Saevenne

25 | scorpion | annishinabe | the calm feminine journal blog - a little sick, yet optimistic.

[stargal222]

[loveisdxth]

I live entire lives asleep;

travel to far worlds,

live in strange times,

I awake exhausted and homesick.

[thememedaddy]

[loveisdxth]

every year that passes disconnects me from you by miles.

I don’t see how I ever lived there

[thememedaddy]

[my-dailydreams]

[baraphalloplastyclinic]

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

[ladyfoxfire]

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

[dressedupliketheking]

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

[loveisdxth]

It feels like asking the world of someone.

to consider her.

be curious of her

to remember her

be needy of her

to admire her

be loyal of her

to protect her

be respectful of her

to value her

be indulgent of her

to revere her

be caring of her

to have her

love her.

[jenn1fersbody]

[jenn1fersbody]

[crystal072619]

Had to share

[madaohasegawa]

[loveisdxth]

I am my mothers daughter

and my fathers fire.

[the-big-mood]

The sword catching scene in Pirates of the Caribbean took hours to film because the actors kept missing the catch, so their reactions in the final shot are genuine.

[joliettexcx]

[micahulrichdraws]

The Hedge Witch. Ink on paper, 2024.

[realsoapdurden]

when your circle small but yall crazy