Thesis days are slipping away like sand in my hands, I can't quite formulate my words around the amount of stress & burden but also the amazing joy taking a stab at something I've been so deeply passionate about.
I've been working with 3 creative young women this past year to offer help in bringing their presence to take shape in the online space. Sharing my personal learnings from the journey:
1. Helping is costly. Costly than what I initially thought.
I'm not going to downplay what helping envolves. It breaks into my few hours of sleep and family time left within the day, outside of work and school, to respond in communications, be attentive to needs, give thoughts on what parts I can help with and actually go do them.Â
2. Helping gives lots of joy. Much more than I imagined.
The encouragements I've received back from the women I've worked with fueled my creativity and my personal life. Collectively we've exchanged about 212 emails within 6 months time, anywhere between 0~9.5 hours time difference. I also found joy in sharing my skills and knowledge. Seeing how my skills can be helpful in tangible ways were an empowering experience.
3. Helping lets you connect deeply with people. Newie and oldie.
As I was acquiring experience of steps to create a micro brand presence online with one of the woman, I was reconnected with my high school friend who draws these beautiful characters. Now all I want to see is her dreams come to life, opening an Etsy store, make story books and stationaries, and hold art exhibitions for good cause.
Time and energy gets divided, but heart doesn't. The more we care it seems to expand and make more room. As I made new relationships while working with the 3 women, the more I got to know them I've learned and cared more about them. 20-30 years later, I want to inherit to my daughter the global relationships and networks that came from true bondings as we launched something together. I want to be able to do more, so I can help more. By helping other women, I became more driven but with less selfish reasons.
What's driving you to do what you do?
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