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outlet for my misandry

[misandrysaveslives]

The reason my blog name is misandry saves lives is because I truly believe if more women decentred males from their lives and stopped giving them any grace we could prevent so many deaths from occuring. Males are inherently dangerous to women so much so that even if there are “good ones”, there is no way to know which ones are. Ladies I promise you if you stop hanging around/dating males you will be so much safer. The biggest threat to a woman’s safety will always be a male.

By being “misandrist” (which I don’t really believe to be a real thing, but that has been the label given to me) you are avoiding unnecessary interactions with males which means avoiding potential dangerous situations.

Misandry saves lives.

Please do not percieve this as me victim blaming, I would never.

[misandrysaveslives]

The older I get, the bigger my disdain for religion grows.

I just don’t understand how generally intelligent and good people believe in those ideas. I mean yes it’s good to promote loving one another and sharing community, but then your religious texts have multiple examples of your god murdering, destroying and preaching hate to women, non-virgins, homosexuals, non-believers etc etc. Especially Abrahamic religions which are very clear on their views on women: How can you think for even a second that an ideology which oppresses and undermines half of the global population could be compatible with society?

The more you look into it you can’t help but see it for the burden on society it truly is and how much it is holding us back from real progression and modernity.

[misandrysaveslives]

Women are raised to fear men, yet if you explicitly say that you fear men it’s wrong…?

From a young age, you are told not to hang out with boys and “they only want one thing” and you hear stories in the news of women being kidnapped, assaulted or murdered by men. Or that if you go out, don’t be surprised if your drink is spiked and to take measures to prevent this etc etc. Fathers especially hate the idea of their daughters being around men because they fear for their safety. There is this general idea that is taught to you as a woman, specifically as a young woman (16-24) that there are men out to get you and you need to be very cautious.

But if you say that you’re scared of men, you are immediately met with statements like “don’t say that” “not every man is bad” “you shouldn’t generalise” “well then how do you expect to find a boyfriend?” “what about your dad or brother?” “that’s a little dramatic, don’t you think?”

So which is it? Are we to be scared of men or not?

[misandrysaveslives]

amazing feminists of the past died spending their lives fighting for apparently sydney sweeney to sit with her legs up tits out and a dummy in her mouth

dawg look at our women we are never getting out of the patriarchy 😭

[misandrysaveslives]

The moment you call me a bitch any argument you’re trying to make flies out the window. I really don’ttt care what you say or what you think, bitch is a word that I don’t take lightly.

[misandrysaveslives]

not that this will change your mind but other men have always been the nicest and most accepting people ever to me (as a trans man). most of what i get from women is terf bullshit like yours, "you're throwing away your beauty, you're too pretty to be trans", or just straight up being ignored and treated like a woman despite it being painfully obvious i hated it. all the men i have known have just immediately accepted me as one of the boys and treated me like a normal human being worthy of respect, no woman has ever done that for me

Don’t call me a terf because i never speak ill of trans people. I dont care about them, they can do what they want it’s their life.

Also why does it surprise you that men can only find it in themselves to respect other men? Do you expect me to start believing that oh some men are good because the only AFAB person they could respect was one who identifies as a man like you’re almost proving my point that men are misogynistic pricks. I don’t know what women you’ve been hanging around with that you’ve never met a single woman who respects you as a human… It sounds like you have some sort of internalised misogyny that you’re trying to rationalise by thinking that women hate you so it’s okay for you to hate them too.

And from the comments you’ve made about being conventionally attractive did you perhaps consider (and i apologise in advance for my vulgarity) that maybe they just wanted to sleep with you?

[misandrysaveslives]

Prolifers want women to give birth because they know and believe deep down that motherhood can be punishing especially for those who don’t want it. It isn’t for the sake of the child but to punish a woman for having sex and enjoying it (Right wing, prolifers, religious folk etc don’t want sex to be pleasurable for a woman but that’s a whole nother rabbit hole).

They don’t even try to hide it. See First Timothy chapter 2 verses 12 through 15:

[misandrysaveslives]

I am usually overran with misandry and it overflows from my metaphorical cup but lately all my hate has been towards israel.

i just fucking hate israel i hate it i hate it hate it

[misandrysaveslives]

The epstein files are further proof that males are not our protectors and never will be.

Males with children who are the exact type of person that would feel a personal moral outrage against these crimes are the ones committing them. Trump has grandchildren and Vance has young children, yet they have either participated in these crimes or been complicit in covering it up.

also kinda unrelated but epstein was definitely mossad so as always fuck israel

[misandrysaveslives]

Wait if it's not okay for women to be friends with men because men oppress women, does that mean it's not okay for black people to be friends with white people because white people oppress black people?

Obviously not dickhead.

It’s not because of oppression it’s because of the staggering rates of SA against women by men already known to them. It’s a safety thing.

And I never said it’s not okay, I just said I would recommend that women avoid seeking friendships with males. It’s your life and I don’t expect women to do whatever some random tumblr blog is telling them to do.

dont be acting dumb in my fkn inbox

[misandrysaveslives]

It bugs me how everyone including radfems say that men are misogynistic because of only socialisation and not biology, because like ok... what is the origin of the socialisation then?? Did it magically spring up from nowhere? And why have males of literally every single population group and culture independently developed misogyny? If we can acknowledge that women are oppressed because of our biology then it stands to reason that men oppress us because of theirs. This is not to let them off the hook in any way, quite the opposite. Men have the capacity to fight their retarded lizard-brains unlike male animals, and they have the obligation to do so if they wish to have any claims to humanity and the faculties of reason. Their ubiquitous refusal to live in accordance with reality and their psychotic persuit of sexual domination is antithetic to everything good in the world, a monstrous betrayal of the human species and its potential.

i dont think i have much to add or say about this just posting so everyone else can see and dhare their opinions 👍🏽

[misandrysaveslives]

One of my biggest pet peeves is when males say that feminism or rather “modern feminism” has become synonymous with misandry, which just isn’t true at all.

I have never ever seen a feminist who just outwardly hates males. When a woman is a misandrist, she will let you know straight up. In fact as a misandrist myself, I am well aware that a lot of feminists actually hate me and my views.

I think that this mistaken interpretation comes from the fact that when feminists state a fact, statistic or recurring negative behaviour seen in males, it is seen as misandry. It makes males feel uncomfortable and threatened to acknowledge their wrongdoings so they just play the victim.

Which is why I also encourage more women to become misandrists instead of feminists. Here you are fighting for both genders (the only movement where you are expected to be considerate of your oppressors) and they are still ungrateful troglodytes.

[poetebertram]

How many "abort male fetuses" posts do you need to see to update your post?

[misandrysaveslives]

Like I said… Misandrists and Feminists are different

[misandrysaveslives]

Maybe if we actually punished rapists in most countries they wouldnt pretend to be women to get into women's spaces

Perhaps

But sentencing doesn’t always work as a deterrent. For example southern states in the US have higher murder rates than the north, even though the death penalty still exists.

I think if rapists want to rape they’ll do it, doesn’t really matter what the law is.

However I do feel as though it is important to note that there hasn’t been any data to suggest that after trans inclusive legislation has been passed that it has been used as a loophole of sorts. Feel free to shoot me a source for this if I’m wrong!

[misandrysaveslives]

One of my biggest pet peeves is when males say that feminism or rather “modern feminism” has become synonymous with misandry, which just isn’t true at all.

I have never ever seen a feminist who just outwardly hates males. When a woman is a misandrist, she will let you know straight up. In fact as a misandrist myself, I am well aware that a lot of feminists actually hate me and my views.

I think that this mistaken interpretation comes from the fact that when feminists state a fact, statistic or recurring negative behaviour seen in males, it is seen as misandry. It makes males feel uncomfortable and threatened to acknowledge their wrongdoings so they just play the victim.

Which is why I also encourage more women to become misandrists instead of feminists. Here you are fighting for both genders (the only movement where you are expected to be considerate of your oppressors) and they are still ungrateful troglodytes.

[misandrysaveslives]

i wish i was lying but someone followed this blog whose whole thing was that males are so terrible that its women’s fault and that women made them like that and enables them, even when we are being misandrist its still somehow a woman’s fault??

like how did we manage to do a whole 180 and get to that…

anyways none of that on this blog, i only hate males and women are my beautiful sisters and i love you guys xxxxxx

[misandrysaveslives]

That whole situation with the trans woman in the female locker room at golds gym in california has kickstarted a really important conversation and I’m glad. Even other trans people and liberals are looking at the situation confused as to where they draw the line.

People can dress and express themselves any way they want I don’t give a fuck but we have to set boundaries as to where this self expression stops. That poor woman in the locker room was walked in on naked and felt totally violated justifiably so. We are ignoring the discomfort of biological females in an attempt to comfort people who suffer from gender dysphoria which is ridiculous because their condition shouldn’t be affecting women at all. Plain and simple: it’s not our problem.

Make a new locker room, a unisex one, individual stalls, I don’t really care but it shouldn’t be hurting women.

[beewildered]

Women are getting "triggered" and "violated" over seeing naked bodies in the changing room, and your solution is a unisex changing room, which will make them see even more varieties of naked bodies? Surely that's only going to hurt them more.

Better solution: stop treating the naked body like it's something scandalous. If you are triggered at the sight of someone's naked body, get therapy, and don't go into public changing rooms. We're ignoring their discomfort because it's a stupid thing to be uncomfortable about. We all have flesh, we all have skin, it's not something to be afraid of.

[misandrysaveslives]

first of all by unisex i meant in addition to the current system then those who dont feel like they fit in to a certain bathroom can go in those.

also shut the fuck up freak not everybody wants to be butt ass naked in front of people. weirdo

[misandrysaveslives]

That whole situation with the trans woman in the female locker room at golds gym in california has kickstarted a really important conversation and I’m glad. Even other trans people and liberals are looking at the situation confused as to where they draw the line.

People can dress and express themselves any way they want I don’t give a fuck but we have to set boundaries as to where this self expression stops. That poor woman in the locker room was walked in on naked and felt totally violated justifiably so. We are ignoring the discomfort of biological females in an attempt to comfort people who suffer from gender dysphoria which is ridiculous because their condition shouldn’t be affecting women at all. Plain and simple: it’s not our problem.

Make a new locker room, a unisex one, individual stalls, I don’t really care but it shouldn’t be hurting women.