hello
im leaving this blog up as an archive of my past work even though i no longer wish to support that man in anyway. as a victim of DV, i find myself horrified to learn that a man i looked up to as a comfort in times i was struggling with these issues was perpetuating the same cycle of hurt i struggle with. it goes without saying that i am fully in support of shelby, and i think she is insanely brave and strong and courageous for being able to speak up. i want to thank her. not just for sharing her story and letting other victims feel seen, but also for shedding light on how truly vile this man is.
while i always knew that i never truly knew who wilbur was, and most of my works were simply using his face and name as some sort of claim to the person i wished to find and wished to see, it is still so horrifying to find out how someone i thought would be safe is an abuser.
i am still struggling with it if i am being honest because there was so much he did that helped me get through some of the worst times in my life. regardless i dont want to stand here and appear as though i support someone who is so vile.
even though i have barely used this blog for a long time now, i still felt making my stance clear was important.
if you want to follow me/support my work/just talk to me, i just set up a new blog @marstarion which i will likely use to talk a lot about my current hyperfixation (astarion from balders gate) though whether or not i write anything will be dependent as ive become a very busy person. if you just want to find me, @redwisterias is my main kind of spam blog.
i wish you all well, and i thank you all so much for the support you have given me. and remember to be kind to yourselves. and most of all, remember to support victims.
goodbye from loversj0y, hope you all enjoyed your time here
