Happy Memorial Day in the US. This holiday is designated to honor US military personnel who died in service, but people visit graves of any who served at any time to place small flags. My family visited, cleaned and put flowers, etc. at any graves while visiting these others* & I know it's a fairly common practice. (Many people (not all, of course) have the day off, so a 3-day weekend (often w/ decent weather - here anyway) is a good time to visit.)
Practically the first thing I built on my original, forever island (Repose) was this cemetery. It's gone through many revisions, but here is where we are now (essentially Lucky's yard). It's a nod to the cemetery "up north" where my parents & paternal grandparents are buried. When he was a teen, my dad assisted the sexton and my grandmother loved roaming the grounds, making rubbings. So it has a special place in my heart. I only have memorials here for my parents: I have the Mom & Dad mugs, a Monarch butterfly for my mom and an almost-correct-color firefighter's helmet for my dad. (I would prefer proper turnout boots, but I don't think they exist.)
There's a path every couple of rows that is wide enough to drive through, and people do just that: drive-by visits, where they pause at a grave (staying in the car), then leave. One of these (RL) graves is** decorated like a carnival, with toys, pinwheels, garden gnomes, etc.
*Alas, I've not been able to visit for several years, since we no longer have property near by and it's a loooong drive. I'm trying to set up a secular type of shrine at home,
**Was the last time I was there, and always was prior to that. My dad told me that the woman buried there was the meanest person he ever knew, and didn't get along with anyone in her family. But once she was gone, she became a saint, and someone visited her grave almost every day. Because of all of the gravesite decorations I've seen in my time, I used everything that appealed to me in this build.
Open grave, shoveled dirt: MA-1754-8440-8828 (has horizontal grave in addition to the vertical version I used)
Rake (middle): MA-1855-5519-2125
Dirt path (15-piece): MA-7913-0336-4162
Bats (on light posts): MA-5069-6608-1653
See tomorrow's post for bus stop codes