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I struggled with being my whole self for so long. . I thought that people could only take me if I was shades of grey, if I was more palatable. . When you are wholly yourself, the people who like the real you will stick around and the people who don’t....well, they won’t. . And it will hurt a little when they leave, and they might take shots at you on the way out, but trust me. . Benign true to yourself beats keeping fake friends around ❤️ (at Bellingham, Washington)

Sometimes you have days where everything is going wrong and you just want to go back to bed. . And sometimes you have days where you find a Kat Von D lipstick (Color: LULLABYE) on sale for FOUR DOLLARS and your new haircut turns out amazing. . That’s life, right? (at Bellingham, Washington)

I don’t always post selfies, but when I do, it’s because I got a new palette from Urban Decay. . Also, I had to take eleven shots to get just the right pose, of course 😂 . . . . . #klxud #sephorahaul #urbandecaycosmetics #makeupideas #mua (at Bellingham, Washington)

#klxud #sephorahaul #makeupideas #mua #urbandecaycosmetics

I’ve been doing a lot of serious stuff lately, but I have to couch it with a good joke. . This is what’s currently on my mantel and every time I walk past it, I smile a little. . Related: I really want a cape. (at Bellingham, Washington)

I haven’t always been able to be friends with women. I’ve distanced myself from other women on purpose throughout the years because of varying degrees of trauma inflicted on me as I was growing up from people who I thought were my friends. . And sadly, there were times when I inflicted emotional trauma on other women from my place of hurt. . But I have a tribe now. A tribe of women supporting other women and today on International Women’s Day, I want to honor them. The women I know and love who have walked with me through dark times, and those who have been patient with me as I move into the light. Thank you. (at Bellingham, Washington)

This has been hanging over my desk for a week or so and every time I look at it, I take three deep breaths. . See, I am scared. . I am scared I’m screwing up my kids. I am terrified that everyone is adulting better than I am. I am scared of my future and the empty house when my kids are gone. . I hope one day to be completely fearless, but right now I take it one day at a time. (at Bellingham, Washington)

All of this will be on the blog soon, but I made a lemon raspberry bundt cake and needed a glaze. . Regular powdered sugar and milk didn’t seem like enough...so I took some lemon juice, some @vitalproteins matcha collagen powder and powdered sugar and boom. . Perfect. (Maybe a little runny.)

I used to hate my face. . I used to look in the mirror and speak such hateful things to myself. I was so buried in my misery that I couldn’t even look at my own face. . It took a long time to (mostly) stop. It took a lot of staring at myself in the mirror and picking one thing I like and gushing about that. . If you can’t speak life into yourself, it is so difficult to help others. And I want to help others (and love myself a little more too) ❤️

Even a cold day is a good day for a milkshake, am I right?

There are news helicopters hovering near my house and the constant drone of the blades is making me uneasy. . See, my son and his friends (along with students at all the middle schools and high schools in our district) have walked out of class in protest and are heading to city hall for a rally. . They’re literally asking us why we haven’t done anything to ensure their safety while they are AT SCHOOL. They are asking us what we can do about it. . Do we have an answer? (at Bellingham, Washington)

Check the blog for a new post about our trip to the Goodwill auction house! . (Photo is the logo for Goodwill from 1950-1968, “Good Willy”, from the tile floor at the learning center!) (at Goodwill of Olympics and Rainier Region)

Celebrating love and birthdays and some of my favorite humans. . Macaron flavors are (clockwise from left): Raspberry Chardonnay, Unicorn (cotton candy), and Burning Love (red hot cinnamon). (at Lady Yum)

It’s my birthday today and I celebrated the best way I know how: with the birthday cake marshmallows.

There has been so much chocolate and so many marshmallows in my house this past week. . I’m pretty sure the cat has marshmallow on her too 😂

Why yes, I do deserve a donut. Thank you for noticing. (at Lafeens Family Pride Donuts and Ice Cream)

One last round of croissants before I move on. . Check out those layers tho 😍😍😍

I’m neck deep into “bake things that scare you” right now, and they all seem to be carb-based. . These are croissants from Martha. And I ate four of them already.

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