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@mollythewallflower
I think taking pictures of strangers in public without their knowledge or consent and posting it online is really odd, even if it’s a cute or nice moment
the worst thing you can do as a woman is settle. no romance, no flowers, no gifts, no surprises, no vacays, no dates, no quality time?? just there and available. that's a sad place to be. u have to want more for yourself because it's out there
Obsessed with beautiful things, feelings, smells, language, sounds because that is all i have to remind me what it is to be fully alive. I can’t allow myself to miss out in what life has to offer!!! I need to be awake for it, because one day i will look back at the life that i was given and know that I loved it fully even in my grief.
don’t forget that it’s your life. it’s not school’s life, it’s not work’s life, it’s not your family or your partner’s life—it’s perpetually your life, for better or worse. what do you want from this life? forget happy, what motivates you to live? why are you here?
hate hate hate a “i’m a bad husband but i’m a good father” type of man because a bad husband cannot be a good father :)
Being with the wrong person scares me more than being alone.
Why you should be more selfish
I think a lot of people aren’t selfish enough. And I don’t mean the “bad selfish” like being greedy, entitled, lacking compassion for others, using people etc I mean the good selfish… where you prioritize your well being, your peace, your future instead of constantly pouring from an empty cup
Most of us were taught that selflessness is the highest virtue, that putting others before ourselves is what makes us “good.” Then there’s the manipulative tactics from others that come with it, making matters worse emotionally and physically for you. You can’t show up for anyone else if you’re drained or living a life that doesn’t feel like your own
Good selfishness means you say no to things that drain your energy even if others don’t understand or get upset. It means choosing your HEALTH over convenience. It means walking AWAY from relationships that disrespect your worth. Protecting your time like the precious resource it is… because IT IS. Investing in your growth, even if others call it indulgent (the better you get, the more you can pour into and inspire others)
When you practice this kind of selfishness, you actually become more generous because you’re giving from a place of fullness. You’re modeling what it means to honor yourself & that gives others permission to do the same. If it’s one thing I’ve seen across the board that affects people the most, it’s not the lack of, or the support, it’s that they are simply unaware that certain realities and things can exist aside from their own (no fault to them of course)
So no, you’re not a bad person for choosing yourself. You’re simply practicing a higher level of responsibility & self respect that says that you matter too ✨
The tree of discipline bears many fruits