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@missvedra
I am so curious about you.
I did a sketch tonight that was a sort of topographic map of all the places on your body where I want to put my mouth and
I didnāt get far beyond your inner thighs and when I was done they looked like mountains
No oneās choice but mine.
A deeply affectionate letter to my tattooist
Hi [redacted]
I am going to to try and not write a novel here, lol. Sending along thought starters for my session in August, along with a couple of tattoos you've posted that had elements I really enjoyed. I have a decent handle on what we can get done in four hours, but here is my "wish list" and you can prioritize based on what sounds artistically enjoyable and possible in the timeframe.
I sketched ideas over the last year, and in the last two weeks I've tried to reduce them down to my favorites. Feel free to incorporate or not based on whatever hits/doesn't.
Areas:
1. Add a small bit to the chest piece (to bring it down to the bottom of my sternum with something delicate/ femme and geometric.
2. Right upper thigh piece
3. Gingko leaf arm additions.
The gingko leaves are particularly close to my heart. Three ginkgo trees survived the bombs in Hiroshima, and their cuttings have been sent all over the world for museums and memorials. I've been growing a gingko for years, the stamps and drawings I've attached are from my own tree where I printed or carved linocuts from the leaves. We've had a tough few years here, and a little memorial to thriving in the Dark Times would be lovely.
I've drawn a lot of stuff that looks like a hybrid between Giger, Mucha, and the futuristic femme stuff I love. Did you know that Japanese Edo-dynasty block prints largely inspired the Art Nouveau movement in Europe? The trade embargo against Japan lifted, and suddenly European artists could get all these really inexpensive Japanese block prints, and they bought them in droves. Fell down that wormhole for about a week! Nerd stuff but I love it.
I really loved on the one tattoo you did where the gray dot-work has negative space shapes, and I loved the way the geometric one is so crisp.
As always, you're the artist, and I'd love to hear thoughts/ feedback/ see what resonates with you. Can't wait to see you!
~~~
It would have been nice if he had even been willing to speak up for me.
Itās challenging to want someone in such a genuine and heartfelt way, and then be shown so FAST how one-sided those feelings are in reality. Itās a downer. Distance growing again, when I so much wanted the opposite.
I honestly have no hard feelings; canāt do peopleās work for them. I will retain my Muchness, so, thatās something gained.
I will be extra as fuck too much and too loving straight to my grave Iād rather die on the hill of loving things than perish in a valley of being scared to try.
I may never get over this pattern but my truest art will come from it
Back in April. I knew it was almost time and I knew how it would go but I just wanted to stay making and hopeful
I planted citronella I repotted a fussy fig tree i poured gasoline having never done that before
I told a man to send another man a misdirected sex toy
. . .
the last man inside me I think didnāt love me at all
āWhen Are We Normalā
- Ortolan Asimov
I want to stand on the back of a sofa and shriek at you. We all want to help you. We all see your value. If you insist on being in pain, alone, I can not violate that boundary.
You should know: I will sit very close
On the other side of the line you drew
Asleep, because itās the fastest way to wait, and in my mind, only ever almost holding your hand.
Iāve reached as far as my arms will go. Give
Me
Something.
I am just so sad and so angry.
When and if, it will be the right way.
The way I love to fall asleep rolling fantasies around in my mind.
This tumblr may seem like an altar to the person I am writing all this about and in a way thatās true. Iām holding this in my own heart. Itās a record of āwhat ifā and to me, itās messy and dramatic and SO embarrassing. I am a pragmatist at heart, trying not to project or be weird, but to still be okay with imagining. Dreaming just hasnāt felt safe for so long. Gotta practice.
Never really had a thing for knives
Until he was the one holding the knife.
6.12.2025
I feel a need to bring balance to my reaction to today to let you know; I went upstairs at 9pm, turned off all the lights and stripped to just my tshirt, laid on the floor and ate a bowl of Parmesan pasta-roni, four York peppermints and 18oz of water.
Also, some soy rice crackers.
A shop I would have missed if he hadnāt been looking.
The little carnelian heart was too precious to pass up. The bell is very high and pure and quick and along with a Fatherās Day card, I happily got those for myself. The jasper acorn was a surprise. And two black pencils with rainbow lead.
I am so interested to see how the colors work. I only cried once; I was really happy. A couple moments of my first real rest in a long long time.
I cried in the shower when I got home becauseā¦remember the first time something beautiful caught your heart off guard with the overwhelm, and you got goosebumps, or your whole smile came out, out of nowhere and maybe you cried a little?
Not because it was bad, or out of hurting, but simply it was beautiful and so very Much? Iād forgotten and it was much Much.
Came home and the peonies are blooming for the very first time. They do take their time.
A cat kissed my finger.
A Very Good Day
I have this sort of loose way I process bringing together all the components of my real personality.
Itās a concept I used in therapy years ago, when I was trying to explain to my therapist how I feel as if Iāve kept a part of myself locked in a basement. That version of me was locked up because she was so angry, and I could feel the anger. I was so tired of people pleasing, always being small, having the dominant and strong parts of me labeled as loud and bitchy and Too Much.
I didnāt know how to integrate that feeling, when Iād done it to myself. I imagined the two halves talking to one another and it helped me accept that both versions had a lot to learn about one another, and both of them wanted to make peace.
That Basement half of me is the loud half, the mean half, the angry half. She loves screaming and drinking too much and crushing at competitions. Sheās the power, the attitude thatās cynical and takes loss hard. Sheās also the fighter, the crucial part of me I suppressed to feel safe and accepted.
Often when I am puzzling a life circumstance or an emotion, youāll find Basement Me cheering at Upstairs Me to be a little louder, a more forceful.
Upstairs Me often holds Basement Me and reminds that version of how valuable she is and important and doesnāt deserve to be alone and unheard. Basement Me often gets lovingly questioned about the source of her feelings, and Upstairs Me is learning when to ask her for help.
Last night i brushed my teeth and got into bed. Heaved a sigh into the dark for the hundredth time that evening.
I went to the mental space where I essentially talk to myself, and for the very first time I can ever remember, we both sat down together and cried.
We both brought the best version of ourself to something that really mattered. We teamed up. We reminded one another of the patterns we wonāt repeat, and the worth we each have.
We worked together in a real and aware way for the first time, and it was Right, in the end, but we both took a hit to the heart.
Upstairs Me doesnāt understand what sheād done wrong to not win. Basement Me is angry because she has a lionās share of the strongest versions of desire, and she is a wildcat, and she grinds her teeth when denied things she wants.
āThe right thing the wrong way isnāt the right thing at all,ā said Basement Me.
āIf it canāt be right, I donāt want it,ā Upstairs Me sighed out through a bit lip.
So, cheers to teamwork, and waiting for whatever comes next that is Right.
Felt good to get along.