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Smiling at my screen like an idiot when Carmy tells Syd he doesn't mean to be rude, but he has no idea what her drawings are supposed to be 😭😂😂😂. It looks like a bear paw
Tita and Carmy
NOTE: This has been sitting in my drafts since 2024. I never really continued working on it.
Like Water for Chocolate (1992) 10/10, excellent.
I came across a couple of posts mentioning some similarities between The Bear and the Mexican film "Como agua para chocolate" (Like Water for Chocolate). I remember watching it years ago, however, I didn't remember it 100%. HBO recently added it to their platform, so I rewatched it, and I totally agree: there are similarities, starting with the most obvious one, food.
I'd like to share some parallels between Tita, the protagonist, and Carmy. I should mention that other people have already pointed out some of these, but I wanted to add a few more.
Spoilers ahead.
Three siblings.
Tita and Carmy are the youngest children.
A difficult birth. Both Tita and Carmy are their mothers' last child and the most difficult delivery (this observation comes from @freedelusionshere ).
A family with an absent/dead father. Tita's father died when she was a child; Carmy's father disappeared.
A mother who, in the father's absence, has to take over the family business. Mamá Elena takes charge of the family hacienda, while Donna takes charge of The Beef.
A protagonist who expresses their frustrations and desires through food.
A mother who takes out her frustrations on her children, especially the youngest one (other blogs have already pointed this out as well).
Pedro, Tita's love interest, has to redirect the feelings he has for her toward her sister Rosaura; however, he does this in order to stay close to Tita. This reminded me of the metas that suggest Carmy redirects what he feels for Syd toward Claire.
An absent/deceased sibling. Mike on one side; Gertrudis on the other. The middle sister runs away, and Mamá Elena forbids anyone from mentioning her name again. To her, Gertrudis is dead—or at least that's what she says in public, while privately she mourns her absence. Later, it's revealed that Gertrudis is the daughter of Mamá Elena's one true love (who is not her husband), which explains the depth of her grief. As a result, we could infer that Gertrudis was Mamá Elena's favorite child.
Tita reaches a mental breaking point and withdraws into herself for a time. It's worth mentioning that a bowl of beef broth helps restore her sanity. This part of the story reminds me of posts suggesting that a dessert or dish might become the catalyst for Carmy and Syd's relationship. Likewise, others have suggested that when the dish is finally ready, the relationship will be ready too.
Tita lives under her mother's shadow even after her death. It isn't until she confronts Mamá Elena's ghost that she fully frees herself. I've seen posts suggesting that Carmy, by confronting Donna, will begin his path toward peace.
That's as far as I got with this draft. I saw that @otherworldlyfatevoyage was looking for a post connecting The Bear and Like Water for Chocolate, so I decided to post it now.
Another note:
By the way, Like Water for Chocolate (Como agua para chocolate) is a Mexican expression. According to the internet:
"The phrase comes from traditional kitchens when preparing hot chocolate. For the chocolate to turn out perfectly frothy, the water must reach its exact boiling point and be actively boiling. The metaphor compares that state of the water—hot, turbulent, and about to overflow—to a person who is 'boiling' with anger or passion."
In Mexico, hot chocolate is traditionally made with water and cinnamon.
My mom says my grandmother used that expression all the time when she was angry, so I've always associated it more with someone boiling over with anger
Chemistry
A few days ago, YouTube recommended me a video by Agus Greco called How to Write Chemistry. It’s around 30 minutes long. This was the first video I watched from the YouTuber, and I found the information she gives about how chemistry should be written in a story very interesting, whether it’s between two characters or within an entire ensemble cast. It gives a notion of what chemistry is, its different types, and its rhythm.
The video begins with the following questions:
“Why do some characters seem perfect for each other in theory and still have no chemistry on the page? Why do some characters feel electric from the second they meet, while others remain flat no matter how much development or plot they’re given? Why do some character interactions feel magnetic even when nothing dramatic is happening on the surface? Sometimes all it takes is a few lines, a pause, or a look to create palpable tension. The exchange can be minimal, but the sense of friction and pull is unmistakable. Sometimes simply placing two characters in a room talking can feel more full of tension, energy, and momentum than pages of visible action.”
What the author points out at the beginning immediately reminded me of Syd/Carmy vs. Carmy/Claire. Comparing both dynamics, Syd and Carmy are by far the more interesting one to me. I care much more about seeing what happens between them and their interactions than I do about Claire Bear’s storyline. That’s why I want to believe that the way Claire and Carmy are presented serves a different purpose than being the show’s main chemistry.
Every point brought up throughout the video reinforces for me that SydCarmy is the central interaction. Here are some fragments from the video:
“Chemistry is charged interaction. It’s the feeling that every time two or more characters share a scene, something is happening underneath the surface: attraction, friction, fascination, mismatch, need, pattern, play.”
“Chemistry comes from dynamics, not similarity. One of the biggest mistakes writers make is assuming chemistry comes from characters having a lot in common. Sometimes it does, but far more often chemistry comes from contrast and movement. Not necessarily opposites. What matters is that when these two characters interact, they activate each other. One pushes, the other resists. One performs, the other sees through it. One wants closeness, the other fears it. One leads, the other refuses to follow. That’s where the spark lives.”
“These relationships work because each person pushes against the emotional temperature of the other, and no interaction is neutral.”
“Chemistry comes alive through tension. If you want chemistry, you need tension. And tension doesn’t only mean physical tension. Tension can be desire, distrust, status imbalance, emotional asymmetry, unfinished history, conflicting goals, or mutual fascination neither person knows how to handle. Chemistry thrives when something between the characters remains unresolved. That’s why flat relationships often feel flat even when the characters themselves are well written. Nothing presses. Nothing is charged. Nothing is at stake within the interaction itself.”
From my perspective, those fragments practically describe the chemistry between Syd and Carmy. Their interactions always generate a reaction in the other; as the author points out, they activate each other, there’s always something left unsaid, there’s unfinished history, and so on. In contrast, Carmy and Claire’s dynamic doesn’t feel that way.
On the other hand, the last part of the video talks about different types of chemistry; romantic chemistry is one of them, and I feel that Syd and Carmy fit, to varying degrees, into the categories the author describes: devotional chemistry, chaotic chemistry, yearning chemistry, combative chemistry, and soft intimacy chemistry. We have small gestures of care, irritation, friction, vulnerability; there are scenes of sacrifice, loyalty, and calm.
In conclusion, I just want them to kiss. Also, really great video for people who write.
I love this, it immediately reminded me of Breakfast at Tiffany's
Can’t wait for June!! gonna go fan mode with the el mundial (world cup) and season 5 ⚽⚽🥅🏆
I saw this meme with another characters, and it reminded me of sydcarmy 😢😂
I started experimenting with Sketchbook using Ayo’s Vogue photoshoot, and I really liked the result. It lets you use a lot of layers, there’s a good variety of brushes, and best of all, it’s free. I decided to practice with the photo of the bird brooch that one was my favorite. It made me think of Birds of a Feather 🐦🐦🪶
The birdcage
A few days ago I watched The Birdcage (1996). I have to say, the movie gave me a few good laughs, but what I enjoyed the most was, without a doubt, the interior design. I loved Armand and Albert’s apartment: a mix of colors, textures (patterns and wallpaper), furniture, and decorative objects from different styles that come together in an explosive and beautiful way.
I also really loved the transformation of the apartment into something more “traditional.” When the space is left almost bare, you can really start to notice certain details. The walls, for example, have an apparently worn texture that adds a lot of character to the space. In the same way, the lack of furniture makes the spatial composition easier to appreciate. One clear example is how the steps leading from the living room to Albert’s bedroom are integrated: instead of fragmented steps, they’re continuous, which creates a sense of flow and gives the space a sculptural feel. That same sculptural quality is repeated in the wall openings. I’m not sure who designed this set or whether it’s a real space, but it’s definitely a 10/10.
Another space I really liked was Val’s mother’s offices. The style here is much more formal, starting with the waiting area and that cylindrical sofa that looks like the “Pipeline” sofa designed in the 1980s. The chairs, which feel very Danish in style, also caught my attention, although I couldn’t find who designed them. The exterior spaces stood out as well: the bus stop is great, and interestingly, this and other exterior locations reminded me a bit of, Barbie by Greta Gerwig.
Interruptions
I recently started watching Percy Jackson. I finished the first season pretty quickly, just in time to start the second, which has only four episodes released so far. I’m on 2x03, and when I finished it, the platform suggested the show’s podcast, so I hit play to have something as background noise.
About halfway through the episode, Leah Jeffries (who plays Annabeth) is asked about the relationship between her character and Percy. In the books, they are the canon romantic couple, although at this point in the series they are still just friends. What caught my attention about Leah’s response is that she mentions that there is always something unfinished between them: every time a conversation between Percy and Annabeth seems to be heading somewhere else, they are interrupted or something happens that cuts the moment short.
Just as Leah is about to go deeper into this idea, the actor who plays Director D appears abruptly and completely changes the direction of the conversation, leaving the topic unfinished… exactly like what happens in the series. This reminded me of the posts about how Carmy and Syd are constantly interrupted throughout the seasons of The Bear.
While I was writing this, I thought of another parallel. In episode 1x05, Annabeth and Percy are on a mission to obtain Ares’ shield. At the end, one of them has to sacrifice themselves to get it: someone has to sit on a throne that turns whoever sits on it into a statue, since only in this way will the shield be released. Annabeth decides that it should be her who sacrifices herself, because Percy is the chosen one of the prophecy and she is not. However, Percy chooses to sacrifice himself; to convince her, he says:
“You’re better at this than me. You just are, and you know it. Believe me, I wish there was another way this quest succeeds. I just don’t see it.”
Annabeth ends up accepting, and Percy ends up turned into a golden statue. That speech reminded me a lot of the one Carmy gives in Goodbye. In both cases, Carmy and Percy consider that their co-protagonist is better than them at what they do: Percy believes Annabeth is better as a demigod, and Carmy believes Syd is better in the kitchen, in other words, they admire them
With these parallels,the constant interruptions, the admiration, and the sacrifice, for me it is obvious that Syd and Carmy are written as a romantic couple, so I will continue to hope to see Carmy and Syd as a canon couple. In the meantime, I will live on crumbs.
I was a fan of the books when I was a kid, and I’ve been keeping up with the show via social media, I know I need to watch it, I’ve heard good things. Percy and Annabeth have a lot of parallels to Sydney and Carmy. Both thrown into the same situation, experienced loss, and were “platonic” friends long before they became a couple. I believe that if the show was standalone without the books, we would be in the same situation, questioning what we were seeing, with actors denying anything that seems romantic or even leans a little romantic.
I'm enjoying the series, I recommend it, although I'm not sure if I liked it because I haven't read the books. I hope you enjoy it too 🙈
Interruptions
I recently started watching Percy Jackson. I finished the first season pretty quickly, just in time to start the second, which has only four episodes released so far. I’m on 2x03, and when I finished it, the platform suggested the show’s podcast, so I hit play to have something as background noise.
About halfway through the episode, Leah Jeffries (who plays Annabeth) is asked about the relationship between her character and Percy. In the books, they are the canon romantic couple, although at this point in the series they are still just friends. What caught my attention about Leah’s response is that she mentions that there is always something unfinished between them: every time a conversation between Percy and Annabeth seems to be heading somewhere else, they are interrupted or something happens that cuts the moment short.
Just as Leah is about to go deeper into this idea, the actor who plays Director D appears abruptly and completely changes the direction of the conversation, leaving the topic unfinished… exactly like what happens in the series. This reminded me of the posts about how Carmy and Syd are constantly interrupted throughout the seasons of The Bear.
While I was writing this, I thought of another parallel. In episode 1x05, Annabeth and Percy are on a mission to obtain Ares’ shield. At the end, one of them has to sacrifice themselves to get it: someone has to sit on a throne that turns whoever sits on it into a statue, since only in this way will the shield be released. Annabeth decides that it should be her who sacrifices herself, because Percy is the chosen one of the prophecy and she is not. However, Percy chooses to sacrifice himself; to convince her, he says:
“You’re better at this than me. You just are, and you know it. Believe me, I wish there was another way this quest succeeds. I just don’t see it.”
Annabeth ends up accepting, and Percy ends up turned into a golden statue. That speech reminded me a lot of the one Carmy gives in Goodbye. In both cases, Carmy and Percy consider that their co-protagonist is better than them at what they do: Percy believes Annabeth is better as a demigod, and Carmy believes Syd is better in the kitchen, in other words, they admire them
With these parallels,the constant interruptions, the admiration, and the sacrifice, for me it is obvious that Syd and Carmy are written as a romantic couple, so I will continue to hope to see Carmy and Syd as a canon couple. In the meantime, I will live on crumbs.
I was tagged by @half-bloodorange and @ruethrills (thank you! I’m honored 🥰 I love your blogs). Here are thirteen songs that have been in rotation in no particular order:
1. Sweet Nausea- Naomi Scott
2. 20teens - Blessing Jolie
3. When Doves Cry - Ginuwine (I like this better than the original. Sue me!)
4. Into Your Room - Holly Humberstone
5. Love Me - JMSN
6. Let alone the one you love - Olivia Dean
7. A couple minutes - Olivia Dean
8. Direction - Banks (Banks has been in my top 3 artists every year for about ten years)
9. Drexler - Made in heights (unfortunately they pulled all their music off streaming. But you can find all their songs on YouTube )
10. 12 to 12 - sombr
11. F.I.C.O - Clipse
12. The Dress - Dijon
13. Dreams - Susannah Joffe
I’m tagging @jezuschristsuperstar @gingerylangylang1979 @notthebear @vertigo-vertere @berzattohugs @lovelikeafuneral
No pressure, but I’d love to know what y’all are listening to! 🫶🏾❤️
How lovely tysvm 💖🥹 Tagged by the wonderful @soursopsista. Here are 13 (+2 so we can make it divisible by 5 the way charts usually are lol) songs I have been listening to this past month
Since there is an audio limit, the latter five are
In the Party by Dev Lemons
Suzanne by Hope Sandoval
London Night by Cartier God
Love and Obsession by Archie Madekwe
Super Stars by Yves Tumour
I’m tagging @quietplaced and @sullengir1111 and @monsivaisstuff… I’d love to see what you guys are listening to💖
🙈🙈 thank you so much for tagging me @jezuschristsuperstar !!! I love Que no salga la luna, and as you can see in my monthly top, I’m a huge fan of Rosalía and of her ex C. Tangana. There’s more spanish music this month because I live in LATAM, by the way, I love your fics. I think I’ll tag @bmegrl9124 , since they were my first interaction here on Tumblr
TikTok’s algorithm led me to watch Chungking Express (1994). I saw it a few days ago at first it felt a little slow, but I ended up really enjoying the story. There are cans with expiration dates, food, cigarettes, endless amounts of coffee, Coke, clocks, cardboard boxes, and even a scene in front of the fridge where one of the characters reunites with an old love. All of this gave me The Bear vibesor maybe The Bear gives off Chungking Express vibes. Either way, it’s a memorable film
I don’t know if I’m watching Abbott Elementary or The Bear, I’m on 3x01 and Janine accepts a fellowship in the district.
Gregory: It's just it'd be weird, You not being at Abbot
Janine: Yeah
Gregory : it's a fantastic opportunity, but i don't know. When i think of Abbot, i think of you. And when think of you, i think of Abbot
Janine: Yeah. No, i know ,and im gonna miss my students, i'm gonna miss my classroom
Gregory : Will miss knocking wall to chat
Janine: i'm gonna miss that too
Gregory: You really gonna leave us?
Later in the same episode, they use Gregory to bring back the old Ava.
Greg: all these rules are so hard and rigid
Ava: well, here's a rule, put your arms away, Jeremy Allen Black
Jealous Chester!
My intention with this post was simply to share my opinion about how funny I found the moments where Chester seems jealous after Lucas shows up, and to compare that with Syd’s dialogue in Worms — the part where she talks about the older brother and his friends outside of the game (in that part, I thought I noticed a bit of jealousy from Syd too). The point of my reflection was just to highlight the jealousy in both cases; both characters understand that it’s healthy for their friends to have other friends, as Chester himself would say, but even so, those possessive feelings toward Carmy and Marcus still surface.
However, as I was writing this, I started wondering why Chester is even jealous. I thought: aren’t he and Marcus just friends? That led me to think about the posts that talk about the confusing labels around what Syd means to Carmy and vice versa. The same confusion Carmy experiences is what happened to me with Chester and Marcus, I couldn’t label Chester’s feelings. While you could say it's normal to get a little jealous when a new person shows up in a friendship, you could also interpret it as the presence of deeper feelings. There’s definitely some emotional ambiguity there.
Note: I’m not sure if I interpreted the Worms dialogue correctly, I watch the show with Spanish subtitles.
The city, architecture, and interiors
In episode 2x3, we see Syd’s boat ride where images of buildings are superimposed with dishes of food. It could be interpreted as the city and its architecture serving as inspiration for Syd’s cooking. In contrast, this season we have Carmy visiting one of Frank Lloyd Wright’s works (possibly looking for inspiration?). So while Syd moves through an open, exterior space, Carmy explores a closed, interior one. I'm not sure exactly what they’re trying to say with this, but I do see that contrast/parallel between them — and I just really like that both find inspiration in Chicago’s architecture.
By the way, I hope Carmy doesn’t switch to architecture, it’s just as stressful as cooking
Reading @turbulenthandholding made the parallel between Syd/Carmy and architecture a bit clearer for me. Thanks to the post, it now makes sense why we see architectural blueprints and old photos of these two buildings (although in Syd’s journey we see other buildings, the photos shown in that sequence are only of Marina City). We could say that both structures are examples of organic architecture. On one hand, Lloyd’s house is a work in harmony with its natural surroundings, while Marina City has this organic shape that reminds us of a corn (food). Adding to this, I remembered the reference Michael and Richie make to the Ceres skyscraper statue (goddess of agriculture). In the end, these three works are all tied to nature in one way or another.
Another thought I had, it's a good thing none of Mies van der Rohe's buildings were chosen, because I remember in one of my classes we discussed how he has recently been accused of not giving enough credit to designer Lilly Reich as a possible co-author of some of his most iconic works. Anyway, men being men!
The city, architecture, and interiors
In episode 2x3, we see Syd’s boat ride where images of buildings are superimposed with dishes of food. It could be interpreted as the city and its architecture serving as inspiration for Syd’s cooking. In contrast, this season we have Carmy visiting one of Frank Lloyd Wright’s works (possibly looking for inspiration?). So while Syd moves through an open, exterior space, Carmy explores a closed, interior one. I'm not sure exactly what they’re trying to say with this, but I do see that contrast/parallel between them — and I just really like that both find inspiration in Chicago’s architecture.
By the way, I hope Carmy doesn’t switch to architecture, it’s just as stressful as cooking