Can I request Empress from AHIT love languages please? Thank you! Hope you're having a good day!
Quality Time: She has business to attend to often, so she makes sure to cherish the time that she does get to spend with you. She gets affectionate during these times, and you can frequently catch her just staring at you in admiration.
Although she likes to have you with her when she’s working as well, be that sitting on her lap while she’s giving orders, taking you with her to parties and events (although never anything dangerous), or standing with her in her store. She feels powerful when she gets to show you off.
She makes it clear that she enjoys your company and will find time for you, if that’s something you’re concerned about. But if you feel like she’s not spending enough time with you, she’ll try to make up for it with some extra spoiling or having her underlings come check on you when she can’t.
Physical Touch: Doesn’t need constant touch, but can be cuddly when it’s affection time. Likes being held, laying her head on you, and nuzzling her face against you.
She also loves kissing you, which for her includes nuzzles and licks as well. She usually holds your face while kissing you. She holds you and handles you gently like that any time she’s being physically affectionate, like she’s treating you as something precious.
And she eats up any affection you show her. She can’t help but purr when you give her attention. Like most cats, she loves a good chin scratch or a scratch behind the ears. She likes also if you play with her hands, pet her back, or play with her hair. She likes a little back massage too, as she gets tense from holding her position so often.
Words of Affirmation: She tends to give you small doses of words. She calls you lots of pet names (kitten and darling especially, but may opt for sweetheart, gorgeous, cute thing, my prized jewel, precious, or others) and often. She loves if she can get a reaction from you by calling you such things.
She’ll praise you for anything. She’s often telling you what a good job you did for even the smallest things. And she means it, sometimes she even has moments where she just has to nuzzle you and tell you how proud she is.
She compliments your looks and your outfit often as well, whether you dressed up or you just rolled out of bed. She really thinks you’re beautiful and can’t help but tell you so. And she’ll give you extra attention and praise if she knows you have trouble accepting it.
On the flip side, she loves praise. It means a lot more to her to hear praise from you compared to anybody else. Even though she’s confident in herself, it just melts her to think of your adoration.
It’s rare she gives you long-winded praise, but she’ll give it a try for you. If you do so for her, she gets very flustered! She saves any cards or love letters you send her.
Gifts: Absolutely spoils you with gifts. Gets you anything and everything you want and more.
From most people, gifts don’t mean much to her as they’re usually shallow offerings. But from you? Everything is special. It may be intimidating to gift her anything considering how much expensive and luxury items she has access to, but you don’t need anything fancy. As long as there’s thought in it, she loves it.
If you get her a decorative item, a card, a souvenir, etc, she happily displays it at home or in her office. She loves to look at it and think of you. She doesn’t think of herself as a cuddly person, but if you get her anything cuddly (even a plushie!) she cuddles it often. For things like food or tickets, she cherishes her time with whatever it is more simply because it’s from you. She firmly believes food you make or send her tastes better.
Acts of Service: She doesn’t think twice about doing little things to make life easier for you. Opening and closing doors for you, pulling out your chair, carrying bags for you, starting a shower or bath for you so it’s warm - all those classic chivalrous things.
This runs a bit with gifts as well-preparing food for you, fetching you something you want.
And when she wants to spend time with you, she doesn’t want distractions. She sets aside, helps you with, or does chores/work for you to get to affection time sooner. Plus, she hates to see you stressed over work.
When you do things for her, it means more to her than all the work her underlines do for her. The fact that you did something for her without being asked is what makes it special. She doesn’t often ask you to do anything for her. She makes sure to give you a thanks, be that in words or kisses.
