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Same anon with the 3 points; I'm not trying to give you hate or bully you for your opinion. You have every right to voice your opinion. My only issue that it seems as if you hate an entire group of people simply because they have one flaw you dislike.

Check the answer to the last ask (since both talked about the same)

I don't think people are hating you for your opinion. It's the fact that you're hating on a LOT of people simply because they drink alcohol. 1. Not all alcohol smells rancid. 2. Not everyone who drinks it loses control of themselves; not everyone drinks a lot of it at a time or in general. 3. The way you go about it, it sounds as if even if someone drinks a shot of alcohol around you you want nothing to do with them. If no one is asking/forcing you to drink, you shouldn't bash them for drinking.

I’m sorry I don’t want to harm myself with something 100% unnecessary. People here drink so much that even between themselves they admit that when they go out, they don’t even have a good time with each other. They just drink till they don’t know what they’re doing anymore, till they vomit and till they pass out. They’re not responsible and have no respect because they’re out super late and feel like they have the right to go screaming down the road, waking everybody up. And if someone gives them a warning even in a caring way, like “hey, I’m worried about you, please don’t drink so much”, they say they are not their parents. That’s not healthy for anyone. I have the right to choose the people I want to be around and I would rather stay away from people like this. Same with smokers, if that makes you feel any better. I don’t want those habits near me. It bothers me. I don’t need to feel even more excluded or to put myself in danger. Those are not the people I want to be with. I don’t want to see people destroying themselves and others with these kind of thing. Because I know there will always be that one day when even the usally “responsible” drinker will ignore their limits and that’s nothing but trouble. I don’t want to be near people who need to drink to change their personality, because that can happen even someone isn’t necessarily drunk. That doesn’t solve anything. I just stay away, okay? It’s not like I give them a lecture, I just distance myself. I don’t go out calling them names for the choices they’ve made, but I’m not forced to deal with it either. I’m polite about it, like, I never said to anyone things like “I don’t like you because you drink”, I just don’t go and interact with those people. I don’t like it, but I don’t insult people. Honestly, it’s their problem. I already have enough health problems, so I don’t need to create more for myself. Seeing people waste their health like that bothers me and that won’t change. That’s how I feel. I was being honest in that post, I’m not a liar. Different things bother different people, right? I don’t really care how much someone drinks, but no, I don’t want to be there when they drink or if they do it. That’s the best for myself and no, I’m not being selfish, I’m actually worried about myself for once. If it makes me uncomfortable, if I don’t like it, I don’t have to deal with it. I won’t ask anyone to change either. I do what I want, they do what they want, and everyone goes their separate ways. Easy. And trust me, I can accept lots of things, but this is one of the exceptions. It’s not a question of maturity either, as if kids weren’t almost born knowing all of these things. I’m not a child for wanting to distance myself from alcohol or sexual themes (I’m asexual). Both make me feel uncomfortable. For me, that’s what matters the most. I have to protect myself from the things that make me feel bad and if I have to leave this account and the game, I’m doing it. I already said so, so there’s no need to be like this. My opinion will remain the same, no matter what you say.

When Chinomiko changed Nathaniel’s design = everyone complained till she fixed his blue shirt

When someone is expressing their opinions regarding serious issues = childish

Okay.

#that's all i'm saying #i still remember that #i didnt say a word about it

Hey Mari, I have posted my opinion on episode 33. If you want to add something, be my guest.

Thank you, honestly, but I feel like it’s useless to say anything else. I’m not changing my mind, people can say whatever they want. If I get hate, it wouldn’t be the first time, so I’m used to it. I’ve been playing the game since 2012 and it wasn’t like this before, or else I would have given up on it a long time ago. Let people insult me or whatever, that stuff doesn’t mean anything to me. I like being how I am and I’m not changing that because people want to try and “prove me wrong”. Go ahead, haters, waste your time. I was done with the subject when I wrote that first post and I already left this blog, so there’s no point. I know that opinions are not allowed in this website, but I was tired of being quiet. I was ready to be hated when I posted that, so I couldn’t care less.

You act like a 12 year old when you're 17. Grow up. It's fine to not want to drink but don't act like drinking makes you the devil incarnate wtf.

I'm actually 19 (the age in my sidebar is not mine, it's how I see my Candy). And I said I don't hang out with people who drink, I never said they shouldn't drink, I just don't wan to be near those people and that's my choice, jist like they decide to drink. I'm sorry for not liking to be pressured and having to deal with the smell of alcohol and people who lost all the control over themselves because of it. I don't want those people near me, I'd rather be alone. It makes me uncomfortable, so I don't have to deal with it. You are the one who needs to grow up and accept that are people whith different opinions and that are lookin for other things for themselves.

Mari, I have read the post. I agree with everything you said. I didn't want to say it myself because I would appear like a whinny bitch. I complain too much about this game. Sometimes I feel that no one is listening to me. I mean, I've been to parties, I have drank alcohol, but for some strange reason I felt uncomfortable the whole episode.

I’ve lost all my fear of being seen as whiny a long time ago, so… at this point, I just say whatever I want, as long as I have arguments and I know that the issue could be solved somewhat easily. Even if you have experienced that reality, I think you have all the right to feel uncomfortable with the episode. As I said, it really seemed forced and some of the stuff was really unnecessary. Things could have been handled in a different and more fluid way while being friendly towards every player.

Example:They gave us an option (more than once, actually) to respect Iris and leave her stuff alone or to touch it and disrespect her privacy. We weren’t forced to do anything and that was great, so why couldn’t it have been the same way with the alcohol? We say no, and that’s it, just like it was when we decided to respect her or not. No more mention of the subject, no one gets their feelings hurt. If there is an option to respect others, why is it that when we want to respect ourselves, there’s always something that twists our position?

I actually wasn’t expecting anyone to agree with me, so thank you for the support! We shouldn’t be afraid to speak up as long as we aren’t complaining for no reason. I understand that, for some, this might not be that big of an issue, but being on this side of the situation is really unpleasant.

Final thoughts on episode 33 and MCL overall

For once, I can say I agree with Melody, at least to some extent. Giving us the choice to pick the juice or the alcohol and then make us drink the alcohol anyway is not okay. Making so many references to the alcohol and putting a warning at the end is not okay. I can legally drink, but I won’t do it. I don’t want to do it now and I’m not changing my mind. Just the thought of other people drinking drives me mad. Sure, people are free to do whatever they want, and that’s one of the long list of reasons why I don’t approach those people or parties in general. If people want to be respected, they have to respect others as well. They were all attacking Melody and, even though I agree she could have just made the point for herself and let others do whatever they wanted, I think they should have at least tried to listen to her instead of thinking she just wanted to ruin everyone’s fun. I’m telling you, I don’t go to parties, but if I was in that situation, I would have left on the spot. They didn’t warn anyone beforehand, they didn’t give us the option to ask about it, and I don’t want to be around people drinking, especially when it was obvious they were abusing. I’m sorry, call me whatever you want, but I would never feel comfortable. I would be afraid of them, afraid of being judged, afraid of being made fun of, which were things that happened in the episode.

I was feeling a lot like Violette too. I didn’t want to be there and everyone was being super pushy even if they said they weren’t. It all felt very fake and forced.

I’m about to stop playing the game. First, it was all the unnecessary sexual references, and now this. It’s not fun for me anymore and it saddens me that a game with so much potential wasted it all trying to please the majority. There could always be certain options to avoid such themes being mentioned if the player felt uncomfortable with them, but there aren’t, which is terrible. They try to hide it by, for example, as I already said, giving us the choice between the juice and the alcohol, but then we end up “trying” the alcohol as well, even if we picked the juice in the first place. They are trying to make players all the same, since the few choices we have are clearly not enough to make us different from each other. I can’t relate to the character I’m playing and that’s not the point of the game. I feel excluded. They give us options when it doesn’t matter, brush off serious subjects like it’s nothing and make their characters contradict themselves for no reason (no, it’s not character development, it’s inconsistency).

I know no one cares about my rant, but in case someone else is feeling like me, I want them to know they are not alone.

#my candy love #mcl #amor doce #ad #as #amour sucre #episode 33

Leaving

This is it. I am barely active here and there’s nothing that makes me want to stay. I still play MCL, even though the game lost a lot of the quality it previously had, at least in my opinion. Besides, I never felt like a part of the community, especially because there’s nothing I can contribute with. I might come back when new episodes are released just to check the guides, but that’s it. I’m even thinking about not playing the games anymore. Idk, I still love my favourite characters but I feel like they are being ruined with every new episode. I don’t think I ever spoke about this before, but there are certain situation where the characters don’t act like themselves at all and it actually pisses me off. I’m a writer, so I know what I’m talking about, and that’s why I feel like I can complain.

I don’t even know why I wrote this, since no one cares, but I don’t think it would be right to leave without a warning. So... that’s it.

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And: candies I badly wanted to draw with their bf c:

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–MCL 30 DAYS DRAWING CHALLENGE–

challenge is back yaaaay!

Day 13

i choosed Peggy because yes. i love her outfit i mean, i need this awesome.

i dont know if im the only one who think that… maybe yes xD

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is not like Nimes doesnt trust in Lysandro when they walk in street but… you know, just to be sure.

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