Married As F...

19, married, college student.

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I may not be in Texas anymore but I will always carry it with me.

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I really hope everything stays wonderful and happy for you, like I do of any marriage. I really do. But there will be hard times and a VERY steep learning curve on those because you are so young (not a knock, a fact). When that happens surround yourself with loved ones and listen to the advice of couples who have been through it. I'm glad you're happy but make sure you have the wisdom and experience of others you lack only because of your age

Thank you so very much for that. I'll take that advice into consideration.

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I walk into our bedroom and see this. WHO IS SHE?!!!

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Today we celebrated cow appreciation day. His shirt says "am cow, give chicken".

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One month down, the rest of our lives to go.

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I loved your 18 and married post. I got married at 19. There's nothing wrong with getting married young if it's for love. My husband and I are stationed in NC, he's deployed right now though. You can always message me if you need a friend!

Thank you so much! Where in NC are you?

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As of tomorrow we'll be married for one month. Best month of my life.

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Don't listen to anyone. I met my husband online and we got married four months after meeting. We were only 20 years old... Maybe young and dumb to most, but I honestly believe it was the best decision I've made in my life. Here we are a year and ten months of marriage, and were happier than ever! I too, am a firm believer of when you know, you know. Keep your head up and don't let anyone doubt you and your relationship. :) I'm also here if you ever want to talk!

I appreciate that so very much. I am so glad that you and your husband are happy. Thank you for making my day.

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GIRL! FUCK all these negative ass people. They obviously have nothing better to do with their lives rather than worry about your marriage.

Girl, thank you. I think it's really funny that people don't have other things to worry about.

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Oh baby 😍

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Love love the URL and the title of this blog tho cause I love seeing other happily married couples 💜💜💜

Thank you so much. I appreciate you so much

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It also doesn't matter how long you've known someone I mean some arranged marriages even do fine when they're complete strangers. Anyone who puts you down about this marriage needs to worry about their own relationships not anyone else's if you last of you don't who cares when it's your business although I guess that's what you get for letting asks so free on this blog people get to judge that way but I would turn off the anon option or all asks in general. Hope you don't let it get to you

Well, the reason I don't just turn all my ask off is because all the negative feedback doesn't matter to me. I am incredibly happy and my marriage is great, and that is all that matters. People can say what they want but, at the end of the day, I have an incredible husband and my happiness is the only thing that matters, not everyone else’s opinion. 

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So you married someone you met on tinder & have known for 5 months. that doesn't sound like a red flag to you? what so ever? you're 18 you have barely gotten to know who you are how to you expect to know what you want to spend the rest of your life with?

When you know you know, you know? 

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Your whole story is so far fetched it almost sounds made up I won't lie.

Believe what you want to believe. 

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Please don't stress over the negative responses to your married at 18 post. While PERSONALLY my husband and I waited longer to get married, two weeks into our relationship we had that incredibly awkward, "are you feeling this chemistry, because I think you're my person and I swear I'm going to marry you" conversation. So I'm a firm believer that when you know, you know. If we'd gotten married that day I'd have zero regrets. So I agree that it can happen! May you share many happy years together!

Thank you so, very much. I wish you and your husband the best. 

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My parents got married at 18. They're still married today :) age never defines success in a marriage but resistance to divorce does at any age. You can be dating someone for a decade and find out they're a jerk one day. I married at 21 and we are still happy too. But it wasn't because we dated long before it. It takes a lot to stay the person you were in high school sometimes they're not willing to grow with you.

I appreciate your kind words, thank you so very much for that. Im so glad your parents are doing well!