So you know how in elementary school when boys and girls didn’t like to be friends with each other because the other was said to have cooties? The dreadful cooties: just about the worst thing that could happen to you at 10 years old. If you were a boy you were definitely not about to play with a girl, and if you were a girl, boys were just about the grossest thing next to peas for dinner. It was very serious business.
Fast forward about a decade or so and we’ve got these same cootie-hating kids who are now real life adults. Yet, they are still always playing the cootie game even as they are discussing important matters, such as politics. You might be thinking: um what? Well listen to this, these elementary school cootie-hatin’ political figures took that game so seriously that it’s now a standard that they live by!
Okay, I know you’re still confused. Trust me, it’ll make sense in a second.
This game evolved out of the social constructs that stated men and women are separate beings: two opposing genders. One was black, one was white. One was blue, one was pink. It’s one of the first ways that the gender binary is internalized as a child. Thus, as an adult, these lessons are brought into the real world. To display masculinity a man must follow certain prescriptions, he must be: tough, emotionally stable, and decisive to be considered a “real” man. A woman is taught to display her femininity as fragile, docile, and emotional. Only then will she be considered a “real” woman. If a man or a woman were to display any characteristics that were of the opposing gender then they would be deemed either a “sissy” man or a “manly” woman. Sounds a lot like avoiding the cooties to me.
Of course, the consequences are far worse that just having the cooties. Within American politics, it’s obvious who the main players are: men. Originally, there was no place for women in the government as they were said to be weak and not capable of leadership. Within the last few decades women have slowly begun to occupy this boys club. But, slowly, so so slowly. More often than not, the Republican Party has been known to play into gender stereotypes to tout their own identities as being superior and stronger than their opponents; the Democratic Party. The GOP sure knows how to paint the Democratic Party as “weak” and “indecisive” aka acquiring “womanly traits” and thus not fit to elect leaders (Cunningham et al.). In reality, the GOP has the temperament of their old self: the elementary cootie-hatin’ kid whose first instinct and fears controlled their actions. This behavior has led to wars and economic failures.
The 2016 Presidential Election has proven to be a tremendous example of the way politicians just won’t stop playing the cootie game. They just won’t goddamn stop. Donald Trump bolsters his masculinity by repeatedly referring to opposing presidential nominee Hillary Clinton as weak and incapable. His promises of using the military to solve every social issue and declarations announcing, “I love war” show his domineering stature and employment of his maleness.
https://twitter.com/realDonaldTrump/status/740509507814600704
Here is a tweet by Donald Trump that depicts a man wearing a shirt that reads “Built Trump Tough”. Trump’s whole campaign centers on his utterly unyielding attitude that he is the strongest man capable of winning the cootie game—I mean Presidential Election. While Donald Trump constantly reinforces gender stereotypes, news stations are not far behind. Hillary Clinton is often scrutinized for playing the “woman card” to strengthen her campaign: “it’s irrelevant Hillary!” Yet, those news reporters who are quick to scrutinize are also quick to comment on her and senator Elizabeth Warren’s attire. Hmmm.
This clip from the Daily Show clearly summarizes the double standards the media has for male and female politicians: (2:30-3:30) http://www.ibtimes.com/daily-show-breaks-down-hillary-clinton-elizabeth-warren-alliance-calls-out-media-2388542
At every turn, gender is somehow a part of the Presidential Election discussion. Something so sincerely serious (say that five times fast) as deciding who is best fit to be the leader of a nation that needs major health, economic, and social reform isn’t the topic of conversation, no! It’s the pant suits. They were the same color! Did you see that?!
To really sum it all up, the cootie game needs to be left in elementary school. Its reappearance in our every day lives is affecting our government policies. How silly is that.
-Sarah Elkotbeid














