YOU SUCK

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are you a brat?

This is tumblr. Not onlyfans.

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musicals, yay or nay?

I don’t care

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what are your socials? x

No

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Dress I made

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Why does no one like my art

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Depop.com/snenby

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Selling stuff

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Cursed ride

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[qock]

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I remember trying to tell someone that hermaphroditism doesn’t exist in humans and is a slur against intersex people and he just kept on insisting I was talking about Aphrodite - I literally don’t know why I didn’t pick up on this but honestly mansplaining does that to your memory after a bit.

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[autumnhobbit]

literally all four Fs of trauma typology lmao

[autumnhobbit]

Flight—Responds to abuse by constantly attempting to escape it, devolves into self-repeating perfectionism in the belief that it will prevent future abuse, obsessed with either geographical escape or forcibly recovering instantaneously to escape the continual, constant torture.

Fight—Responds to abuse with anger and aggressiveness because that is the only thing that appears to give control in family dynamic. Responds to anything that resembles attack with cruelty and defensiveness and attempts to manipulate with intimidation and disdain before others can manipulate them.

Fawn—Responds to abuse by attempting to become the perfect victim in the hopes of being less hated and less mistreated in exchange for cooperating. Turns off all personal desires, boundaries, traits, and emotions, tries to become exactly what the abuser wants. Continues this set of interpersonal rules even with non-abusive outsiders.

Freeze—Responds to abuse by attempting by any means to dull or numb it. Shuts down mentally, tunes everything that is said or done out, drowns it out with electronics or isolation or addictions. Prefers being disconnected and unaware to actively living.

[scripturient-manipulator]

Yes!! Fawn is a rarer response just because it requires more complex work in the brain than the other responses, and so most people don’t realize or act like it exists so both as a therapist-in-training and semi-former fawner this is great.

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I Freeze/Froze constantly when I was living with my father in the house. It’s a real thing y’all

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