@LoveThySelf365

Body Positivity - Battling Mental Illness - Starting Over is Effortless!

[lovethyself365]

@instagram has made it quite clear my voice, my body, and my actions are not needed here. I am a SuperFat, Black, Queer Woman and I’m tired. The fashion industry won’t make clothes to fit me and the media only cares about me if I give into diet culture. This is my last post. This page will remain here till June 19th and I’ll announce my new website. Otherwise, kick rocks and find someone else to get free information from. 🖤🖤🖤#blacklivesmatter #thefatmatrix https://www.instagram.com/p/CBCWzODBLO9/?igshid=srhgcdb3m0fn

[lovethyself365]

Dear inclusive clothing company, It’s time that I hold you accountable. Thank you for reaching out to me and inviting me in your community for a collaboration. You have so many options and you choose me. Cool! But, I’m not the one for you. I’m actually invisible, I don’t exist. I mean, I believe I’m human, but the community guidelines and rampant fatphobia within social media has silenced me and my vision. I am a fat advocate for ALL bodies and I will be doing the community a disservice if I choose to collaborate with a brand that is asking me to shrink myself and for the mold of 3X. I’m not a 3X and the sad reality is I’ve spent my entire life just on the cusps of 3X hoping there was a seat at the table for me. In reality, there’s no seat. Unless I sacrifice my beliefs and my body, I cannot sit among the Plus Size Creators who spread positivity and collaborate with clothing companies. I simply don’t exists. Now this is not your fault. Your just a simple clothing company trying to make a name for yourself and be inclusive - and that’s awesome! However, I am not a simple “check off the diversity list”. I can’t be. I’m invisible. FaceBook, Instagram and TikTok have made it very clear that I can make an appearance, be an actual human once I shrink myself down to the appropriate size. And because I’m so defiant, many of my post, videos and past collaborations have fallen on deaf ears. More importantly, I’m not the attractive “curvy” body that can bring you the numbers your seeking. Just take a moment and look through your social media, check the hashtags and you will see nothing but pale faces and small plus size bodies and thin bodies. Your social media is telling you that I don’t exist. And they are right. In the past two years my reach has dropped over 70% many have forgotten and don’t know if I’m still here. This is the world we live in. But, you have the opportunity to prove everyone wrong. If you feel deeply about making a change, taking a stand and supporting fat bodies above a 3X, I’m right here. Yes, I am a human...sometimes. But, my time cost money and my inspiration is not up for sale by handing out free clothing that I will eventually give away. (at San Jose, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CAeKRWEhQkX/?igshid=mfyf7q8uuon0

[lovethyself365]

Praise us and thy shall stay blessed. #lovethyself365 👸🏾 https://www.instagram.com/p/B_lfXCdhybq/?igshid=1g43q0fnyqgl

[lovethyself365]

Anyone afraid their body will end of like mine, when this is over, you’re not ready for how the world will treat you once this is over. . . . #savagexfatty #communityxambassador #tomboyx https://www.instagram.com/p/B-seTyrhaS3/?igshid=d6a9hgeivcag

[jervae]

www.sellfy.com/jervae

[lovethyself365]

My first reaction trying out the new @gabifresh x @playfulpromises collab. Ya girl is wearing a soft cup and panties in a size 24 (US) A N D IT HAS Stretch! I am a 28 (US) so if you think it won’t fit you might wanna second guess yourself! I have so much room, I should have sizes down! #savagexfatty #thefatmatrix #unbotheredfatty https://www.instagram.com/p/B3iDcNFhToM/?igshid=mt7jw33b3nhr

[lovethyself365]

“What's the point? They're all the same. Some stupid killer stalking some big-breasted girl who can't act who is always running up the stairs when she should be running out the front door. It's insulting.” What’s y’all favorite scary movie? While I be over here with my horror flicks, I’ll be wearing my @tomboyx Fright Night Fantastic underwear. Yes, tops and bottoms are in a 4X and I still have room to sit, squat or hide in the closet from Freddy, Michael and Jason shenanigans. Check out the Lunar Eclipse print or others they have out right now. . . . . #tomboyXpartner #TomboyXHalloween @tomboyx https://www.instagram.com/p/B3fWyyXBqF3/?igshid=1dcl134gxdvgw

[lovethyself365]

09/06/19 I almost expired. I spent two hours trying to convince myself not to swallow pills and give up. Life didn’t matter anymore. As a black body, I know I don’t matter in society’s eyes. As a fat body, I don’t exists until my body mass is under 15. I spent two hours trying to convince myself that I should stay, regardless of my situation. Everyone is different and we experience different forms of oppression and I am not the exception. When I say I’m tired of trying to exist, it goes deeper than you can possibly imagine. Most of us just want to live life in their current body and occasionally collaborate with other humans to make something special. It’s a simple task and yet, here we are. As I’m pretty sure IG will remove this photo and censor me for the fifty-eleventh time, don’t forget to check on yourself and check on others. Every days is not a blog post of happiness. We struggle out here. #WorldMentalHealthDay https://www.instagram.com/p/B3cwSoUhzqN/?igshid=57kmmksd1vvs

[lovethyself365]

I bind you, Karen, from doing harm; harm against other people and harm against yourself. #thefatmatrix #unbotheredfatty https://www.instagram.com/p/B3Xmf-PhWDM/?igshid=yo23o52x9fh2

[lovethyself365]

Have I invited you to kiss my ass today? Cause you can. The fact you unfollow me, report my page, complain about the lack of clothing on my body or treadmills-a-running proves my point. Also, hey new people! I’m still shadownbanned, so welcome to the fuckery. xoxo #thefatmatrix https://www.instagram.com/p/B3FV79ehK-c/?igshid=hxmc7vuqdfnt

[lovethyself365]

I DON’T KNOW HER. After 15 years of finding my way though diet culture and #fatphobia I’m looking though my catalogue and I’m shock. Who is this? If you were to tell me that leaning how to love myself will take me into a journey of realization our society is over zealous about European Beauty Standards and Thin Privilege they can’t see true beauty, I would stick my head into the sand. Although I knew this and didn’t have to take this journey for the results, many have come to the same realization and I’m happy you’re still here. #lovethyself365 #thefatmatrix #savagexfatty #impishleelingerie #impishlee https://www.instagram.com/p/B3C9miohfJX/?igshid=qqayxcitxnl9

[lovethyself365]

You're entitled to love yourself. All of us, without compromising. The belief that one should love themselves once they achieve certain attributes is invalid. You deserve this space, so take it. I know, because I told you so. 👙 @impishlee . . . . #impishlee #impishleelingerie #savagexfatty #thefatmatrix #lovethyself365 #sponsored https://www.instagram.com/p/B24dxW2B78_/?igshid=1ugk9q1c7pjpi

[lovethyself365]

Inclusive INCLUDES unattractive bodies. You know, the ones you constantly report to FB/IG for “sexual conduct” cause you’re grossed out these bodies have the pure audacity to pop up on your timeline and exists in the same space as you. Breathe the same air and simply be a human being. Yeah, that part. Your #fatphobia is showing honey. Fix your face. 👙: @kade_vos . . . #thefatmatrix #savagexfatty #unbotheredfatty #lovethyself365 #fatandfree #fatwomenofcolor #fatwomanhappy #lingerieisforeverybody https://www.instagram.com/p/B2w_Ksoh-WV/?igshid=nuv0ectagtdo

[lovethyself365]

Bitch, I look like I’m fresh off the runway 🤪 . . . . #lovethyself365 #thefatmatrix #savagexfatty #swimxfatty 👙: @alpinebutterflyswim https://www.instagram.com/p/B2e0_LOhU7z/?igshid=kqp95pb5rzdw

[lovethyself365]

NYFW: Category is, Inclusive! *Fats over 3x enter the runway* NYFW: 🚫🚫🚫 #fatatfashionweek #thefatmatrix #chubbycartwheels 👙: @chubbycartwheels https://www.instagram.com/p/B2W-92lBZOb/?igshid=k5gftt27z80s

[lovethyself365]

Making a statement is as basic as choosing your underwear, it can be subtle or loud AF. TomboyX is all about challenging the status quo, simply by being yourself. Every design, every pattern, every fabric is chosen knowing someone with a certain point of view, a particular body, a renegade sense of self will find something that’s beyond fitting. Being an unapologetic representation and superior fit for all bodies, all genders, and all the ways you see yourself. TomboyX fit who you are because fitting in was never the point. Get free shipping till 9/21 using FREESHIPFALL 👙: @tomboyx size 4 #tomboyXpartner #TomboyXDefineYourself #thefatmatrix #savagexfatty https://www.instagram.com/p/B2HuxmQBw84/?igshid=1n1d4n0k6iisc

[lovethyself365]

Premme was made for me. I felt like I finally had a seat at the table. I had clothes that fit me and were beautifully designed. A catalogue that touched on my deepest inspirations and guided me to a new path of self-discovery. Gone were the days where larger bodies sat by the sidelines and watched as smaller fats dressed in the latest popular fashions. WE could have nice things too! When’s the last time a clothing line did THIS? Each piece, in my collection, tells a story and has become an extension of my heart. Premme gave me hope and a new sense of self-worth. And now it’s gone. As the years turn and Premme becomes vintage, we can tell our children of that one time we watched as one of our own tried, succeeded and made a statement. Fashion doesn’t end at the privilege of 3X. Do better for us and we will throw our fat dollars at you. We showed up and showed out because the love was poured into this project. Never was there a moment of feeling left out of the conversation. They did the work, they asked for our feedback and it was glorious! I’ll miss it so. “… And so if the government could just get to the kitchen, rearrange some things, we could certainly party with the Haitians. And in conclusion may I please remind you it does not say R.S.V.P. on the Statue of Liberty. Thank you very much.” #premmeirl https://www.instagram.com/p/B0lpzNwhJnS/?igshid=1lw1790rf0pgl