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anyone else like knives but like. not in an edgy way. like i’m not trying to b threatening or anything i just like the unique designs of them and the cool smithing work that’s gone into them. idk.
I understand your point and I support that but why in the name of all that’s holy would you edit a realistic hand onto Marge Simpson
This is me watching Forged in Fire.
@Regran_ed from @pderevere - I know I’ve messaged a few of y’all about this already but ICYMI: the last three weeks or so of my life have been dedicated to #hurricanemichael relief efforts (debris clearing, supply delivery, coordinating with other charities, houses of worship, social justice orgs, etc) with members of @tlhdsa from Tallahassee to Panama City and the ten-county Big Bend region hit hardest by Hurricane Michael. Our #gofundme has done so well— beyond our wildest expectations— and we need just a little more of a push to meet our goal. If you can kick us even $5 or $10 bucks, we’d be so appreciative. We’re in this relief effort for the long haul (through the holidays and the end of the year, at minimum). If you want some details re: how we’ll be spending the money we’re raising, visit the GoFundMe (#linkinbio), feel free to PM me or leave a comment below. Anything you can give would be much appreciated!! #hurricanerelief #charity #florida #tallahassee #dsa #socialism #mutualaid - #regrann https://www.instagram.com/p/BpmwLlSH8Ad/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=17qeftl925qim
the weirdest thing about the education system is that pretty much every teenager ever is so stressed out about schools that they pray for disasters or fake illness or try to kill themselves and yet nobody has ever thought to themselves “hey maybe our system is flawed” and instead all they ever think is “kids these days are so lazy and selfish” like what the fuck is up with that man
@Regran_ed from @swopla - Join Thursday for an LA SW Peer Support Group. For Sex Workers and those in the sex trade. Oct 25. 6-8pm in Los Angeles/USC area. Free dinner and childcare provided. Near public transit. Current or former sex workers only. Or those involved in the sex trade. Please DM or email for location details. Cannot wait to connect! ❤️ #sexworkiswork #lasws #laswpeersupportgroup #sexworkeesupportgroup #peersupport #rightsnotrescue #letussurvive - #regrann https://www.instagram.com/p/BpSJMNDAzeq/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=mahajs1y7719
We're gross. (at Pasadena, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/BpObzZygrCh/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=otxs4gna0zm7
Finished product. My first ink. All credit to @sscott_its at @buddyintheskin for this gorgeous piece. If you know me and my wife the symbols should be pretty self-explanatory. (at In the skin Tattoo) https://www.instagram.com/p/BpOWOK4gX_v/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=92ertmlcifh7
Tatoofie (at In the skin Tattoo) https://www.instagram.com/p/BpN6swFAXIv/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=6cq5hm1ffzv9
Could you fill me in on the whole grape-kun thing?
A japanese zoo, Tobu Zoo, had a colab with the anime Kemono Friends where they added cutouts of the anime characters to the enclosures of the matching animals to attract visitors and stuff, one of these characters being Hululu, an airhead anthropomorphic Humboldt penguin:
Grape-kun, an old humboldt penguin who’d been abandoned by his former mate due to his health issues, started showing a lot of interest for the cutout, staring at it for hours, trying to reach it on top of the tall rock where it was placed, and even trying to court it.
Of course, Kemono Friends already being a surprise hit show, the thing went viral and tons of art, jokes and other content were made. Even after the colab was over, the zoo didn’t remove Grape-kun’s sunshine, and Hululu’s VA Ikuko Chikuta even visited Grape-kun during an educational event:
Unfortunately, Grape-kun was already old and his health started to deteriorate. He was removed from his enclosure for treatment, along with his muse of course, that was placed next to him. On october 12, 2017, Tobu Zoo announced that Grape-kun passed away, with Hululu by his side in his final moments. Once again Grape-kun started trending, this time in a sadder tone as fans, visitors and part of the Kemono Friends staff paid their respects.
As a final homage to Grape-kun, a new cutout was added to the penguin enclosure in january 2018, immortalizing this romance:
And thus ends the tale of Grape-kun and Hululu. May our little Friend rest in penguin heaven with his anime wife, gone, but never forgotten.
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Stop taking people with dementia to the cemetery
“Oh yeah, every time that dad forgets mom is dead, we head to the cemetery so he can see her gravestone.”
WHAT. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard some version of this awful story. Stop taking people with dementia to the cemetery. Seriously. I cringe every single time someone tells me about their “plan” to remind a loved one that their loved one is dead.
I also hear this a lot: “I keep reminding mom that her sister is dead, and sometimes she recalls it once I’ve said it.” That’s still not a good thing. Why are we trying to force people to remember that their loved ones have passed away?
If your loved one with dementia has lost track of their timeline, and forgotten that a loved one is dead, don’t remind them. What’s the point of reintroducing that kind of pain? Here’s the thing: they will forget again, and they will ask again. You’re never, ever, ever, going to “convince” them of something permanently.
Instead, do this:
“Dad, where do you think mom is?”
When he tells you the answer, repeat that answer to him and assert that it sounds correct. For example, if he says, “I think mom is at work,” say, “Yes, that sounds right, I think she must be at work.” If he says, “I think she passed away,” say, “Yes, she passed away.”
People like the answer that they gave you. Also, it takes you off the hook to “come up with something” that satisfies them. Then, twenty minutes later, when they ask where mom is, repeat what they originally told you.
I support this sentiment. Repeatedly reminding someone with faulty memory that a loved one has died isn’t a kindness, it’s a cruelty. They have to relieve the loss every time, even if they don’t remember the grief 15 minutes later.
In other words, don’t try to impose your timeline on them in order to make yourself feel better. Correcting an afflicted dementia patient will not cure them. They won’t magically return to your ‘real world’. No matter how much you might want them to.
It’s a kindness of old age, forgetting. Life can be very painful. Don’t be the one ripping off the bandage every single time.
I used to work as a companion in a nursing home where one of the patients was CONVINCED I was her sister, who’d died 40 years earlier. And every time one of the nurses said “that’s not Janet, Janet is dead, Alice, remember?” Alice would start sobbing.
So finally one day Alice did the whole “JANET IS HERE” and this nurse rather nastily went “Janet is dead” and before it could go any further I said “excuse me??? How dare you say something so horrible to my sister?”
The nurse was pissed, because I was “feeding Alice’s delusions.” Alice didn’t have delusions. Alice had Alzheimer’s.
But I made sure it went into Alice’s chart that she responded positively to being allowed to believe I was Janet. And from that point forward, only my specific patient referred to me as “Nina” in front of Alice—everyone else called me Janet, and when Alice said my name wasn’t Nina I just said “oh, it’s a nickname, that’s all.” It kept her calm and happy and not sobbing every time she saw me.
It costs zero dollars (and maybe a little bit of fast thinking) to not be an asshole to someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia. Be kind.
I wish I had heard this stuff when Grandma was still here.
I read once that you have to treat dementia patients more like it’s improv, like you have to take what they say and say to yourself “ok, and” and give them more of a story to occupy them and not just shut it down with something super harsh.
A nurse I used to work with always told us: “If a man with dementia is trying to get out of bed to go to work, don’t tell him he’s 90 and in a nursing home. Tell him it’s Sunday and he can stay in bed. If a woman with dementia is trying to stand because she wants to get her husband’s dinner out of the oven, don’t tell her he’s been dead for 20 years. Tell her you’ll do it for her and she can sit back down.”
Always remembered that, always did it. Nothing worse than hearing someone with memory loss ask the same question over and over again only to be met with: “We already told you!”
Just tell them again.
I’ve worked with elderly dementia patients, and I agree with all the above. Treat them as you’d like to be treated in the same situation.
Same. I’ve worked with patients like these and even my grandma was convinced for a day that I was my aunt. Just roll with it.
This is actually A+ cat management. “Mirroring” is a big thing with cats. It’s why they will lay in similar positions several feet apart, or will come and try to do things when you do them. It’s a sign that they love you and want to show. This cat wants to be close to its owner, and also wants to do what its owner is doing, to be involved in some way. Giving them their own thing to use is a really great way to redirect them and allow them to mirror the behavior in a non-disruptive way that frustrates neither party. This is a GOOD IDEA.
Disney offers original animated feature writers nothing for re-using their words in live-action remakes.
Reminder that we aren’t trying to discourage people from voting here. The bourgeois state and its institutions are illegitimate, but to act like marking a box on a piece of paper a couple times a year is an “endorsement” of that state and those systems is some magical-thinking bullshit.
So, go vote, by all means. It takes like five minutes.
What we very, very strongly do want to discourage people from is *only* voting. Saving every bit of your energy for polling day and throwing all your activism behind establishment fatcat politicians, well, that is *definitely* an endorsement of the same broken system that’s killing us, and not only is it unhelpful, it’s actively harmful.
By all means, go vote. But you’d better be ready to get out and build power and raise hell in the meantime.
If people watch the world falling apart around them, and they ask you, “What can we do?” and all you’ve got to say is “We can Pokemon Go to the polls and vote them out!”, you’ve fucked up. Polling day can be a long ways off; rent comes due on the 1st.
–Conrad
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