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Shifting your self concept

Or step No 1

This is the most important part of manifesting. Your self concept is essentially your general set of beliefs about yourself.

No matter how much you affirm you have the job of your dreams or you SP is head over heels in love with you, if you believe you are not good enough to have it or that you are never loved it will not manifest.

This is why it is so important to change the way you view yourself. There are a bunch of different ways you could do that.

Affirm.

I am loved

I am lucky

I am desired

I am wanted

I am magnetic

Everyone likes me

These are some examples of affirmations you can use to improve your self concept.

Talk nicely to yourself.

Stop saying how stupid, useless, unloved or unwanted you are. Instead start recognizing all the good things about you, how beautiful your hair is, how hard you work, how nice you draw... whatever! The way you talk to yourself is the most important aspect that sets the way you view yourself.

Do activities that improve your self image.

You can stand in from of your mirror and hug yourself and tell yourself how valuable, beautiful and important you are. You can draw a self portrait. You can spend a few minutes in the morning and at night to appreciate yourself.