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Wow I never expected anyone to see my last post, but thanks so much for all the love. I really hope I helped someone 🖤

Don’t ignore warning signs at the beginning. Don’t accept the way somebody treats you just because you love them. Don’t make excuses for them. Don’t say “they only treat me like this because they’re hurt.” It doesn’t matter. Being hurt does not give them the right to make you feel horrible about yourself. If they loved you they wouldn’t do that.

If you keep excusing their behaviour there will come a point where you feel like you’re nothing without them, that you’re nothing outside of the relationship, no one else could ever want you. And you trick yourself into thinking they’re a good person and they love you because even though they made you feel the lowest you’ve been in your life, occasionally, very rarely, they’ll do one minor thing that makes you feel special and makes you feel that maybe they do care. You feel two different extremes and emotions, the highest of highs and rock bottom. And since this person is the common denominator of your best and worst emotions, you feel an extreme intimate bond to them. But it’s all a lie. Don’t fall for it. Because no one worthy of your heart would ever bring you that high just to let you down that hard.

You can’t imagine your life without them, that’s fine. But imagine all those wonderful moments and feelings, without the heartbreak. Without the betrayal. Without the mental abuse, infidelity, anxiety, degrading names, feelings of inadequacy and everything they put you through. Imagine having someone that loved you as you were, never wanted you to change for them, loved you for your flaws, not in spite of them. Someone that built you up instead of berating you every time you made a mistake. Someone that made you come out of your shell and want to give them the best in life. You wouldn’t have to walk on eggshells because you know even if you say the wrong thing, they won’t judge you for it. And because they love you that much and make you feel so comfortable and safe with them, the past wouldn’t matter anymore, suddenly you’d become yourself again and free to live life the way you always wanted. That could all be a reality, that could be your new life, if you just leave.

To everyone in an abusive relationship, you deserve so much more.

#abusive relationship

marvelouserin

yeah, I like romance. but you know what? I like women realizing their value and leaving trash men 1000x more

ramdaughter

your bare minimum isn’t actually that bare or minimum. my dad once told me that there’s nothing in this world that’s easy and that’s true tbh. everything we do takes energy, time, and effort. even the little things. if you feel like you’re not doing enough please try to think about your circumstances and what’s currently available to you: chances are, there’s something that’s diverting or otherwise draining you. and to pull away from that and get something done regardless? well, i think that’s really admirable! please try to take pride in the things you do accomplish in a day, no matter how small or trifling you perceive them to be. you can’t be proud of your growth if you don’t notice where you already are!

You ruined my birthday, our anniversary, Valentine’s Day, and now Christmas. But you will never, I repeat never, get the pleasure of hurting me ever again. You can block me so I don’t have the chance to defend myself, but I know the truth and you can never take that away from me. Goodbye for good, you evil monster.

#personal

bnmxfld

Billie Eilish / come out and play

arabwife

i admire people who could’ve turned cold after everything they’ve been through but still chose love anyway. there’s strength in that

Why do you think I would leave you girl ?

Because you did.

My dad buys me a gingerbread house kit every year even though I’m all grown up, which I find so sweet 😊 I’m proud of my work lol.

#personal

adventure-heart

a cute little baby

oceanmoss

You were red

& you liked me cause I was blue

but you touched me

and suddenly I was a lilac sky

then you decided purple just wasn’t for you.

#personal

When he abandons you when he said he wouldn’t 😍😍😍😍

In the past I used this blog as an outlet to get out all the pain I felt. I had so much hatred for myself, it was unimaginable. It really reflected in what I wrote. Some very vile things that I knew didn’t reflect my heart but I said it anyway because the adversity took over everything. I literally felt trapped and possessed. But thankfully I have found an outlet that is healthier for me and some recent events have made me realize what matters to me more than anything. ❤️

#personal #no more bad vibes