writing comms info ; tip the operator ; blog rules
This is a gimmick blog for masc & male selfshippers! Submit confessions, gushes, rants, rambles, imagines, 'x culture is', whatever you’d like — the blog is for the community!
Welcoming to men of any orient, gen idc if you’re a gay man that’s been selfshipping for years or a straight man that’s just found the community because you liked how a girl looked in a game or anything in between and outside, anyone that identifies as masc or male is welcome here :}
Information about the Operator, the blog’s tag system, and taken anons below the cut!
For the comfort of everyone using the blog, I am staying as anonymous as I can. Please do not try and hunt down my main blog or my other side blogs.
You can call me Operator! I prefer it/its/itself pronouns and masculine or nonhuman terms. My orientation is unlabeled. I am seventeen. I identify myself as munamor and a selfshipper.
The only partner I will ever mention on this blog by name is Joseph Seed. Any posts mentioning him will be under the tag ' 🖋️ ~ beloved '. Feel free to block the tag for whatever reason you may have, no hard feelings. Joseph is also soon to be in the banner included at the bottom of all of the blog’s posts. I am non-sharing, but I don’t mind Joseph selfshippers interacting with the blog, just don’t expect me to interact back all too much if it’s obvious (i.e. your blog URL mentioning it). I try to be nice and civil!
Some older posts will have an older banner featuring Gerard Keay, as he was previously the one partner I would mention here. I do not have the time nor patience to fix this — sorry!
Tags
# 🖋️ ~ Operator On The Line
-> Any post with a comment from the Operator! This tag covers majority posts on the blog.
# 🖋️ ~ Reblogs
-> Guess.
# 🖋️ ~ Dial Up
-> Confessions from the inbox
# 🖋️ ~ Lovemail
-> Gushes / rants / rambles / etc about F/Os // partners from the inbox that aren’t counted as 'confessions'
# 🖋️ ~ Dial Tone
-> Answering non-gimmick related asks from the inbox
# 🖋️ ~ Busy Signal
-> Interaction bait
# 🖋️ ~ Beloved
-> Posts involving Joseph, feel free to block the tag
-> Older posts under this tag may mention / involve Gerard Keay.
hi guys! fair warning! might highkey lose this account (need to login to another and don’t remember the login for this one)
but! i will probably set up another if that is the case. not sure what the url would be. it will definitely be something-hotline (maybe loverboy--hotline with two dashes instead of the current one?) . if i suddenly go ghost, keep an eye on the reblogs of the pinned post here, i’ll let you know when im able to be back. whether on this account or another :}
thank you for understanding, don’t forget that your f/o / your partner loves you!!
hi guys! fair warning! might highkey lose this account (need to login to another and don’t remember the login for this one)
but! i will probably set up another if that is the case. not sure what the url would be. it will definitely be something-hotline (maybe loverboy--hotline with two dashes instead of the current one?) . if i suddenly go ghost, keep an eye on the reblogs of the pinned post here, i’ll let you know when im able to be back. whether on this account or another :}
thank you for understanding, don’t forget that your f/o / your partner loves you!!
Could you maybe deliver the user boxes request into people's DMs? I'm heavily non-sharing and just got a bad double jumpscare since you've been reblogging them
I’m sorry about that! I’ve been trying to figure out how to get around that without the need to DM people, as I know random DMs can make others anxious — myself included LMAO
I’ll try working on that before I post more interaction bait, thank you for the feedback :] This is a community blog and, as a result, is community first, so any feedback is always welcome!!
Hi everyone. I should not have to remind you that this blog is not a place to be hateful. I should also not have to remind you not to send death threats in my inbox. Thank you.
Is it considered a 'sin' to like a taken character? :( I've seen a lot of selfship posts telling people that it's okay if the character they like has a canon interest, and that they still love the selfshipper. Selfshippers bend canon stuff all the time with inserts and AUs I figured it was okay...(I am semi-asking because I am incredibly anxious about one of my F/Os getting fan-serviced into a really popular fannon ship and I'm scared about getting backlash for if I still ship with them afterwards...)
I don’t think it’s a sin, people are just losers and hate joy and whimsy❤️❤️ Just remember their "canon love interest" is actually y’all’s biggest fan
There are very few straight male shippers, I kinda think a lot of them just offed themselves. Did something happen that I didn’t catch onto? I know it’s widely considered a sin to like a taken character which a lot of straight male shippers end up doing and getting grossly entitled over
We do exist! I promise you! I love my girlfriends & wives personally🙂↕️
Also, in the future, please avoid mentioning things regarding "offing themselves". Not the space for those jokes, sorry!!
HI IM ⭐️🐰 UHH YEAH I REALLLY LOVE MY MAN IDC HES FROM A YAOI GAME I LOVE HIM AND HE LOVES ME REAL IM SO GAY FOR HIM GGNGNNNHH AND MY FAMILIAL F/O FROM THE SAME GAME I HC AS TRANSMASC SO ME AND HIM ARE THE SAME I LOVE YHESE GUYS
hi guys sorry the hotline is going on hiatus until after the 25th, i’m going on a trip to visit family🙂↕️ your f/os & partners love and adore all of you, happy holidays to those who are celebrating around this time!!
Cuddling with my boyfriend plushies and playing video games that some of my other BFs are in because my cramps make me feel like shit and I hate my period, but whatever.
It’s not even about dysphoria at this point, it’s just painful.
-🫀🎀
oh that’s EVILLL anon i’m so sorry
they’d bring you whatever pain meds you can take if they could trust me
so I’m a sharer and I wanna talk about my wife, yes? Be surrounded by other fans of her. The problem is that’s she’s not very popular, like their art of her on occasion but there’s no one who’s dedicated to her or anything. I mean they are but they’re on twitter. I’m can’t go back to Twitter, I made too big a deal about leaving, I can’t return. I can lurk tho, that’s fine
On an unrelated note, I been building a shrine for them, it’s coming along nicely. I like decorating my walls
not being able to return to twitter is SO REAL i use it occasionally when i need to get credits for art i use but like … other than that i hate being there
i hope you find doubles soon!! i have an f/o im hypersharing with and its so bad because hes also niche😭 there’s a blog i know of meant for people to find other selfshippers / yumeshippers with f/os from the same media, ill tag it when i remember the url!!
hello to the person that made the most recent confession (🐰⭐️ I believe), you weren’t on anon but I’m assuming you meant to be considering you had a sign off
giggled a bit. let me know if you want me to post the confession in the inbox with your account attached or you can just submit another confession LMAO
f/o at game awards but horrified because itll bring in a lot of fans for the series. and like. what about the doubles... and people shipping him with characters other than me? (i fictionkin) this is hell on earth i was living so peacefully 😢
OHHH MY GOD REAL. dw anon … people will see that you & your f/o are the only canon ship trust me
side note !! any plans for the occasion of your f/o being at the awards?
I love when an F/O is soooooo bad for me that I want to marry them immediately. I told myself I'd wait an alloted amount of time before I did anything but I think I'm gonna have to be a rule breaker cause I am a MESS. I just nneeeeeddd to spend the rest of my life with them and be with them constantly. They've been by my side through so much already and I want to be with then through it all, their safe space. But I will seem like the biggest fool ever if I marry them, cause I can hardly call them my boyfriends/partner without exploding halfway through the word!! How am I gonna make it through husband!? I know marriage isn't for everyone, but it has a meaning to me, and I'd like to do it some day with them. I'm not really a fan of public weddings, perhaps something private and then an announcement to everyone else later..
i loveee private small weddings…
good luck on making your way through the husband word anon. i’ll have 9-1-1 on speed dial in case you keel over midway through!!