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"do you talk out loud when you're alone" i am one bad week from turning into tom hanks in cast away

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dark clouds rolling in ...

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is there any cure to perfectionism?

understanding and finding other ways to soothe the fear underneath it. letting go of the need to impress others and the need to protect yourself from their judgement. accepting yourself as you are; limitations, faults and all (you know, simple easy stuff). allowing yourself to fail and fuck up and fall short - and learn and try again and get better. center something else. with art, center the joy of making, of embodying and expressing, of being immersed in the creative process. center creativity, center soul, honesty. being willing to suck is how you grow (and make anything at all!)

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once you notice half of all memes are just a picture of a black person with unrelated text over them you really cannot unsee it

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i exist on the line between everything, in the gap that glitters

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not to be dramatic but i literally wither audrey 2 style without a high dose of physical affection

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What does it mean when my nervous system has been in shut down for years? Basically 90% of my adulthood. I have started body oriented therapy 1 year ago and I like it, but I still have very hard time feeling positive emotions even at slightest… I used to be so emotional and used to feel happiest from tiniest details… I feel dead inside and witnessing how alive the world outside me is is painful and almost seems unfair and frustrating

what's the struggle about, allowing the feeling or inspiring the feeling? what changed since then?

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rain and lightning

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my sister was saying this looks like armand and daniel # proud # devil's minion cathedrals

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went to the ephesos museum with my sister <3 very pretty and it was thundering outside

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growing up knowing love as this nebulous thing that doesn't inform how someone treats you - so it's effectively unquantifiable - distorts your view of loving relationships. it's irrelevant how much someone loves you if that love doesn't translate into kindness, respect and care. loving someone is not just feeling love for them. it's not enough to love someone, you have to be loving towards them