Repaired Library For Kinksters
Please every reblog this just in case my three new backups fail…
Welcome to the Library For Kinksters. Check back often as the library is updated frequently.
NOTE: In areas of gender or identity most articles are transferable. Articles on subs apply to anyone regardless of gender, etc. The same is true for Dom/Dommes - all articles about Doms applies equally to Dommes.
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Different Kinds Of Aftercare
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Providing aftercare to your Dominant/Top
Responsibility of Aftercare
Some thoughts on aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Collaring: No, it isn’t just a fashion statement in BDSM
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
CONSENT IS MANDATORY AND NON-NEGOTIABLE
Stoya’s guide to sexual consent in porn
Dommes/Doms, Daddies & Masters
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
10 Considerations for Aspiring Dominants
10 Reasons you Suck as a Dom
10 Things We Subs Need From You But Won’t Say Out Loud
10 Tips For Spanking A Little
12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For
50 things a Caregiver could do for their little!
100 Nonsexual Ways to Make Me Feel Little
100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
Adorable names for the little man in your life
Alternative Names For “Daddy”
Asserting Ownership - Rules
Dominance and Self-Control
Dominants Need Training Also
Ethics of Dominance – New Submissives
Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
How to be the Perfect Daddy in 10 Steps!
Ignoring in a D/s Relationship
Ignoring your little is never OK. Period. Point Blank.
Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
Long Distance Help For Submissives
Male Dominance - Reality and Fiction
Master List Of Punishments and Rewards
New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
Observations On Doms By A Submissive
Punishment Management: A Guide To Unruly Submissives
Qualities of A Successful Dominant
Questions To Ask Your Little
Rewards Of Having A Submissive In Your Life
Rules For Owning A Catgirl
So You Think You Are A Daddy Dom?
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
The Daddy Dominant’s Creed
Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
Things You Can Do to be a Better Daddy
Tips for Taking Care of a Little When They’re Sick
Traits of a Genuine Dominant
Websites/Pages You Can Get Stuff For Your Little On
What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective
What does the title Daddy mean?
What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
What is a Dominant & how to be a good one
What It Means To Be A Dominant
What Makes A Good Dominant
What To Do When Your Little Has The Grumps!
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things a Dom Expects A Sub To Know Without Being Told
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
10 Top Little Space Activities
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
12 Things Every Submissive Should Know
16 Things That Make Me Feel Little
21 First Steps for Daddy Dom & little girl
40 Things To Do With Your Stuffies
50 Great Rewards For Your Little Princess
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
101 Little Space Activities
A Bottom’s Responsibility
A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive
Ask A Million And One Questions
Activities Littles Can Do Without Caregivers
Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Becoming A Sub: The Starter Guide
Bedtime Stories For Littles
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coping with Emotional Sub Drop
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Daddy Is NOT Always Right
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How to Get Your Little to Go to Bed: A Guide
How to Interview a Dom/Master Prospect
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
How to Spot a Fake “Daddy”
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Littles vs Ageplayers: Why they aren’t the same
Non-binary pet names for littles
On Being a Woman and a Little
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Phrases that little me loves to hear
Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’
So, What is a ‘Little’? An Essay…
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Sub Frenzy – A Seductive State of Potential Trouble
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive’s Owner Manual
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Submissive Traits - Leadership
Submissive Traits - Service
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
Websites/Pages You Can Get Stuff For Your Little On
What is the definition of a Baby Girl?
What do you do when a submissive says a safe word?
When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.
When your Daddy is having a bad day
Wonderful World Of Littles
Words Have Meaning - Submissive and Slave Explained
Your Rights As A Submissive
Long Distance & Online Relationships
10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Kink And The World Of Warcraft
Long Distance Relationships Ideas
Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
Meeting For The First Time
Online D/s Relationships - A Personal View
Punishments for LDR DD/LG (CG/L) Couples
The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Things To Help Long Distance Relationships
Ways a Dom can be more involved in his submissive’s daily life.
10 Habits of Happy Couples
10 Old Fashioned Dating Habits We Should Make Cool Again
10 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship
10 Tips For Keeping Your Love Alive
10 Top Communication Mistakes
10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”
BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
Building Trust in Relationships
Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
Crucial Ingredients for a Great Relationship
Daddy Doms and their little girls
Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
Dangers of Dom/Sub Gravity
Depictions of D/S as Unromantic
Dominance, Submission and Freedom
Factors That Make A Relationship
Finding Love When You Least Expect It
Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
Forming A D/s Relationship
Great Idea For All DDlg & CGl Relationships When You’re Together
Green Flags For Relationships
Importance Of Communication
Is Your Partner Having A Bad Day? Here’s How To Help
Help for When a Relationship Ends
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Build A Healthy Relationship
How to Create a Winning Relationship
How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”
How to Recover from a Broken Heart
How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
Importance Of Trust In A Relationship
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner - Part 1
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 2 - My Partner is Not Interested
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 3- My Partner is Interested!
Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
LDR: Tie A Yellow Ribbon…
Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
Searching for a D/s partner?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
Science Behind A Happy Relationship
Stop Arguments Before They Start
The Rewards of a Submissive
Types Of Relationship Insecurity
Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Shibari Tutorial: Box Tie
Shibari Tutorial: Coin Basket Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Consequence Collar & Cuff
Shibari Tutorial: Corset Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Dragonfly Sleeve
Shibari Tutorial: Frog Tie
Shibari Tutorial: Hand Ties
Shibari Tutorial: Hip Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Hitachi Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Hog Tie
Shibari Tutorial: Lover’s Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Pearl Harness & Wrist Cuffs
Shibari Tutorial: Rope Ladder
Shibari Tutorial: Side-arm Harness
Shibari Tutorial: Samurai Tie
Shibari Tutorial: Tortoise Shell Body Suit
Another life ruined because of the morality police
Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
BREAKING BONES AS PUNISHMENT IS NOT KINK, IT IS ABUSE
DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Infographic: Difference Between BDSM & Abuse
Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t
PSA: Be Cautious When Choking
Safety when looking for a Potential Dom/me
“Tumblr dom” versus Daddy Dom
21 Tips to Keep Your Shit Together When You’re Depressed
7 Tips for Being a More Likeable Person
7 Tips for Leading a Fulfilling Life
8 Powerful Steps to Positive Thinking
10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
10 Steps To Positive Body Image
10 Ways To Show Love To Someone With Depression
13 Things mentally strong people avoid
15 Important Life Lessons
35 Practical Tools for Men to Further Feminist Revolution
Alternatives To Negative Feelings
Avoid Some of the Main Brain Damaging Habits
Battling the complications of varying emotional states
BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers
Characteristics of Genuinely Low Self-Esteem
Communication Tips to Save Relationships
Dalai Lama’s Guide Rules For Living
Dealing with Feelings of Shame and Worthlessness
Do You Love Someone With Depression?
Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
How To Cope With Jealousy
How To Cope With Test Anxiety
How To Deal With Your Enemies
How to Get Over Feeling Sad
How To Increase Your Patience
How to Let Go of Fear of Abandonment
How To Make A Gliitery “Calm Bottle”
How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
How To Take Care Of Yourself
Living a Life that is Meaningful
Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
Meditation And Mindfulness
People You Need In Your Life
Psychologists Say Coloring Is The Best Alternative To Meditation
Qualities of a Winning Personality
Quick and Simple Guide To Anxiety Disorders
Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
Taking A Look At Depression
Tips for Getting What you Want out of Life
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
Tips for Overcoming Shyness
Tips for Recovering from Codependency
Tips for Showing Kindness
Tips For When You Feel Angry
Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
Things To Do When You Are Sad
Very Brief Guide To Self Care
What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
Why Do I Feel Unloveable?
10 Chastity / Forced Denial Benefits
10 Traits of a Blowjob Queen
50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
50 Things Public Education Probably FAILED To Teach You
Anal Sex - An Owner’s Manual
Butt Stuff - A FAQ For Anal Play
Changing the way your cum tastes
Comprehensive Sex Ed: The Basics
Disability and Sexuality Resources
Edged Beyond the Point-of-No-Return
Fellatio Tips - It ain’t all about sucking
Head-Play: Excellent Masturbation Technique!
How I Became a Queer Heterosexual by Clyde Smith (1997)
How to Have a Female Orgasm That Lasts 15-Minutes
How To Make A Girl Squirt
How To Tell Your Son About Sex
Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
Managing decreasing libido in D/S
Perfect, Real-World Blowjob Technique Part 1
Perfect, Real-World Blowjob Technique Part 2
Perfect, Real-World Blowjob Technique Part 3
Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Squirting Educational Video
Unsung Virtues of Hard, Fast, Quick Sex
Why It’s Important For Her To Cum First
Why Some Pain Helps Us Feel Pleasure
Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
How to make a Hitachi Magic Wand Chair
How to hide a suspension point in your celling
Lube Compatibility: Sex Toys & Safer Sex Barriers
Safety Guide to The Violet Wand
Types Of Wax For Wax Play
Vaginal Juicers: A Buyer’s Guide
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
10 Tips when Spanking a Little
15 Points of a BDSM relationship
30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
A List Of Books About BDSM
An Instructional Guide to Kinks, Fetishes and the World of BDSM
Asserting Ownership - Posing
Basics of Domination and Submission
BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
First Things First - A BDSM Checklist
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 3 - Structure and Discipline
Female Stimulation and Forced Orgasms
Forced Orgasms, With Love!
Guide To Spanking & Impact Play
Hazards of Ignoring in a D/s Relationship
How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
How to Choose and Use a Safeword
How to get your Sub in subspace, a guide for beginners
How to Lace Up Your Corset - A Helpful Infographic
How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
How To Make A Comfort Box
Ignoring your sub is an act of abuse
Infographic: Anatomy Of A Spanking
Infographic: Tips On Breath Play
Introducing your partner to a new fetish
Kinky Sex And Bondage Tips For S&M First Timers
Learning To Trust Your Instincts
Matters of the D/s Heart: A Serious and Long Overdue Conversation
Mixing Vanilla with the D/s Spice - Opening Pandora’s Box of the Heart
Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting
Pet Play: How Kittens Can Annoy Their Owners
Pet Play: How To Make Pet Food For Your Pet
Punishments in BDSM Relationships
Rape Fantasy & Resistance Play
Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
Remission, Revitalization and anchoring of life through D/S
Safewords and Safesigns 101
S&M for beginners: Easing into a new situation
Should you mix personal fetishes into punishments?
Slave Position Training Map
Sting Levels of Impact Toys
Submission Training With Love - A Vanilla Perspective
SubmissiveFeminist’s Guide to Behaviour Modification
The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
The Need For Rules and Discipline
Thoughts on Protocol - “The Invisible Leash”
Training in D/s: Why? (1 of 3)
Training in D/s: How? (2 of 3)
Training in D/s: Thoughts & Concerns (3 of 3)
