Most of this blog was written in a medicated stupor during a hospital stay, sometimes i post a new one haha
Format* of writeups:
Wedding start-time and time-of-day on the day-of [general "when" of the wedding, often used to describe mood-type of wedding to a large extent] ~☆~ theme, Xpm to Xam [exact hours, exact "when", not used to describe mood-type at all, used to specify and take out the vaguery of the "mood" element taken up by the first iteration of "when"], exact date or date range [ie month, range of months], location, thematic notes, serving suggestions, furnishings, etc [ie backstory, magic tips, provisos]
*(approximately; "location" onward is a jumble of what seemed to be the best way to put it into words)
Tags you might want the meaning of:
#daring means there's no non-risky option ie some weddings offer a lowkey (nontrespassing format)
#sexy means there's no non-orgy/non-honeymoon option (other weddings are described in asexual-accessible terms)
#stoner means it's a weedding, a wedding that's very much getting-blazed-centric.
#witchy means it's specifically unlikely nondruids will be interested and spells and alters etc are described/expected/required
#weddingcraft means some witchy stuff is explained in the post (non-wedding posts are all tagged weddingcraft)
#bitch means the wedding is basically describing a petty, likely-doomed (consciously), "for the fun of being bitchy" wedding thrown by people who don't respect marriage or wedding ceremonies, and see their relationship either as disposable or unweddedly valued (unshakeably wedded? Hard to figure out why their party has to be a dunk on the Bonding Spell/s Day/s concept. Probably they find that concept inherently distasteful. This is briefly outlined in the blog header-text (swirlly font vs gothic block explanation)
#ooky spooky refers to "halloweeny" or "scary" subjectmatter outside halloween weddings. That link only works on browser-version, app version says no. Everything tagged 'ooky spooky' is also tagged either #ooky for medical/gore/body horror things or #spooky for uncanny/creepy/scary things
#wedding-wedding is for "with what would I personally replace every element of a de rigueur White Wedding? "
#crape myrtle are all pictures etc that accurately depict the party* from the first chapter of a metaphysical scifi I wrote a few years ago *(which is actually a wedding, although this is unnoticed by the narrator due to cultural inexperience). The living furniture on the lawn described in the story are crape myrtle trees that have been growing with people sitting on the main trunk of each for about a decade, after the tree was big enough to support an adult weight; the limbs get played-with also. Neither link for these tags works on the app, but are peachykeen on browser-version. I tagged more posts crape myrtle, fyi. If you follow this link and click the tag crape myrtle at the bottom, it should take you to all my posts sharing that tag. This post is actually a picture of the narrator's teacher's house, minus the floating cupola, which would be attached by a chain to the overhanging-most curve of the top-most roof, imagining that it extends just a bit further (or that the hook stucture pictured on the topmost roof at the back, is in a different place i.e. on a reinforced lip of the edge we see foregrounded) and that the cupola is about as heavy as a treepod with a floor.
Other format notes:
The use of "/s" is to indicate variability in read; are you having a couples wedding? Then you'll read the word "partner/s" as partner. If it's a polycule wedding the word would be partners. This is the most space/letter-economical way of denoting this
The main participant's outfit cues (including any wedding topic reference picture), are the first part of the post after the description and tend to be formatted so they follow vertically downward in terms of garment inclusion within one look, so that outerwear tends to be at the bottom, but this is not always the case (it should be clear from garment type when that format convention is disrupted; usually it's so two bodies-in-garments are positioned on the same visual plane, "it's equality"). Eg here the "V" partner is on the left (mask plus headpiece, in vertical order of wearing) and the "Evey" partner is the next column over (pink velveteen bunny-gerie), even though this post has both looks collaged into one image. Generally this "primary images" space will have cues for two partners only, simply to make them more visible without clicking to enlarge
If no guestwear inspiration is posted assume regular wedding formal or casual everyday/informal depending on event type. (When multiple looks are presented for a guestfree wedding assume that, as usual, they're just different options for the marital partners themselves; marital party size depends only on those getting married, not the planner (i.e. every look could be used for a large polycule or only one could be used, e.g. by someone monomarrying). Guestwear is always seperate, and seperated.)
