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For the hetero girlies out there who are desperate to be in a relationship:
I work in finance in a department that is all men plus me, a woman. I work very closely with them.
Half of them are taken, have a girlfriend or a beautiful wife with children. I know they treat their partners very well, are super romantic and thoughtful by the way they treat them at business events, BUT:
The moment the women leave and we’re back to everyday life in the office, it’s boy locker room talk.
And I’m in the middle of it.
Your boyfriend let me scroll through his FYP on TikTok and Explore page on IG to prove his point that every man’s feed is full of næked women and soft p**n. Even though he’s not liking the posts, he stays long enough on them for the algorithm to learn that he likes that content.
Your partner is getting a hard øn just by the photo of an outlook contact by the hot colleague from the legal department and is constantly raving about how hot she is.
Your man to whom you said yes to is started smoking just to go on smoke break together with the hot young assistant of his boss.
She’s very new to the office world because she can’t nail the business casual dress code yet but her taken boss doesn’t say anything against her baby pink frilly skirt that ends just under her butt cheeks.
Who are their female partners? I can tell you; I talked to them.
A college student in her masters program.
A doctor in training.
An entrepreneur who started her own business and has been the bread winner for 3 years.
A woman who gave her boyfriend or my boss three sweaters for me because I forgot to pack something warm for the group business trip.
A woman who left all her friends and family behind to move 500 km to be with her broke ass partner.
You’re not special, your future love won’t be special and that damn man isn’t either.
It’s so interesting how people will act so surprised and disturbed about how brutal Victorian beauty standards and procedures were when we have people risking their lives for BBLs and plastic surgery. Do people not know how risky these procedures can be? Not to mention how sexist beauty standards are, with all of the double standards.
Build your self-concept and identity from a perspective completely detached from men. You can be your utmost ethereal, feminine and divine without being tied to men in any capacity.
Being seen as someone who is in relationship with a man should never be internalized as an identity marker. One should learn to view men as people with whom we share spaces, without attaching our sense of belonging to the places they may or may not fill in our lives.
Detachment works wonders because once you lower your expectations and desires towards men, you gain your agency entirely for your own sake and benefit. You stop doing things looking to get a reaction out of them, and their comments or perceptions towards you become entirely meaningless.
The reason my blog name is misandry saves lives is because I truly believe if more women decentred males from their lives and stopped giving them any grace we could prevent so many deaths from occuring. Males are inherently dangerous to women so much so that even if there are “good ones”, there is no way to know which ones are. Ladies I promise you if you stop hanging around/dating males you will be so much safer. The biggest threat to a woman’s safety will always be a male.
By being “misandrist” (which I don’t really believe to be a real thing, but that has been the label given to me) you are avoiding unnecessary interactions with males which means avoiding potential dangerous situations.
Misandry saves lives.
Please do not percieve this as me victim blaming, I would never.
The greatest sacrifice a woman can ever offer in ritual and magic is her menses. The most potent and sacred sacrifice that we’ve been demonized for for Millenia while our prosecutors mutilate and brutalize innocents. Ladies your menstrual is magic USE IT we have lost ENOUGH.
