SADGASM

Somewhere between emotional and emotionless

[celibacy]

Ultraviolence. | MORE HERE | Followback Blog

[leaveful]

[brothersincere-deactivated20210]

Soulmates have no concept of distance

[petite-capricorn]

[wnq-psychology]

Studies show that most emotions last no longer than 90 seconds unless we attach stories to them. You have a feeling of being lonely—and this will pass through you quickly unless you make up a story about how you’re lonely because you’re unlovable and worthless and nobody will ever love you and you’re going to be alone forever. When you attach to the story, you suffer needlessly and the suffering can linger for years. But you don’t have to choose to suffer this way. Your soul can find peace, comfort, and stillness even in the most difficult times if you’re able to view your negative emotions from this witness position.

Lissa Rankin | @wnq-psychology

The Fear Cure: Cultivating Courage as Medicine for the Body, Mind, and Soul

(via wnq-psychology)

[nevver]

Art school confidential, Joanna Szproch

[wastelandian]

Alyssa Lau by Eric Yun

[percevoir]

Opening Ceremony & Magritte

[sunnyside-peach-blog]

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[lyubov-popova]

Untitled Compositions, 1916, Lyubov Popova

[entretintaypapel-blog]

“Hice una pequeña lista con todas esas cosas horribles que dices que soy. No recuerdo donde la guardé ni tampoco me interesa. Así que, por favor, añade: olvidadiza y despreocupada”

- Ana Elena Pena

[peindreensamusant]

Alexis Jamet

[detalhes-minimos]

[thankyoufortrippingwithme-deact]

Mt. Hood Magic 🏔🎆

[expatesque]

Art History Meme [2 / 4] Colors

↳ Blue

[floralmess]

[sahmilay-deactivated20220514]

1. You can leave any relationship for any reason. 2. Do not settle for less love than you are willing to give. 3. Learn to say no. “No, tonight you cannot touch my body” “No, I don’t want to eat this” “No, what you said/did is not okay and I need time recover” 4. Take time to recover. As long as you need. 5. Pay attention to how people fight with you. Pay attention to what happens when you give up and adopt their tactics. How do you feel? How do they feel? How do they react when you speak to them the way they speak to you? 6. Pay attention to when people cry. Is it always for themselves or for others? 7. When do you cry? 8. Stop letting people breach your boundaries and being surprised when they set their own. 9. When you set your boundaries, fight to keep them. 10. Trust your instincts more. Stop holding everything in. Stop always trying to protect peoples feelings when they hurt you. 11. Breathe. 12. Part of the reason you’re always unhappy in relationships is you. Advocate for yourself more. Fight the impulse to be a doormat because even good people will step on you if you offer. 13. Don’t compromise your safety. Emotional, mental, physical. Don’t fuck someone you don’t wanna fuck just because they want to fuck you. Don’t kiss someone you don’t want to kiss just because they want to kiss you. Don’t rush to share your secrets until you’re ready. 14. Don’t feel guilty for leaving. Don’t feel guilty for taking a break. Don’t feel guilty for being honest. Don’t feel guilty for taking care of yourself. No one else will.

Things to remember. (via queenofgerms)