if following send an ask telling me why please :) unless i've followed you first, then feel free to follow back. i am a bit selective with who follows me. if i softblock you please don't take it personally i'm just scared of people
+ sometimes i unfollow mutuals, this doesn't mean i don't want to be mutuals anymore! if i don't want to be mutuals for some reason i will softblock
TAG SUGGESTIVE AND FREAKY POSTS IF WE'RE MUTUALS. PLEASE
tags:
#- imprisoned in the cafe — text posts
#- half-life crisis — vents
#- say cheese — asks
#- in lipstick on the mirror — art
#mod [name] — alter tags
#tw [trigger] — trigger tag
#mutuals! — interacting with my friends
#- milliposting — posting about my pet millipedes!
#- birding chronicles — posting about my birding experiences
i tag most subjects when i remember to for searching purposes
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last edited: july 18 2026 — added some more info
"Stop scrolling and please help me spread the word, because if I've landed on your page you're most likely either a black woman or someone who cares about black women and the simple phrase I'm about to share could help save a black woman's life.
Doctors are to black women what police officers are to black men. That may seem controversial but I believe it to be true and I speak from personal experience.
If you've seen this TikTok you know that a 2016 study showed that 50% of medical students and residents thought that black people couldn't feel pain the same as white people.
And we learned from this video that because of a 1999 study, to this day, there's a black correction factor for the creatinin levels in black people's kidneys, meaning we're less likely to recieve a kidney transplant if needed.
So if you go to a doctor, feel you aren't getting proper treatment or they refuse the treatment you've requested, say to them the following:
I will need you to document on record that you are refusing the treatment (or medicine) I've requested, and the reason you are doing so."
This works. I have used it in other situations. If medical staff have to document and take responsibility and be on the hook legally for doing shady shit they behave much differently.
If you weren’t already going to spread this advice because black women are at risk, then spread it because it’s applicable to everyone else as well, including you reading this.
But particularly women, and especially black women.
pop health science is so annoying bc it'll be like "did you know? eating strawberries will give you mega cancer" and you're like pfft whatever begone influencer. but sometimes then you'll see a reasonably credible article like "Study Shows Possible Link Between Strawberries and Mega Cancer" and you're not usually the type to follow that kind of thing religiously but idk maybe you should consider not eating strawberries? but then there's another article saying "Strawberry/Mega Cancer Study Debunked" and it turns out the original study had a sample size of 3 and was funded by Big Blueberry, and strawberries may have a small connection to mega cancer but only if you are genetically predisposed to mega cancer and eat 50 strawberries every day. so you return to your strawberry eating life. but whenever you eat strawberries in public someone tells you about the mega cancer.
