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Reblogging this post with an iced capp in hand... Frightening but now I'm excited for Five Million Dollars Friday
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it bothers me so much when "mental health advocates" are only supportive of the "acceptable" symptoms and disorders...
people who "advocate" for depression but call others disgusting for having trouble showering, or people who "advocate" for trauma survivors but say you shouldnt express your trauma in art or talk about it because its "triggering"...
people who "advocate" for BPD but demonize NPD and ASPD as if they arent in the same cluster...
people "support mental health" until it isnt relatable. people "support mental health" until it cant be romanticized. people "support mental health" until symptoms disrupt life. people "support mental health" until symptoms are noticeable and not easily hidden.
you are not an advocate if you do not advocate for us all. you cannot be a mental health advocate while also talking badly about people with personality disorders, including ASPD and NPD. you cannot be a mental health advocate if you make fun of autistic people who are visibly autistic. you cannot be a mental health advocate if you call the police on someone with psychosis for talking to themselves in public.
if your entire "advocacy" revolves around demonizing more "severe" symptoms or disorders, and romanticizing the "good" and "relatable" symptoms or disorders, you are not an ally. you are feeding into stereotypes.
i have ASPD and NPD. the amount of hate i see in "advocate" spaces is honestly shocking. if your entire advocacy revolves around "helping depressed autistics escape evil narcissists!!!!", you are not an advocate, you are ableist.
people with stigmatized disorders or symptoms should not have to water down the way they experience life and describe their personal symptoms and experiences just to avoid being called bad people. by demonizing some disorders while romanticizing others under the guise of "advocacy", you are spreading misinformation and reinforcing stereotypes. you are worsening the stigma for people who already struggle. you are harming everyone with struggles, because a lot of society does not see a difference of "good" vs "bad" mental illness. to ableist neurotypicals, we are all bad.
you hurt the entire community by excluding your own.
you advocate for all of us, or you help none of us.
everything you see on tumblr is biased towards the perspectives of the types of people who post a lot on tumblr. this is essential to remember
like generally speaking im so tired of everywhere i turn being a combative or cruel or uncomfortable or antagonistic environment with a bunch of unwritten hyper specific rules that i have to Learn To Navigate whether it be at work or with dating or online or walking into any fucking room. it's so exhausting. everything is already hard enough. why does it have to be socially isolating too
thats right. we laced the wine with Pleasant Dream of Meeting Your Online Friends
Like we have commodified human connection to a degree where if you go beyond smalltalk you're oversharing and if you talk too deeply about your life you're traumadumping and if you get visibly upset you're manipulative and if you care too much you're codependent and if you want to talk about anything heavy you're expected to go hire a therapist because your friends shouldn't have to deal with that stuff and yet we're all sitting around wondering why so many people are lonely...
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I can't prioritise myself and my wellbeing, even in a crisis, because if I do, I'm being inconsiderate of others' opinions.
I can't have outbursts of anger, because if I do, even if they aren't directed at anyone (which they almost always are), I'm making people uncomfortable.
I can't harm myself, because if I do and have honest opinions regarding the person that led me to do such a thing, I'm making them feel guilty over something they caused.
I can't care about myself, because no matter how many times you say you care about me and you'll act considerate about my symptoms, as soon as I say "These are symptoms of NPD" you hate me and treat me like I've done something wrong, and should bend over backwards for my redemption.
I can't prioritise myself and my wellbeing, even in a crisis, because if I do, I'm being inconsiderate of others' opinions.
I can't have outbursts of anger, because if I do, even if they aren't directed at anyone (which they almost always are), I'm making people uncomfortable.
I can't harm myself, because if I do and have honest opinions regarding the person that led me to do such a thing, I'm making them feel guilty over something they caused.
It's really just sunk in for me how awfully I've been treated because of my NPD symptoms thus far.
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before pride month ends does anyone wanna admit they have a crush on me
posting this on the first day of june so you all have plenty of time to gather your nerves and whatnot
