117. Rita Mae Brown (b. 1944)
I grew up in a society (communist Romania) that suppressed any reference to non-heterosexual desire other than as a psychological condition, an illness. Gay men were placed in psychiatric wards, and apparently there were no lesbians. So when I discovered Rita Mae Brown and her writings, it was a true revelation. I later came to fully appreciate the extent of her impact on the second wave feminist movement. This is a brief tribute to her contributions to enrich our understanding of patriarchy and her celebration of womanhood.
Rita Mae Brown was born in Pennsylvania and later abandoned to an orphanage, where an aunt and uncle retrieved and adopted her, eventually taking the family to Florida, where the Brown spent most of her childhood and youth. Her parents were active in local activities of the Republican Party during a period of time when segregation was still the norm.
Brown started college in 1962 and attended University of Florida just as the Civil Rights movement was getting off the ground. She was immediately drawn to the politics of anti-discrimination and human rights and started to organize, work with peers on campus campaigns against segregation, and was eventually expelled for her activities. After attempting to continue her education at a more inclusive institution in the South, she made her way to New York City in 1964, where she enrolled and completed a degree in Classics and English at New York University by 1969. She was scraping by, sleeping in cars and on friends’ couches.
Clearly passionate about the ways in which knowledge makers and cultural producers generated specific discourses about individual rights, democracy, and discrimination, she eventually earned further certificates and degrees in cinematography (the School of Visual Arts in NYC), literature (PhD from Union Institute and University) and political science (PhD from the Institute for Policy Studies). But for Brown knowledge was power only insofar as she could deploy it in the most public way; she did not aspire to academic glory or the security of an academic job. Instead, she remained fearlessly focused on being at the center of cultural fervor and political mobilization around the feminist movement.
Looking at Brown’s restless pattern of joining or starting specific groups and then leaving them behind, one might conclude she was someone who could never be pleased, either too radical or too irksome in her relations with others. Neither conclusion would be further from the truth. She joined the National Organization for Women with high hopes, but was marginalized and eventually kicked out by Betty Friedan because Brown insisted on the need to define patriarchal oppression and feminism in direct relation to their attitude towards lesbians and heteronormativity more broadly. Friedan wanted the organization she had started to remain “respectable” and represented Brown and other lesbian activists in NOW as “The Lavender Menace.” Before taking that derogatory term and turning it on its head, Brown first reached out to Friedan to ask her to reconsider. As I read her letter today, her request strikes me as eminently reasonable:
“There is contention among you [members of NOW], and fear that lesbian members will confuse your cause and the media. I ask you, have women ever been fairly represented in the media? Doesn’t the media, which is run by middle class males, always represent women unfairly? And isn’t the media’s image of women exactly what one of NOW’s goal is to change? Why not accept our help and the added force our identity brings so we can join our forces and double our strength together?... My interest is in the successful future of the feminist movement, and I hope that my remarks will persuade you to reconsider your position.”
Brown’s plea remained unanswered and she found herself rejected by other groups she worked with, inclusive of gay rights activists, because of various forms of prejudice and marginalization she considered to be at odds with the struggle against patriarchy and other forms of discrimination.
Resilient in her political passions, she turned away from organizing and mobilizing and towards writing and exposing. To date, she has published over 50 novels, 4 works of non-fiction, and has written more than 10 screenplays. Her first work of fiction made Brown a household name and reaffirmed her belief that good literature about lesbians was good literature that could change the attitude of many homophobes. Rubyfruit Jungle (1973) was partly based on Brown’s own experiences of growing up lesbian and her confrontation with heteronormativity, but focused primarily on the agency of the main character, walking the reader through her perception of the world, her traumas, the repeated humiliations and inequities she was exposed to by both open bigots and those she loved and cherished. The book was originally issued by a small press, but soon found a wide audience and was re-published to significant commercial success. It was the first lesbian novel to sell over 100,000 copies.
Though no longer the public face of “The Lavender Menace,” Brown continued her quest for exposing patriarchy and homophobia through the plots of her novels and screenplays, such as the documentary Mary Pickford: A Life on Film (1997). Pickford was the subject of a previous entry on this blog. Around the same time she published a memoir about her trials and tribulations with the feminist and lesbian communities, Rita Will: Memoir of a Literary Rabble-Rouser (1997). Today she lives on a horse farm in Virginia and continues to write successful mystery novels.













