This summer, I cut my hair short. The shortest itās ever been. And do you want to know why I did it? Because it was hot this summer, and I always say yes to adventure. Thatās truly the long and..ahemā¦short of it.
A lot of women have shorn their locks this year, all for various reasons. Some out of convenience like me, some for deeper meanings in search of personal change. Some ladies are doing it simply out of defiance to show the world that a womanās hair does not define her worth or beauty.
Itās amazing when you are in the public eye how passionate people can get about small changes like this. Especially on the net, the name calling, sexist comments and the mean, judgmental attacks on my gender and sexuality. All because I cut a few inches off my hair. And in the meantime most of my male friends right now are growing their mops out down to they asses! Itās just hair, it grows and gets cut. And the reason Iām addressing this issue is because thereās this misconception that your hair, what you wear, how skinny you are, your social status etcā¦defines your worth and your beauty. To that Iād like to say that my short hair was a test and some of you passed, and some of you failed because This could not be further from the truth. Your worth and your beauty is measured by your heart. Itās Your ability to accept yourself and others for their uniqueness, and really, being a good human is what makes you beautiful. Iāve been friends,dated and have had trists with a few handfuls of people. Iāve fallen for people who arenāt ātraditionally and marketed asā beauty, and have considered them sexy and fucking amazing looking because of their bold, spunky, golden heart. Iāve also had close contact with our ātraditional, socially accepted as beautiful peopleā ā¦ and the truth is ā¦ it doesnāt matter how long your hair , your skinny waist or glowing skinā¦ if youāre an asshole nobody wants to fuck, love or have you in their circle! The most beautiful people that Iāve kissed and that Iāve have had in my inner circleā¦ are the rebelsā¦ the people that are defiantly being them, dressing like the want to, wearing their hair like they want to, getting tats, piercings, or none of those things. Just owning who you are is seriously the most sexy and beautiful thing you will ever do! And for me personallyā¦this is what attracts me to someone.
I hope that everyone goes on Facebook and checks out every foul comment people are making about my hair. I hope every little girl and little dude reads this. Iām here to tell you that thereās always going to be people who will criticize you, judge you and are going to be downright cruel to you for the way you look sometimes. But when this happens you have to remember that You are āRock n Rollā. You are not a pop star or a porn star where your worth is measured by your youth and your looksā¦. you Are Rock n Roll because you make everyone uncomfortable and are unapologetically yourself, you walk into a room with your head high and Own it, you dress yourself the way you want and you follow your dream at all costs with no backup plan!
Let everyone say what they want. But the only reason someone will troll you about your amazingness is because they are insecure and/or are dinosaurs who have no clue how to exist in 2017. Be you. Love you. Because I love you and we Stand Out together.
And P.S. do not feel sorry for me about any ridiculous comments that have been thrown my wayā¦ be sorry for the people that posted themā¦ poor souls, I only give them love and encouragement to find who they are inside and not just own it .. but āRock n Roll own itā
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