensible caregiver the right to keep their Little in diapers every night thereafter. But what to do after that?
Here are a few ideas on how to keep up their momentum:
Have them buy a plastic bed protector. Of course no one at the store will seriously guess that the blushing Little needs it for themselves – you know, in case their diaper leaks!
Reward wet diapers with cummies. Make a rule that every morning they wake up wet, they should rub, grind, or whatever they need to do to make cummies in their diaper. You need to reinforce that mental connection between wetting and pleasure, after all!
Condition them mentally with hypnosis every night. Sure, they might not think that stuff works. But it'll be hard to argue when they wake up soaked after falling asleep to whispers telling them to let go and relax and wet…
Teach them to recite positive affirmations of their new status every night and (wet) morning. These can be simple statements like "I am safe in my diapers, I relax in my diapers" or "I am a bedwetter, and good bedwetters love their diapers," etc.
Get them a smart water bottle like this one. Set it up to share the Little's drinking progress with their caregiver, and be sure to set those intake goals nice and high!
Add boosters to their diapers: like LivDry, Dubblers, or Rearz. Far better to be safe than sorry! And besides, it's not like anyone else will see them waddling off to bed with a butt like a beach ball, right?
Put them in diapers with strong adhesive tapes like Trest or Megamax. This will ensure they aren't tempted to take off their protection during the night.
On a related note, invest in some plastic pants – locking or not will be up to you. Can't have pesky leaks or meddlesome hands making a mess of things now, can we?
Consider switching to cloth diapers. Sure, they might be a bit embarrassing to wash, and yeah, they're almost impossible to hide. But your Little really does care about the environment, don't they?
Get them pajamas that complement their new underwear. Onesies, back-zip sleepers, footie pajamas, cute two-pieces, or even short nightgowns seem appropriate for a Little who can't keep themselves dry!
Suggest a cloth, locking diaper cover if they become resistant or try to take off their padding. It's for their own good, after all.
Give them things to make bedtime more fun. Pacifiers and stuffies seem appropriate for bedwetters, and they're sure to help them sleep even more soundly!
Have any more suggestions? Let us all know!
(And yeah, I'm totally gonna tag @batarangaroo and her Daddy here. For no particular reason, of course… 😈)
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