what do you say when you find out your ex-boyfriend and his wife are pregnant? what do you say when you’re flooded with memories of rumors death threats and the potential of restraining orders? when suddenly you you don’t feel safe in your own home on the opposite side of the country from him? what do you say when one of your bridesmaids responds “We can’t hold him to who he was in high school. "I did dumb things the summer after I graduated. There has to be grace for him too.” is it my job to give that grace? do I even have that in my body?
















