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If MBTIs were to be represented by animals, what animal you think each MBTI would be?
INTJ: Raven
ENFP: Australian Sheperd Dog
ISTJ: Green Sea Turtle
ENTP: Fox
ENTJ: Lion
INFP: Hedgehog
ISTP: Jaguar
ESTP: Hammerhead shark
ESFP: Lilac-breasted roller
INFJ: Grey whale
ENFJ: Swan
ISFJ: Rabbit
ISFP: Tabby cat
ESFJ: Snow Seal
INTP: Badger
ESTJ: Brown Bear
Infjs when they meet someone who’s smart, funny, loyal to their ethical belief’s, full of personality and finally meets their high standards:
Entps when they meet someone who’s smart, mysterious, philosophical, disciplined, and perpetually throwing shade:
MBTI & Celebs (x) Jeff Goldblum: ENTP Taika Waititi: ENTP
The Types as Common English Idioms
ENFP: Bite off more than they can chew.
ENFJ: Actions speak louder than words.
INFP: Being all ears.
INFJ: To every cloud there is a silver lining.
ENTP: Putting the cat among the pigeons.
ENTJ: To kill two birds with one stone.
INTP: Method to the madness.
INTJ: The cold shoulder.
ESFP: To have a blast.
ESFJ: To spill the beans.
ISFP: A bed of roses.
ISFJ: The ace in the hole.
ESTP: To piss in one’s cornflakes.
ESTJ: Holding the cards.
ISTP: Hitting the road.
ISTJ: Burning the midnight oil.
What I have to say to each enneatype
Type 1: Ur cool but just know that I am always on the lookout for rising dictators.
Type 2: WHO CARES!!! IF THEY DON'T!!! LIKE YOU!!! APPRECIATE YOURSELF!!!!
Type 3: *not sure whether to stroke their colossal ego to gather business contacts or to roast them like a chicken*
Type 4: Ur a walking emo paradox. You want to be noticed and loved and appreciated for your authenticity to validate it. But at the same time having this need fulfilled would mean to accept a level of conformity. This is hypocrisy and life will destroy u.
Type 5: Philosophy won't save you in the apocalypse.
Type 6: THE WORLD ISN'T OUT TO GET YOU! You can relax for 2 seconds. I promise you won't die. Also, stop trying to control people via guilt.
Type 7: FACE YOUR FUCKING EMOTIONS AND STOP PRETENDING THAT IGNORING YOUR PAIN WILL MAKE YOU A MORE "OPTIMISTIC" PERSON. IT WILL NOT!!! NEVER FACING YOUR EMOTIONS WILL MAKE YOU A FUCKING PESSIMIST WITHOUT YOU EVEN REALIZING IT. IDK ABOUT YOU BUT I'D RATHER SOMEONE WHO ADMITS THEY'RE SAD AND TALKS ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS AND THEREFORE REALIZES WHAT THEY HAVE TO DO ABOUT THEM, THAN SOMEONE WHO PRETENDS ADDICTION IS FILLING THE VOID IN THEIR SOUL AND LETS 100000 PROBLEMS GO IGNORED AND UNFIXED. YOU ARE SO SAD THAT YOU CANT COMMIT TO ANYTHING AND UR FUCKING DEAD INSIDE BUT INSTEAD OF SEEKING HELP, YOU JUST DIE FURTHER AND SELF DESTRUCT BC YOU'RE SCARED OF ADMITTING THE TRUTH!!! STOP!!! ENOUGH OF THIS MADNESS!!!!
Type 8: Chill.
Type 9: Stop denying ur urge to fight. Fight everyone. It's entertaining.
1) welcome back! You were missed! 2) Do you think certain MBTI types are prone to certain problematic behaviors and 3) if so which ones really bother you or you dislike?
Thanks. Yes, certain MBTI types show trends when it comes to problematic behaviors. My top one for each cognitive function:
High Te (ENTJ, ESTJ, INTJ, ISTJ): The Sledgehammer
Summary: Uses a one-size-fits-all solution for different sized problems.
Example:
Using brute force to power through situations that might require more patience, finesse, and reflection.
“This worked great for me, you’re dumb not to do the same.”
“Don’t pursue a career in art, you’re going to be poor. Go into business, law, or medicine.”
Impact: The problem with being a hammer is that you’ll start to see everything and everyone as a nail. It also makes people feel like their opinions and points of view are less valuable than yours. It also falsely presumes that the choice which yields the best output objectively (example: the job that yields the most money) is the best. It negates the reality that people have different indicators for success because there isn’t only one correct answer to every question.
Solution: Incorporate subjective variables into your objective logical frameworks.
High Ti (INTP, ISTP, ENTP, ESTP): The Hamster Wheel
Summary: Invalidates everything in a perpetual logic loop.
Example:
“Why? Why? Why? Why? Why?” x1,000,000
Impact: You succeed at winning debates but fail at solving problems. Whether or not you can rationalize the validity of money doesn’t take away from the fact you still have bills to pay at the end of the day. Whether or not you can rationalize the value of grades and traditional education doesn’t take away from the fact you’ll be denied entry into many careers without the right qualifications. Whether or not you can rationalize that having children is a logical idea or not doesn’t take away from the fact that many people aspire to be parents. The validity of other people’s goals, dreams, concerns, and issues are not contingent on whether or not they can explain them to your satisfaction.
Solution: Create solutions, answers, and actions for every hole you poke in other people’s logic– not more problems.
High Fe (ENFJ, ESFJ, INFJ, ISFJ): The Guilt Trip
Summary: Guilt trip. verb. to make (someone) feel guilty, especially in order to induce them to do something.
Example: Self-explanatory.
Impact: This is manipulation. You’ll get on people’s nerves and make them miserable because you’ve forced them into situations they didn’t willingly want to enter or participate in of their own accord. Secondly, you haven’t provided solid concrete reasons and logic for why someone should do something, it’s an argument made without taking into consideration the other person’s comfort or needs.
Solution: Explain clearly and transparently why you want someone to do something (yes, it’s really that simple).
High Fi (INFP, ISFP, ESFP, ISFP): The Cloudy Mirror
Summary: Judges people for things they don’t want to be judged for.
Example:
“I wish society wouldn’t judge me for not wanting to have children and not wanting to be a housewife.” [Proceeds to judge people who want to have children and want to be a housewife]
“Not everyone wants to be rich in life, we all have different definitions of success that should be respected.” [Doesn’t respect people who want to be rich in life, automatically think these people are greedy sell-outs]
Impact: This is hypocrisy. It also comes off as illogical and presumptuous when people’s intents and motivations are automatically filled in by you. Some people buy sports cars because they actually have a passion for driving– they’re not necessarily materialistic. Some people seek high-paying careers at the expense of personal passions because they have obligations and goals they’d like to reach– they’re not necessarily greedy. Some people like traditional gender roles in relationships because that’s their personal choice– they’re not necessarily oppressed and/or close-minded.
Solution: Accept that “conformity” in behavior, goals, aspirations, appearance, etc. doesn’t equate to misery and/or lack of authenticity.
High Ne (ENTP, ENFP, INTP, INFP): The Whiplash*
Summary: Chronic quitting and the inability to commit due to impatience and lack of discipline.
*Whiplash: noun. a neck injury due to forceful, rapid back-and-forth movement of the neck, like the cracking of a whip.
Example:
“I’m going to do A, B, C, D, E, F, G, H, I, J … Z!” [Does none of it]
“Let’s do this. Let’s do that. Let’s go back to doing this. Let’s go back to doing that.”
“I want to have six-pack abs! I’m going to be SHREDDED.” [Exercises and eats well for one day then goes back to bad habits the next day]
Impact: People stop taking you seriously because you can’t execute on your promises, it dilutes the weight of your words and it corrodes respect (ex: “Yeah, uh-huh, sure you will, buddy.”). No one is immediately an expert at something the first try– seeds take time to grow and you’re no exception to this rule. Developing expertise and skills require time, commitment, and consistency. Results don’t happen overnight.
Solution: Underpromise and overdeliver– don’t overpromise and underdeliver.
High Ni (INTJ, INFJ, ENTJ, ENFJ): The Nutcracker
Summary: Hits people below the belt using knowledge those people shared against them.
Example:
Someone is insecure about their weight, you insult their weight.
Someone is insecure about their skin color, you make a comment about their skin color.
Someone tells you a secret, you expose it.
Impact: People won’t confide in you for fear you’ll use what they told you against them. This creates barriers to having close and meaningful friendships because people will view and treat you like a ticking time bomb they can’t let their guard down around. Understand that certain topics and comebacks are off-limits no matter how you feel about the person at the moment; certain words and actions have a lasting impact on your relationships. Memories fade but scars last.
Solution: The nuclear option should be your last resort, never your first.
High Se (ESTP, ESFP, ISTP, ISFP): The Blindfire*
Summary: Leaps before they look.
*Blindfire: noun. The term referring to the act of operating a firearm without looking at what one is shooting at.
Example:
Winging it, all the time.
“Go go go go go!”
Google Search: “Donald+Trump”
Impact: Your lack of foresight and lack of planning will set you back even further from your goals because immediate rewards and instant gratification often only provide short-term benefits that rarely last. There’s a proverb that’s applicable here: “measure twice, cut once” which means that investing time and energy up front to do it correctly the first time will save a ton of time, money, energy, and grief later down the line.
Solution: Stop, drop, and roll think if the path you’re on actually leads to where you want to go.
High Si (ISTJ, ISFJ, ESTJ, ESFJ): The Helicopter
Summary: Micromanaging, nitpicking people to death.
Example:
“Write the email but let me review and edit before you send it.”
“What are you doing right now? Where are you going? When are you coming back?”
“I noticed when you loaded the dishwasher you put the spoons and forks in before the pots and pans, you should put the pots and pans in before the spoons and forks.”
Impact: Half the internet is writing posts complaining about you, the other half is writing posts complaining about having to read all the posts complaining about you. Micromanagement saps people of confidence and motivation, it also increases the chance that the bad thing you’re trying to prevent will actually happen. Additionally, you’ll feel paranoid and anxious that something will go disastrously wrong if you’re gone which results in burnout because you’ll always need to be there to keep an eye on things. This is counterproductive for everyone involved.
Solution: Choose your battles wisely– focus on the “what” (the goal) and not the “how” (the method).
random things I like about the types
INFPs are so hilarious. They always come up with the wittiest comments and have the most perfect comedic timing. I also love how you all look so cuddly! INFPs get a bad rep, but I personally find them very fun & relaxing to be around.
ISTPs and INTJs often have a snarky, sarcastic demeanor and tone of voice that I just adore so much. They also tend to make a lot of funny faces & hand gestures when they talk and it’s just so cute to me idk. They’re super fun to banter with.
ENTPs are genuinely nice assholes. Like, they’re quick to debate you on stuff and make sarcastic comments, but they’re sweethearts deep down and you can just tell.
the other ENFPs I’ve met have such a comfy, accepting vibe. They sort of “get” where people are coming from most of the time, and often aren’t quick to judge. INFPs are like this too. Both types are very easy to be yourself around.
ESFPs and ISFPs are always surrounded by beauty. whether it’s their look, their room, the art they make, etc….. there’s always something in the XSFPs life that they add beauty to, and I find it so admirable. they’re literally walking art.
ISFJs are so genuinely caring and supportive that you can just sense it….. you have a vibe that they’re out to protect you no matter what. They’re the typical pure “mom friend” type and it’s great. ISFJs remind me of sweet, cuddly lil bunnies.
ESFJs have so much energy. For some it may be hard to handle, but I personally admire that in them. They always find a way to bring a positive light to things, and they genuinely enjoy making people smile. They’re such sweet, selfless people.
INFJs & INTPs are SO FUN to have conversations with. Idk what it is about these types. The moment they start talking, I just don’t want them to stop. Everything they say is endlessly interesting. Literally one of y’all could start talking to me about lamps for hours and I’d find myself super invested in every word.
ESTJs & ENTJs are filled with so much willpower and determination that it rubs off on the people around them. They make being successful look easy; but in the way that makes you look at them and think “Wow, if they can do all of that, then maybe I can, too.” They inspire the people around them just by being themselves. Although they’re stereotyped as mean and bossy, every EXTJ I’ve met has really positive vibes.
ENFJs are so smart. They’re extremely emotionally intelligent, and intelligent about the things around them in general. If I could see any type starting a revolution, it would be the ENFJs. They aren’t afraid to speak their opinions and stand up for the people around them. They’re so courageous when it comes to the things they preach, and I can see why their type is often stereotyped as “the hero”.
ESTPs are GREAT storytellers. They always go out and do the wildest shit and will be very excited to tell you all about it after. I get sucked in so easily when an ESTP starts telling stories. Honestly, you guys’ lives could be a reality TV show.
ISTJs are so mellow. They are stereotyped to be stoic and uptight, but they’re actually really laid-back. They often have very soft, calm voices. I love listening to them talk tbh.
reblog with your type & your mom’s type
bc I’ve been wondering if there’s any correlation… even if there isn’t I’m interested anyway!!
ESTJ - ENTJ mom
ISFP - INFJ mother
ENTP - ISFP mom
INTP - ESFP mom
ENTP - INTJ mom
reblog this with your type and what color(s) your wardrobe mostly consists of
entp 7w8 sx/sp - mostly gray/white, dull blues, deep reds
entp 7w8 so/sp- deep red, gold, tan/brown, black, some blue, other various jewel tones
About the online descriptions of mbti types
I know people have different interpretations and experiences about the types but I can’t help noticing how far from reality some descriptions are. It’s as if the mbti community focused so much in refining type theory that it no longer has a connection to the real world (mbti memes included).
As far as I’ve noticed, this happens the most with ISFP, ISFJ, INFP and INFJ descriptions, no wonder why there’s so much confusion about them… So I decided to write my real life experiences with these four types, hoping it can clear things up or help anyone. Also, as I’ve said, these experiences are just based on people I know, it doesn’t mean all IxFxs will be like them (but there will be similarities at least).
First of all, ISFJs are the true cinnamon rolls of mbti, I can’t state that enough. The sensitive, emotional, caring, pure, worrywart stereotype that is usually associated to INFPs doesn’t belong to them, it’s actually an ISFJ stereotype. I believe that many INFPs who relate to this description are actually mistyped ISFJs, because this happened to two of my friends. ISFJs are sensors but they have inferior Ne, which by the way is the biggest responsible for their “omg what if x happens what if y happens” way of life. THIS IS NOT INFP BEHAVIOUR. The Ne that INFPs have lays on secondary position, therefore it’s healthy and strong enough not to engage in these catastrophic thoughts.
Also ISFJs aren’t always the “traditional” kind. They tend to adapt to their context, if they’re surrounded by Random and Alternative People™ they will act random and alternative. Especially if their family is like that.
INFPs and ISFPs are not smol warm crybabies. They’re cold, opinionated, morbid and sarcastic. Their Te’s inferior but it’s enough to give them a sharp gaze that makes you think they don’t like you. Yes, they can warm up to friends and laugh and be silly with them, but “warm” is not the kind of word that would cross your mind when you’re meeting them for the first time. For example, IxFPs don’t laugh of bad jokes out of kindness, they’re most likely to stare at you with a deadpan face like “what the heck that was awful”.
Also, yes they’re sensitive, but not the “omg you hurt mah feelings I’m gonna cry ;A;” type. They’re more like the “biTCH WHAT HAVE YOU JUST SAID ABOUT MY FAV CHARA” type. They hold a deep, raw anger inside, specially the girls, and it blows up when they’re stressed. They look way more tsundere-y than you’d expect.
Just for your reference, Edmund Pevensie is a great portrait of a Fi-dom in fiction (he’s ISFP). Most of the IxFP boys I know tend to be more chill and gentle than the girls, though.
INFJs have an extremely ordinary vibe. Forget rarity, they don’t look rare. Their famous oh-so-deep-and-rich inner world is, well, an inner thing. You do not see it. They don’t share it to you. If you ever come to talk, chances are they will appear shallow and passive, just following the mood, talking about whatever others are at the moment. I’m sorry guys, INFJs have a bland exterior. If you see any INFJ acting Unique™, special or visibly going against the crowd, they’re probably a mistyped INFP.
They’re not that emotional, either. When being themselves, INFJs appear stoic or aloof, with a distant look, as if they were bored or didn’t care about what’s happening around.
You may see a glimpse of their deeper self if you’re at the right place and the right time, and let me tell you, they’re way more self-righteous and controlling than any online description would let you know. I like to joke that INFJs are just INTJs that keep their sassy remarks inside, because they share the same long-ranged view, the same stubbornness, the same pride in being objective and rational. Heck, if you wanna make an INFJ flip their table in rage you just have to tell them they’re wrong. Grab their well constructed argument and say they didn’t think about it enough. Call them ignorant and say they don’t truly know what they’re talking about. They let people step on their feelings all they want, but try stepping on their brain once and you’ll see an offended, worked up INFJ. They won’t do much to you, thought, besides cutting your existence from their lives.
This is it, I wonder if someone else has similar opinions?
Now that I finished writing I noticed I talked more about negative traits but oh well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ they’re easier to notice anyway
Can someone actually explain to me what Ne is and how it works? Like…. Explain how a simple thought process an NP typically goes through. What about Ne makes it objective in comparison to Si?
I’ll contrast ne with ni first:
-becoming paralyzed by possibilities– there is so much to consider that it’s hard to take action since there are so many possibilities that are… possible. Contrast Ni which is good at figuring out the one or two most likely/sensible scenarios/issues/interpretations etc.
-being bad with symbolism because of the above. Ni would help you figure out what something very likely means. Ne provides you with the myriad of ways it COULD be interpreted.
-ni is convergent thinking, ne is divergent thinking.
-ni has high functional fixedness, ne exists in a constant state of low/absent functional fixedness:
“[functional fixedness] limits the ability of an individual to use components given to them to complete a task, as they cannot move past the original purpose of those components. For example, if someone needs a paperweight, but they only have a hammer, they may not see how the hammer can be used as a paperweight. Functional fixedness is this inability to see a hammer’s use as anything other than for pounding nails; the person couldn’t think to use the hammer in a way other than in its conventional function.” (German and Defeyter, 2000, and see Duncker and the candle problem, 1945)
-honestly comes down to “should” thinking (ni) vs “could” thinking (ne)
Because ne is “could” thinking, its more objective since it doesn’t eliminate info/possibilities that are unlikely. Ni streamlines at the cost of possible information and interpretation, and si uses only past experience to determine current action– si also excludes information, but instead of ni’s future oriented exclusion, it’s a past oriented exclusion. That’s why high si is often caught saying “that didn’t work so let’s not bother” where high ne is “there’s no reason to really say that won’t work just because it didn’t work the last one hundred times”
MBTI as Significant Other
ESFP
Generous, friendly, sympathetic, and affectionate.
Eager to please their partners and motivated to create a fun, harmonious, and active home.
Often enjoy family life tremendously and typically prioritize socializing with loved ones above all else.
Tend to avoid conflict and may have trouble being serious, preferring to move on with their active lives rather than have an uncomfortable discussion.
They are tuned into the needs of the people around them, but prefer to do something constructive to take care of their loved ones, rather than spend time hashing out difficult issues.
Supportive of their mates and try to take good care of their families, but can be impulsive as they pursue the pleasures of life.
May go where the wind blows and neglect to follow up on responsibilities. They are characteristically spontaneous and usually dislike a structured lifestyle.
ESFPs want a partner who supports them in their lifelong pursuit of fun and excitement.
An ideal mate for an ESFP is affectionate and appreciative of the ESFP’s generosity and desire to be helpful to others.
ISFP
Loyal, patient, and easygoing.
Eager to help and quickly perceive the needs of their partners and families. Often show affection with simple, practical gestures that make their loved ones feel comfortable and well taken care of.
Like to maintain harmony and are very reluctant to engage in conflict.
May have difficulty asserting themselves and struggle with expressing feelings of anger or resentment.
Ideally, they want to be cooperative and accommodate others, and may find themselves taken advantage of if their partners are not sensitive to their needs.
ISFPs are tolerant and uncritical, and adapt easily to their surroundings.
They like to go with the flow and enjoy life from moment to moment.
An ideal mate for an ISFP takes the time to show spontaneous gestures of affection, and appreciates the ISFP’s kind and helpful nature.
ESTP
Fun-loving, pragmatic, hedonistic and flirtatious,
ESTP partners tend to keep things exciting. They are often pursuing adventure and like a playmate who will come along for the ride.
ESTPs tend to have little patience for serious emotional exploration, preferring to keep things fun and action-packed.
They tend to be attentive to their partners’ physical needs, but may neglect the deeper emotional connections.
Serious discussions about feelings rarely hold much appeal for the thrillseeking ESTP.
ESTPs are enthusiastic and reasonable problem-solvers.
However, their orientation toward quick thinking may lead them to try to apply a solution before they fully understand the issues involved in a conflict, especially when complex and difficult emotions are involved.
ESTPs want a partner that will appreciate their practicality and willingness to get their hands dirty, and allow them plenty of freedom to pursue excitement.
ISTP
Dependent, calm, enjoy being useful to their partners as quick and able problem-solvers.
ISTPs are fun-loving and adventurous, and will often encourage their partners to learn new and exciting physical skills.
They are good at responding to their partners’ immediate physical needs, but may be less adept at dealing with emotions.
ISTPs are natural troubleshooters, but look for logical, practical solutions to problems; more complex personal issues may leave them stumped.
Often private, the ISTP tends to keep their feelings and reactions to themselves.
For the ISTP, this is not about withholding: they simply prefer to move on to the next activity rather than dwell on their emotional experience.
ISTPs understand the temporary nature of their emotions, and rarely find them an interesting topic of conversation.
ISTPs are unlikely to offer flowery speeches or romantic overtures, and are more likely to show affection by being of practical service to their partners.
They want their partners to appreciate their skills in getting things done, and to allow them plenty of freedom to do their own thing.
ESFJ
Supportive, nurturing, and reliable.
Concern themselves with providing practical support to their partners and living up to traditional standards in a relationship.
They adhere strictly to their own moral code, and want a partner who agrees with them on issues of right and wrong, should and should not.
Conscientiousness is important to the ESFJ, and when they follow through responsibly on their promises, they expect the same from others.
ESFJs like an organized life and want their partners to participate in a structured, scheduled lifestyle.
ESFJs dislike conflict and are motivated to resolve it quickly.
They prefer stable, harmonious relationships and like a partner who is able to be loving and committed, even when the ESFJ has strong emotional reactions.
ESFJs appreciate a partner who notices their efforts to provide for their families, and commends them on a job well done.
ISFJ
Generous, accomodating, and loyal.
Dedicated to the task of taking care of their loved ones, and take their family responsibilities seriously.
They look for ways to provide and to assist, and are attentive to the details of the people around them.
ISFJs are motivated to help, and may put their partner’s needs ahead of their own.
They typically have a clear idea of what a partner “should” do, but are not likely to be outwardly demanding when it comes to their own needs.
They prize harmony and will often withdraw rather than engage in conflict.
ISFJs want a relationship that allows them to be helpful and dutiful in their devotion to loved ones.
They appreciate a considerate and thoughtful partner who recognizes their dedication and ability to nurture others.
ESTJ
Dependable, responsible, and opinionated.
Appreciate routine and family traditions, and want stability and security in their home life.
They tend to have very structured lives and organized homes.
ESTJs can be domineering, and often want to dictate schedules and procedures for the people around them.
Decisive and strong-willed, they are sometimes impatient with their partners’ feelings.
They may need to work on relaxing control and opening the lines of communication.
ESTJs value a partner who appreciates their responsibility and productivity, and one who notices the ESTJ’s tangible contributions to the relationship.
ISTJ
Loyal and reliable.
Value stability, tend to appreciate relationships that they can count on over the long term.
They keep their promises and expect others to do the same.
ISTJs are resoundingly logical and can be stubborn once they’ve decided on the best course of action.
They usually like things done their way.
Often the “proper” course of action is self-evident to the ISTJ, who may have little patience with unconventional approaches.
ISTJs tend to work hard to ensure that their families are provided for and that they are living up to their own expectations of what a good partner should be.
They are typically most satisfed with a partner who can recognize and appreciate the hard work they put in to contribute to the household.
ENTJ
Commanding and challenging partner.
Have high expectations for themselves and for their partners, and want a mate who will put in the time and effort necessary to create a successful life together.
Prefer to have their homes and lives structured and organized, and may be domineering in imposing this structure on others.
They tend to have a clear idea of how things should be done, and may feel that others should follow.
ENTJs are enthusiastic and analytical problem-solvers, and will approach conflict head-on.
They are unemotional in sorting out issues, and weigh perspectives with a logical detachment.
They may neglect to attend to their partner’s feelings, preferring to arrive at conclusions with objective logic.
They can also have trouble listening patiently, because of their strong desire to problem-solve.
ENTJs are typically ambitious and may spend a lot of time at work or otherwise pursuing career success.
They often need a partner who is independent and supportive of their goals. ENTJs value a partner who respects and appreciates their competence, intelligence, and effectiveness.
INTJ
Loyal but independent.
Can be almost scientific in choosing a mate and make devoted partners once they have found a match that fits their rigorous list of requirements.
Often have clear ideas about what makes for a solid relationship and are unwavering in their pursuit of this ideal.
INTJs often have a passion for self-improvement and are encouraging of their partners’ goals and intellectual pursuits.
They do not usually see the need for frivolous affection or romance, feeling that their devotion should be evident.
They are more focused on serving their partners with hard work and resourceful problem-solving than they are on showering them with attention.
INTJs’ partners often find them difficult to read, and indeed they do not show emotion easily; they find the process of discussing emotions much too messy and disorganized.
They enjoy solving difficult problems, but are often out of their depth when it comes to illogical, unpredictable personal issues.
INTJs value a partner that allows them the independence to achieve their goals, and one who appreciates their efficacy, insight, and ability to offer creative solutions to problems.
ENTP
Inventive, enthusiastic, and spontaneous.
Are often exciting partners, full of ideas for new things to explore together.
ENTPs like to encourage their mates to pursue their ambitions.
They may be competitive or even argumentative; they enjoy a good debate for its own sake.
They typically need a partner who is emotionally resilient and doesn’t take offense at their intellectual challenges.
ENTPs can be unreliable as they follow their inspiration, wherever it may lead. They have little interest in order or routine, and may neglect mundane household chores as they pursue more stimulating activities.
ENTPs prize their ability to understand others and communicate effectively, and have an ongoing interest in improving themselves and their relationships.
They want to know how their partners’ minds work, and are creative in coming up with solutions to interpersonal problems.
The ideal mate for an ENTP appreciates their ingenuity, competence, and perceptiveness, and supports them in their ever-changing interests, schemes, and social pursuits.
INTP
Independent and clever partners.
They enjoy engaging intellectually and want an intelligent partner who can match their ability to think critically.
INTPs have little appetite for the mundane aspects of life, and may disregard the usual rituals of a relationship.
They are rarely interested in tradition, preferring instead to design a lifestyle that makes sense for the parties involved—even if it looks highly unconventional to other people.
They are tolerant of individual preferences but will rarely do something because they are told they “should.”
INTPs tend to analyze the theory behind everything, and may interpret human interactions with the detached logic of a psychological researcher.
They may find others difficult to deal with when they cannot understand the logic behind their behavior.
When things get too emotional, they may retreat to their own world of thoughts and ideas.
INTPs want plenty of space in a relationship to explore their own thoughts, ideas, and interests.
They value a partner that appreciates their ingenuity and problem-solving ability, and one that understands their need for autonomy.
ENFJ
Helpful and enthusiastically supportive.
They are motivated to understand their partners and to do what pleases them, and are sensitive the the emotions and reactions of their mates.
ENFJs make great cheerleaders, and will encourage their partners to develop and explore their potential.
They are engaged and ready to help, and look for opportunities to support their mates in their accomplishments.
ENFJ partners want harmony above all else, sometimes at the expense of their own needs.
Conflict is upsetting to ENFJs, and they often avoid it.
ENFJs are very sensitive to criticism and can become highly emotional and even punishing when their feelings are hurt.
However, they have great insight about people, emotions and motivations; they are often able to put this talent to use in resolving things.
The ideal mate for an ENFJ appreciates their compassion, support, and dedication to helping others, and makes an effort to understand the ENFJ’s feelings and values.
INFJ
Supportive and guided by a sense of integrity.
The INFJ’s interest in human development applies to their mates as well, and they are encouraging of their partner’s dreams, aspirations, and achievements.
INFJs want to maintain harmony in their relationships and are highly motivated to resolve conflicts.
They tend to be creative problem-solvers and look for the emotional core of an issue to create a meeting of the minds.
Although they desire cooperation, they are not willing to go along with an idea that does not feel authentic to them.
When it comes to their core values and ethics, they are unwilling to compromise.
INFJs want a high degree of intimacy and emotional engagement, and are happiest when they feel they are sharing their innermost thoughts and feelings with their mates.
INFJs value a partner who respects their deeply held values and ethics, and one who appreciates their creativity and inspiration.
ENFP
Warm, encouraging, and emotionally engaged.
Connect with others by sharing their feelings and experiences.
They are expressive with their mates and want their mates to share openly with them.
ENFPs place great importance on personal development; they encourage their mates to pursue their dreams and want the same encouragement back.
They are accepting of their partners as individuals and are unlikely to pressure their partners into being or doing anything in particular.
On the rare occasion that they object to a mate’s behavior, it’s likely to be because their values have been violated.
Although they are quite sensitive, ENFPs can be guarded when it comes to their deepest feelings.
They dislike conflict and are likely to withdraw rather than engage in a difficult discussion.
ENFPs are flexible and supportive, and would rather find a way to connect than butt heads.
They are creative problem-solvers, and can often come up with original ways to compromise.
ENFPs can sometimes be unpredictable, as they follow their inspiration wherever it leads.
They can seem unreliable, although they are usually very responsive when a partner is emotionally in need.
The ideal mate for an ENFP supports their creativity and caring for others, and expresses appreciation for the ENFP’s unique qualities openly and often.
INFP
Nurturing, empathic, and loyal.
Tend to select their friends and partners carefully, looking for a strong bond and congruent values.
They are self-aware and often spiritual.
INFPs tend to be open-minded and accepting of another’s behavior and preferences, so long as their core values are not violated.
They support their partners’ individuality, and encourage them to explore their interests and ideas.
INFPs look for ways to compromise and accommodate other people, and often have creative solutions to interpersonal problems.
They can be very sensitive, but often keep negative reactions to themselves because they are reluctant to engage in confrontation.
Close and harmonious relationships are important to INFPs, although they also need a lot of independent time to think and reflect.
They often want plenty of freedom to express themselves and pursue greater self-awareness.
They value a partner who is committed and loving, yet provides them with the support they need to independently explore the mysteries of life.
(Source: Truity)
the types as bitches i hate in college and also ive had a lot of wine
ESFJ: that social butterfly bitch that doesn’t understand anything ever without asking twelve clarifying questions before you can explain shit, like i was gonna explain that obvious feature of your new iphone in four seconds chris, how about you chill and stop acting like IM the weird one
ISFJ: that boring nice bitch who has probably never had a unique individual thought in their life. they’re like, solely reactionary beings, the true wobbuffets of real life.
ESFP: that crazy bitch whose super weird but everybody likes because theyre just weird enough to be likable but never hangs out with you consistently because theyre too involved with theatre or ecstasy or some shit idk
ISFP: that sarcastic bitch whose somehow still obsessed with fandoms and superwholock and probably owns a horse back home or something
ENFJ: that starry eyed bitch who loves everybody and wants to save the world or some shit, idk, my eyes glazed over a quarter way through your monologue; besides, it all just pans out to you feeling bad about yourself because you can’t live up to the impossible standards you set for yourself anyways so am i really missing anything???
INFJ: that passive aggressive bitch whos always gotta remind you that they’re the most rare mbti type, and act all ethereal and distant and shit when we all know ur a dime a dozen on a college campus anyways
ENFP: that emotionally dead bitch who convinces everybody that theyre not because theyre so enthusiastic and tells you their whole life story the first time you meet them to cause shock and awe but also to get you lowkey emotionally attached
INFP: that sensitive bitch who wants to be a writer or an artist or something but is too obsessed with memes to get very far
ESTJ: that polysci bitch who runs for class president when everybody knows damn well you don’t do any real anything on campus and the dean regards you with as much contempt as i do
ISTJ: that awkward bitch who knows they’re not that fun so they try really hard to put themselves out there and just makes it awkward and weird for the whole party
ESTP: that loud bitch who gotta be the center of attention all the time and everybody likes for some reason
ISTP: that angry bitch whose a wannabe sociopath and always telling you how much they hate people and want to murder people for, like, literally no reason like calm down edgelord tom.
ENTJ: that problematic bitch who starts shit right at the end of class because success and proving that they know shit is the only thing that makes them feel anything anymore
INTJ: that condescending sarcastic ass bitch that rolls their eyes whenever somebody raises their hand and is probably one dumb question away from bringing a gun to school
ENTP: that annoying bitch who starts arguments in class with everybody because they think its fun or wanna prove they know useless knowledge or logic or some shit idk stanley and idc just stop arguing with the professor its psych 101 and i want to go home
INTP: that quiet bitch who spends the whole party looking around in the corner and asking their friend if they can leave yet and only talks during class to explain something semi useless and tangental to the topic at hand
How does a ne dom dress?
with clothing I hope
idk why I made this
I’m amazed at how many people reblogged this saying it’s accurate. I made this as a joke and I fully did not expect it to get more than like 15 notes
me: I've learned so much about MBTI over the years! I can't wait to talk about everything I've learned.
me trying to explain mbti: its just like... *gestures wildly* you know