Happy Pride!!
I know it's a little late on the month, but I wanted to make something cute to celebrate my crack ship OTPs I don't really have like wild headcanons for their sexualities or gender identities, nor I feel like it would be ok to pull random ideas just to make it more queer. This is just how I feel about them at the moment :3
aaaaa that's just my OC, Mara~ I can't really go to pride parades or talk about this with most people around me for many reasons...
If someone tells you that being in the ace spectrum it's "easy" because you can mask/blend with the "mainstream", well nope~ Discrimination takes many forms, and telling people that the way they feel is a phase, they're just confused, they're traumatized, broken or sick or just the old plain "everybody feels like that!**" is still erasure and is still painful.
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**No Karen, I don't partake in "hookup culture" because of social backlash, or an std, or even to fall in the hands of a dangerous person (all pretty valid fears and reasons to abstain from that btw), I don't do "casual" anything, not even kissing, because I literally feel no desire for a total stranger, even if I find them atractive. Attraction/interest ≠ sexual desire, I NEED to know them as people first, then the desire comes after.
I can find a person physically appealing, aka, "hot" and still not want to have s3x with them lol aaaaand it did cost me a relationship. Kinda wild that people can't separate having a crush from experiencing sexual desire when most people get their first crushes before they even know about sex lol
