OLD ACCOUNT

follow my new account @punksp1ce !!!!!!!!!

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OLD ACCOUNT FOLLOW @punksp1ce

this is my old account follow my new account @punksp1ce !!!!!!!

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OLD ACCOUNT FOLLOW @punksp1ce

this is my old account pls unfollow it and follow @punksp1ce !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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OLD ACCOUNT FOLLOW @punksp1ce

this is my old account pls unfollow it and follow @punksp1ce !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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thinking of making a new acc,,, this one is like 4 yrs old

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fuck it i’m doin it,,, mutuals who don’t follow back the new acc r meanies

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thinking of making a new acc,,, this one is like 4 yrs old

[spacebeach23]

1964 Fender Duo Sonic II

from: http://www.emeraldcityguitars.com

[iilluussoorr]

Pulp - This Is Hardcore (1998, dir. Doug Nichol)

[theglowpt2-deactivated20200101]

supporting local businesses is nice i guess but if you own a “thrift store” where you re-sell vintage tshirts for $18 you’re getting a place next to bezos in line for the ‘tine

[weirdlandtv]

Onomatopoeia from the 1966 BATMAN TV show.

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this time last year i hung out w a Lot people who suck and now i have like 2 irl friends life is funny

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waiting for the day that depeche mode isn’t my most listened artist on last.fm just waiting

[room1000yearswide]

[postpunkindustrial]

Greg Sage of The Wipers

[mossgirl]

GRASS by Michele Tagliaferri

[poison303]

Paul Weller, Brian Eno and Blixa Bargeld, by Anton Corbijn

[moronicbehavior]

Joe Strummer’s Tele’s

[atlanxic-deactivated20250205]

sometimes you say or do bad things while you’re in an awful mental place. sometimes you say things that are rude or uncalled for or manipulative. and i’m not going to hold that against you. mental illness is hard, and no one is perfect. but once you’re through that episode, you need to take steps to make amends. you need to apologize.

“i couldn’t help it, i was having a bad episode” is a justification, not an apology.

“i’m so fucking sorry, i fucked up, i don’t deserve to live, i should stop talking to anyone ever, i should die” is a second breakdown and a guilt trip. it is not an apology.

when you apologize, the focus should be on the person you hurt. “i’m sorry. i did something that was hurtful to you. even if i was having a rough time, you didn’t deserve to hear that,” is a better apology. if it was a small thing, you can leave it at that.

if you caused significant distress to the other person, this is a good time to talk about how you can minimize damage in the future. and again, even if it is tempting to say you should self-isolate and/or die, that is not a helpful suggestion. it will result in the person you’re talking to trying to talk you out of doing that, which makes your guilt the focus of the conversation instead of their hurt.

you deserve friendship, and you deserve support. but a supportive friend is not an emotional punching bag, and mental illness does not absolve you of responsibility for your actions. what you say during a mental breakdown doesn’t define you. how you deal with the aftermath though, says a lot.

[nebet-ren]

This is the most carefully-nuanced discussion of this I think I have ever seen. Thank you for writing this.