jagten på noget

they/them

[pseudomantis]

we should start giving testosterone to ants

[feralsquirrel666-deactivated202]

uncles

[taxitunnelvision-deactivated202]

this is an elliot page stan account

[memescomedy]

[catchymemes]

[fashionsensexoxo]

do ur boobs ever just like not match your outfit like does that make sense to anyone else

[nikest]

date someone whose voice can make you calm… or wet… or both

[saerligsensitiv-deactivated2022]

In my mind, we had sex.

[everythingstarstuff]

[maarfalke]

Are you a Gold Star lesbian? (Just in case you don't know what it means, a Gold Star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had the sex with a guy and would never have any intentions of ever doing so)

i really don’t like the term gold star lesbian. it gives the idea that never having slept with a man somehow makes you a better lesbian. can we please agree that being a gold star does not make you any gayer than people who came out after they were with men?

[tear-dropp-deactivated20241031]

in the mood to be hugged for an entire night

[animalsnaps]

[smutlikeus]

girls guiding your hand to touch them is the hottest thing ever

[tranquilihty]

neck kissing is honestly the hottest, most seductive thing anybody could ever do to me. if you kiss my neck, if you playfully bite my neck, if your tongue touches my neck i will melt in your fingertips.

[misplaced-syllables-deactivated]

if u call me baby in that soft voice i’ll do whatever u want me to do

[adriankarl]

you ever wanna fuck the living shit outta somebody but also cook for them and make sure they’re emotionally stable?

[masochistsdaughter-deactivated2]

have you ever been sexually attracted to a voice

[vodcar]

anyway y’all have no problem when gay men doing drag use she/her but as soon as lesbians use he/him it’s suddenly a problem and a huge contradiction

[vodcar]

realise that gender is part and parcel of heterosexuality and so lesbians necessarily navigate gender entirely differently than straight women

[vodcar]

i think the “lesbians can’t use he/him” is absolutely implicit in wanting to keep us in a womanhood defined and ruled by heterosexuality. once we start to display us doing gender for ourselves, challenging and living with toxic heterosexual femininity: he/him lesbians, butches, etc. that’s when it gets out of hand for y’all

lesbians rejecting a womanhood that ties them to men because of gender, because of heterosexuality is not a bad thing, it’s not a contradiction, it makes perfect sense.

the policing of he/him lesbians is ironically completely bound up in misogyny: an anxiety to let lesbians do what they want and not consider men/heterosexuality and do gender on their own in their own way

[vodcar]

same goes for the weirdness a lot of people have about “lesbians can’t be nb”

like lol yes they can

the move to always try and tie lesbians back on to a strict defined sense of womanhood makes lesbians parsable as Women in a purely heterosexual conception

if lesbians can’t be easily understood as women, then the male gaze can’t fetishise us, objectify us, make us two girls kissing for the pleasure of men. it’s a way of escape & of dealing with gendered trauma & of enacting subjectivity

lesbians know what they’re doing, leave us alone