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Kiddo who’s so used to taking care of themself. Making their own pasta, cutting off their own crusts, filling their own cup, putting bandaids on their own owies. Kiddo who spent so long taking care of themselves and self soothing they don’t know how to act with a carer now looking out for them. Instinct tells them self soothe, to be quiet and take care of it themselves.

Their carer finds them all the time, standing on a stool to stir pasta they’re making, muffling their cries with a teddy bear or cleaning up their own scraped knees. And carer is trying to be patient, rushes in and tries to take over so kiddo knows they’re not alone and they’re being taken care of now.

“I tan do it…”

“I know you can, button. But I wanna do it for you, okay? I like taking care of you.”

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bambi-eyed-mama

hey kiddo- you're okay, come here. everything is a bit much right now, hm? 😟💗 i know i know, you have lots of studying to do- and i'm so proud of you, little one!! you're smart and talented and so very wonderful, and it's okay to be overwhelmed!! that doesn't mean you're not good, or not enough, or behind 🫂 take a deeeep breath for me, okay? there we go, does that feel a bit better? you'll do so well in the things you're preparing for, and even if you don't - that's not the end of the world. it's okay to take a break now, it's time to rest <33

bambi-eyed-mama

⭐️ GET TO KNOW YOUR AGERE FRIENDS ⭐️

🐕 when did you regress for the first time? or was there not really a first time but small little moments?

🍓 a drink or snack you connect with regression

🧦 if you could spend your dream little day, what would it look like? money, time, location etc don't matter, it's your absolute perfect day!!

🐚 what's something you wish you could tell your regressed self / what's something you need to hear about regression?

🌾 your favourite place and time to regress (if you do it voluntarily)

🐛 a piece of media (book, song, movie...) you connect with regression

🌷 what would you tell someone who's new to regression?

🍊 do you prefer regressing alone or with others? can you do both or does only one work for you?

🦔 what does regression feel or look like to you personally?

💫 in what way has regression made your life better?

🦢 do you struggle with embarrassment or shame about regression? what do you think could help people who do?

🧃do you have any gear for regression? it doesn't have to be typical (like a paci, colouring books, diapers...), just things that make regression easier for you

💞 remember: we're all here together!! we're stronger as a community, let's fill this space with love 💞

kiddoscorner

For regressors who struggle with Independance/Hyperindependance…

And for anyone else who these apply to…

You are worthy of being taken care of

You are not broken;You are not a lost cause

You are still capable of love and gentle affection;Intimacy is not impossible

You can be scared, You are allowed to have things be new for you

Things can take time and be a process;And people can love you along the way

You don’t have to have everything figured out immediately

Its okay for your little/middle/baby space to be emotional and/or hard

Your struggles do not make you undeserving of patience, time, and care

Its okay to cry when you are met with caregiving-like attention

You are a good kid, And deserve to be treated as such

Its okay to cry about the childhood you wish you had

No matter how much older you try to act, you still deserve space to be little

Its okay if you don’t know how to react to caregiving

Its okay if you really wish you had a caregiver

Its okay if you aren’t comfortable having a caregiver

Trying your best is enough; you deserve support

Its okay if you have a hard time regressing; you still deserve to be a kid

Its okay if you regress alot; you still deserve to be a kid

Its okay if you can only regress with the assistance of another person

Its okay if you can only regress within the comfort of yourself

Its okay if you want to share your regression time with others but don’t know how/cant yet

Its okay if your caregiver is fictional because letting in others in such a vulnerable state is hard

Its okay to project on fictional characters; because you don’t know how to be little and also yourself

There is time to be the kid you deserve to have time to be

Its okay to be upset over what you didn’t get in your childhood; that you deserved/deserve

Its okay to feel like you had alot in your childhood, but still have these struggles; that you deserve patience with

Its okay to be nostalgic over some things from your childhood;but recognize you should’ve got more

You can reclaim childhood experiences you were deprived/excluded from

Time will not run out for you to be allowed to be treated with such kindness and compassion

You are deserving of parental-like affection no matter how old you are or how long-ago your childhood was

Its okay to be upset if you were supported materialistically but not emotionally

Its okay to be upset if you were supported emotionally but struggled financially

You deserve a sense of parental/older comfort and safety; and to feel protected

Its okay to have parents; but not feel taken care of

Its okay to not have parents; and still long for that experience

Its okay to not know what being taken care of feels like

you deserve rest from fending for yourself for so long

Its okay to just age dream/fantasize about/find comfort in looking at child-like things

Its okay to only be able to involuntarily regress and its okay to only be able to voluntarily regress

Its okay not to know how you like to be treated in regards to your regression

Its okay to know exactly how you wish you were treated; but lack it

Its okay to be unsure about your regression, but find comfort in these things

Its okay even if you grew up too fast, its still in the picture to enjoy child-like things

Letting others in does not diminish your struggles

Healing does not mean it never hurt; nor that the comfort isn’t deserved

You do not need to earn the “right” to safety

Letting down your guard/Letting in others does not make you selfish or weak

Asking for help is okay, doing everything alone isn’t the only option

Its okay to have the tendency to take care of others, you are still deserving of being treated like a kid

Its okay to enjoy caring for others, but not wanting it to define your regression

You can still be a just as good of a kid even if you have responsibilities

Its okay to be a flip, your regression is still important and valid

You are still deserving of parental guidance even if you are used to doing “big” things

Its okay if you feel like you don’t “need” support, but just want it; you are deserving either way

Its okay to feel like you can do it alone, but would benefit from having someone help you

Its okay to not always know how to ask to be treated in these ways

You are not a bad kid if you have an overwhelming sense of responsibility over yourself

Its okay to have a hard time putting yourself in another persons hands

Its okay to feel nervous/anxious/uncomfortable with vulnerability; its hard

Its okay to feel like your not doing the whole “kid-thing” right, stuff like this takes time; you are enough as you are.

if they resonate with you, you deserve to hear it as well Gif credz: 🌈/🖍️/🐱

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Affirmations for age regressors

I am a good kid

I am caring and loving

I am very cute and deserve to have my needs met

I am a good friend to all people, animals, and plants

Nobody is mad at me

Even if I do a bad thing that doesn't make me a bad kid, I just need to do better in the future

All of my friends and stuffed animals love me very much

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cozy rainy/stormy night 🌧️💙

wanna haf new fwiends so wi can haf fun!!!

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sleepycg-deactivated20250203

hey, kiddo. just a reminder that you are absolutely not a bad person for prioritizing your own mental health.

you spent most of your day regressed and didn't get many tasks done? that's perfectly fine, sweetheart. regressing is you taking care of yourself. never be ashamed of that.

don't think about what you didn't do today; think about what you did do. be proud of it, no matter how small or big the task was.

i'm proud of what you did today. i'm proud of you for taking care of your mental health. you deserve to feel good.

mimis-daycare

reminder

you are a good kid

not selfish

not annoying

just trying your best

ily <3

softpastelagere

your fictional cg is petting your hair and telling you that you are so, so loved.

cozy-guy-deactivated20260105

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-> Your regression is not embarrassing.

-> You have nothing to be ashamed for.

-> You are not “gross” or “creepy”.

-> No one is owed an explanation of how or why you regress the way you do.

-> Cruel words are not a reflection of you.

-> Your caregiver is not judging you.

-> Your babbles and mannerisms are adorable and full of sweetness, not weird.

-> You deserve to express your regression in ways that feel best to you.

-> It’s okay if your regression doesn’t align with what “common”. It’s your own, and other people don’t get to police what you do or don’t do with it.