Self Improvement Heaux

Finessing my way through life 23 Sagittarius Side blog

[hoedl]

Sharing memes one guy sent me to another guy and then the other way around

They should date

[luxeillusion]

And she moved to the Bay Area just like that

[victoriamsalazar]

[lelaid]

Kate Moss by Ellen Von Unwerth for Vogue Italia, April 1995

[lipstvcked]

I don’t ask to be spoiled, but if my presence dosen’t inspire you to treat me like a princess we won’t go much further.

[mysharona1987]

[princess-lointaine]

audrey, photographed in her home wearing a cute minidress.

[trapezoidmouth]

[sesiondemadrugada]

Serge Marshennikov.

[xiaoguiwang]

rb this post to tuck the person you reblogged this from in and give them a forehead kiss

[theambitiouswoman]

Don’t forget the lifestyle you promised yourself.

[luxeillusion]

This one hit hard

[hoedl]

Generosity

What it isn't

Being tipped or gifted with the expectation of better service or better treatment (entitlement to more time outside of work)

A client paying for multihour dates. Just because he is booking you longer than the 1hr guy, doesn't make him more generous. He is paying for more of your time, which means more work for you. Same with a fan buying all your content. These people also aren't "supporting" you. They're seeking a service.

A client/man paying for dinner. That's expected of them lol. This still falls under bare minimum. Esp since he pays for dinner w expectation of fucking you (civie). The client/man is courting you. Paying for dinner is part of the deal.

A client who leaves early and says you can keep the donation for the rest of the time he paid for. You thought I was going to give that back to you?

A client who cancels but says "you can keep the deposit". No shit I'm keeping it, it's non-refundable mf.

A client who respects your boundaries isn't generosity or over-the-top kindness. Again, bare minimum. That's what he is supposed to do as a decent human being.

What Generosity is:

Big tip with no expectation of anything (more time, better service, etc) in return

Financially supports your side hustles, investments, business w no expectation of anything in return

Pays your bills on top of paying for your time

Randomly sends you money or e-gift cards

You'll know what true generosity is when you don't feel an obligation to reciprocate

[januaryhoney]

growing up is an endless process of me looking back at younger versions of myself and being like…. wow she was so young. but look how well she did with what she knew

[gypsyeyeeeeees-deactivated20211]

[ousia-poetica]

It is possible to find a great friend where you can’t even imagine. Artist: Cassandra Jean

[2manypdfs]

Ugly, Bitter and True by Suzanne Rivecca

[thesmutgoddess]

Please give trashy glam book recs