WAYS TO HELP YOUR CAREGIVER, EVEN WHEN YOU FEEL VERY "LITTLE"
Return the praise: Caregivers work so hard to give their little(s) so much love and praise, but they still need it back! Say thank you, say you appreciate them, and show them the praise! Nobody is above enjoying being recognized for doing well!
Give them a relaxing space: We all need a place to relax, and if you can provide that? Awesome. Giving your caregiver a relaxing and rejuvenating space to be with you will certainly reap you further enjoyment and time together, and you get to relax and enjoy their comfort too! Win / win!
Put the attention back on your caregiver: You don't always need 10000% of their attention, you know...sometimes the best thing to do is shower your caregiver with YOUR attention, and give them a reminder that you can put the focus and attention back on them!
Share a cute stuffie for stuffie snuggles: Not every little cares about stuffies and not everyone even has them, but for the vast majority of caregivers, being presented a stuffie and told to cuddle it cuz their little one filled it with magical baby cuddles? That's Better than 8 hours sleep and a back rub, that's like MAGIC levels of relaxation and adorableness
Remove boring chores: I might not love doing laundry but if I'm with momma and I can take care of the laundry, clean the kitchen, and take out the trash while she's out working, she'll love it. LOVE it. Most caregivers get used to their little being a bit stuck in their own world and head... and taking care of the boring daily chores is a great reminder of your affection, your help, and your love.
MASSAGE: Momma can attest that I'm a massager through and through. I love giving and receiving, I believe that massage is basically magical, and I can turn her on without any inappropriate touches, just knowing where on her body hurts and giving relief. Plus, showing I love her body, love how she looks and feels in my heart and my hands, it's a huge thing for momma! Somehow it turns her on like crazy to be out of pain and feel sexy, desirable, and cared for... who knew?
Babyish cuteness: Only littles understand how much cuteness we contain. Hint: all of the cuteness. So when your caregiver needs an emotional battery recharge, showering them in cuteness and cuddles and littleness is a big deal! It gives them space to engage in a silly, cute way without huge effort while being given attention, cuteness, and love... what's not to love?
Cook dinner/ lunch/ breakfast! Do they work in an office? Make them a bag lunch filled with their favorite things and a cute little love note. Do they work out of the house and come home tired? Let them come home to home cooked delicious food and they'll love you for it. Breakfast in bed is also always a strong contender, assuming you don't spill or anything!
Sexy love: That's right, sexy times help your caregiver too! Maybe they need a more sexy kinky scene to break up the week, maybe they need a quickie rather vanilla and rapid, maybe they need 4 hours of tantric teasing and borderline edging. The point is: you'll know what they need as long as you're communicating, and giving them physical love as well as emotional love cab be a godsend when they're stressed!
Love notes: They don't need to be epic poems filled with rhyming couplets, they can be a sticky note that says "you're my one and only" or "baby's best mommy/ daddy/ caregiver" in crayon with a smiley. The content matters less than showing you care. Try to remember that!
Share favorites: Do they live for sports, or have a favorite show? Do they have a favorite hobby? Food? Place? Share in their joy and make sure they know you're here to help THEM feel good too!
The point is, this list is far from exhaustive and it can already be called long. There is so much more: taking care of their grocery shopping, caring for their pets, even something as tiny and seemingly unimportant as double checking they have a fresh roll of toilet paper on the roll! Taking time to care, show affection, and thank your caregivers for their love is so important. So don't forget it! I promise, you can even think of it as selfish cuz you'll equally reap the reward of a satisfied caregiver! The point is.... caregivers GIVE CARE.... and sometimes, they really need to receive it, just as much. Give them love, and they'll return it tenfold!
And as always, stay happy, stay healthy, and stay kinky!
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