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@mama-pigtails
check out my carrd for my about, byf/dni, and other info mwah ily bestie
please read my carrd before following!! some final things to note:
I am an adult! (22 years old) If this makes you uncomfy, please let me know, and I will unfollow you!
I run a carer blog over at @mama-pigtails !
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this or that or both game!
mermaids 🧜🏻♀️ or fairies 🧚 or both?
strawberries 🍓 or bananas 🍌 or both?
cats 🐈 or dogs 🐕 or both?
dancing 💃🏻 or singing 🎵 or both?
Apple juice 🧃 or lemonade 🍋 or both?
dragons 🐉 or unicorns 🦄 or both?
summer ☀️ or winter ❄️ or both?
city 🏙️ or beach 🏖️ or both?
Christmas 🎄 or Halloween 🎃 or both?
coffee ☕️ or tea 🫖 or both?
gold 🏆 or silver 💍 or both?
pirates 🏴☠️ or ninjas 🥷 or both?
zoo 🐅 or aquarium 🐠 or both?
vanilla🍦or chocolate 🍫 or both?
sweet 🍭 or salty 🥨 or both?
singing in the shower 🚿 or singing in the car 🚗 or both?
crayons 🖍️ or markers 🖌️ or both?
plushies 🧸 or dolls🪆or both?
Need a minute to breathe?
I have a little sideblog called sootheyourself that I started for my kid when they were away at college and struggling with their mental health. (Hence the strange in-jokey blog title and description.) It's a place where I reblog cute cat videos and relaxing art and sweet funny pictures for them, and for anyone else who wants to visit.
New posts show up there in fits and starts, although going forward I am hoping to put a lot more stuff there a lot more often now that *gestures at everything*
But you can stop by any time, and if you go in through the page at https://sootheyourself.tumblr.com/ there are links at the top to my tags for animal videos & pix, posts that are kinda funny, posts that offer support, and posts that are calming. There's even a link to get a random post that you can click as many times as you want. (There are over 1k posts in the archives.)
hi little one. can mama talk to you about something more serious for a second? yes? thank you darling. 🩷
I know this is a scary time. mama is scared, too. it's okay to be scared, and it's okay to be angry. mama is angry too.
every day is a new day. every day I wake up and keep trying to treat others the way I would want to be treated, and so should you. and every day we have to wake up and keep trying to do the good this world needs.
I know sometimes it feels like there is nothing we can do, but when we fight, we win. when we stay alive, we win. so many people love you. mama loves you. and my trans friends, my queer friends, my bipoc friends, my disabled friends, my immigrant friends, my woman friends, my muslim and jewish friends, stay alive. 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈✊🏾♿️🇵🇸🕌☪️✡️
there is good news out there, too kiddo. delaware elected a transgender woman to the house - the first out trans person ever elected to congress. new york passed an amendment to protect the rights of at-risk minorities and to protect access to abortion. new jersey voted out a republican and elected the first korean-american senator. and overseas, sudan is beginning to introduce the malaria vaccine. the maldives have suspended all relations with israel. the country of jordan has eradicated leprosy.
tomorrow is another day and no matter what happens, the best thing we can do is keep going. the world is better with us in it. don't let anyone tell you otherwise. we have made it through before and we will make it through again.
sometimes I think of this mister rogers quote: “always remember to look for the helpers. you will always find people who are helping.” people are fighting for you, love. and people in government positions are fighting for you. people are on your side, even if it seems like your country isn’t.
mama is always here to talk, kiddo. you are not alone, I am holding your hand. get out and do the good this world needs, okay? keep being the brave kid I know you are. stand up. speak out. roar like a lion when they want you to squeak like a mouse. we got this. 🩷
I love you everyone in red states right now.
I love you everyone who has family that is/will celebrate a Trump victory.
I love you everyone surrounded by loved ones actively voting against your rights.
If you voted for Kamala, you did everything you could and you should be proud.
All of your frustration and anger is justified, understandable, and fair.
I’m sending you all love and peace.
Hm? What did you say, sweetheart?
It’s Pride Month? Oh my goodness, you’re right, it is! I’m so busy that sometimes I forget what month we’re in, but good thing I have a super smart kiddo like you to remind me!
But happy happy Pride, baby! Isn’t it so wonderful to be part of the LGBT community? It’s just another thing that makes you so special! I think it is so phenomenal I know so many LGBT age regressors - did you know Mama herself is bisexual?
And hey, guess what - to all my kiddos who haven’t come out yet, that is 100% okay, did you know that? I understand that you may not feel ready or that it might not be safe. But I see you and you are still part of this community, okay? I promise. I’m proud of you and I’m proud for you, and someday, if you want to, you’ll be able to go to pride parades and love whoever you want to, and people will call you by your preferred name. Until then, I’m here for you, and I love you lots.
Now, come here so I can give you a biiiiig mama bear hug, okay? Happy Pride! I love you very much! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I've seen "I don't know how to play with toys anymore" a few times lately and just wanted to point out-
Playing with toys looks different for everyone, even actual children!
Playing with toys can look like: 🧸🪁🚂
Taking pictures of your toys and writing captions for them
Brushing or grooming soft toys or toys with rooted hair
Ordering or sorting your toys by colour/species etc
Making up stories, poems or comics about your toys
Dressing or accessorising your toys
Imagining your toys talking to you or each other, forming opinions of their own, etc
Drawing your toys
Taking your toys for a walk outside, even in a backpack or pocket if you don't want to carry them openly
Making lists of the toys you have and where you got them etc
Feel free to add your own ideas
Hihi mama! How chu doin? Chu fweein 'tay? If chu wan hugys hweres one fwor chu!🤗
Hi little one! Sending you a big hug! Mama has been so so busy with work lately, it was nice to get a message from you!
hiiii i made me breakfast!!! is yummy and good and i jus wanna share that i hope u is having a good day or night!!!!
Hi, sweetheart! I’m glad you made yourself a yummy breakfast, it’s important to get something in your belly to start the day!
sending love to those who struggle with the holidays. to those who have lost their family. to those who are from abusive homes. those who are struggling mentally. in a rough spot financially. those who are neurodivergent & easily overwhelmed. and to those who just plain don't enjoy them.
i hope you can smile genuinely, and feel some love. i hope they pass uneventfully, and your transition to the next year is smooth and full of warmth <3
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Hey, you are not an embarrassment for not knowing how to do certain household chores/basic self-care. They do not come naturally to us. A lot of it takes practice! Maybe you had a neglectful guardian. Maybe you had one that was very coddling and never thought to teach you. Maybe you haven't lived in a place where these things were available to you or needed. Doesn't matter. It's okay to not know and far more common than you might realise.
That said, this website provides very simple instructions on how to do everyday tasks such as making your bed, using a washing machine, cooking different foods, washing dishes, taking a shower, etc. All you have to do is use the search bar to find the task you're struggling with, and it'll come up with what you need + other related how-to's:)
If you're having trouble navigating it, let me provide you with some examples:
How to clean dishes by hand
How to make your bed (with visual demonstrations of each step!)
How to fold clothes (with visual demonstrations of each step!)
How to take a shower & dry yourself off (also provides ways to shave beards, armpits, legs and genitals)
How to shave legs, armpits, beards, pubic areas, etc. (a more in-depth guide)
How to mop the floor
How to sweep the floor
How to swallow pills
How to make small talk
How to make eye contact in different situations (or how to avoid it while still looking natural)
It's also perfectly okay if these don't help or aren't appealing to you. Unfortunately, nothing helps everyone.
Thank you so much ❤️
M an my powar bwear stuffy says hai mama!! Hows u?
a polar bear oh my goodness!! he must like the winter, huh? hello polar bear friend! 🐻❄️
I’m good, I’ve been super busy, kiddo! I’m glad it’s the holidays so I can have some downtime ❤️
m'miss mama :<
hi sweet pea! I’m around, I have just been very very busy with my kiddos at work and with the holidays coming up! but know that I see every notification and question I get and I love you very much, wishing you a happy, healthy, and safe holiday season ❄️
hi sweetheart 💛 these are just a few little reminders for you
🌻please take your medicine if you need to, you gotta make sure you stay as healthy as you can!
🌻 please try to eat something, even if it's just a little bit
🌻 please drink some water, you can even drink it in a sippy cup or with a fun straw if that makes it easier!
🌻 take a second to stretch, especially if you've been sitting for a while. your body can get cramped up and stiff if you haven't moved in a bit.
🌻 do something that makes you happy! even if it's something as small as looking at a cute video or going for a walk or sending someone a message!
i hope you have a wonderful day, little one. and remember, im so proud of you!
fankyous but me vewy social anxious person ans I'm not really good asking help to eople.. and I might good at something but I suffer from academic things, and I think that people, teachers, and classmates thinks that I'm stupid.. I'm very anxious right now ans I no wanna hav an anxiety attack agains, me really shakin while typing dis
I have social anxiety too, hon, I know it’s hard and I know how brave we have to be sometimes. Right now, the best thing you can do is try to calm yourself down.
There are lots of things you can do - I like to take a warm shower with some music, or wash my face and get a drink of water. Calm breathing works for a lot of kiddos, see if this gif helps!
No one thinks you’re stupid, kiddo. I promise you everyone is worried about other things going on in their lives, and I’m sure they’ve all made mistakes that made them think they were dumb too. But we all have different talents and we all make mistakes sometimes.
You are a brave, smart, kind, and caring baby. I want only good things for you, and I am wrapping you up in a big mama bear hug and sending good vibes your way ❤️
mama.. m m scawed... gots lots wowwys... mmm 😥
What were you worried about, little one? Do you remember?
