[moonofvex]

welcome all who have wandered here

my name is vex. i am currently 31. i generally identify myself as nonbinary. i publicly identity myself with they/she pronouns

i sexually identity myself as queer. when it comes to role, i tend to lean more on the dominant side, but tor the right type of partner i will be eager to have a different approach. a lot of my posts allude to my sexual identity, so if you're here to indulge, hi. feel free to try to make me blush, if you want to challenge yourself

some important things to consider:

if you are either misogynistic, sexist, transphobic, neurotypical, a minor, or immature- this blog, or myself for that matter, is not for your viewing pleasure. i am a mature adult. i do not carry sexual shame and i will interact with my followers and people who interact with me accordingly. if your goal or idea on the internet is to make people feel ashamed about their sexual desires that they share on websites, share with other people publicly or privately, or a person's sex life in general, then you are not welcome to interact with me. this is a safe space for adults, a mature audience, to interact. i respect myself and i hold that space for you too. this is my nsfw blog, and my responsiblity, where we can be realistic, yet sensitive about the subject of sex. if you can't do that, then you are not welcome to interact with me. on another note, if explicit material is the only way in which you would like to interact with me, then i won't judge you for being interested in me sexually or having your own desires. however, you should also consider that i'm not interested in privately talking about sex with people that i do not consent to having those conversations with; that me maintaining or having this blog does not assume that. the reality is that we do not know each other, which is critical information to have. i am open to people getting to know me and conversing with me on the internet under certain circumstances and consent. also, if someone publicly interacts with me, then i also expect you to respect those people, as well

lastly, feel free to send me a message through the ask button if you feel compelled 🖤

[moonofvex]

It's the time of year where I fantasize about fucking and being fucked on a picnic blanket in the open woods 🧺 ☀️ 💦

[moonofvex]

I want my man to be playful with me, yet still have confidence

Maybe in the way he breathes on my neck before whispering in my ear something that makes me come undone. Or in the way he wants me to wear a vibe for him on our date night so that I will think about him all night and crave him before he takes me home to make a mess of me in bed

Maybe in the way he speaks to me, looks at me, or in his caress

In his kiss, his guidance, and his praise or compliments

Or in his admiration for me and my body

In how he holds me and breathes in the scent of my hair while our legs and our bodies are intertwined in bed

Maybe in his curiosity and excitement when I want to experience something new with him

[moonofvex]

god if you ever post sexual content i will purchase immediately 😳

Aww, I'm flattered, really. Although being on camera and filming myself would be easy, it would take up too much time to upkeep or post, so unfortunately I just don't see myself ever doing that. Maybe posting a photo here occasionally may be something I would do sometime if interested in seeing

[moonofvex]

Question: what sex toys do you enjoy using or have experience using? If that's not too touchy of a subject for you?

Hm, I don't think that's too personal of a question to ask me, it can be exciting to think of someone in that way 😅

I have a few, not a huge collection. My main source of pleasure is a hitachi wand- it's easy and requires no set up. I have an anal plug that I wear occasionally. For penetration, I have a couple of bad dragons- they require more time for set up so I don't use them as often as I would like (I'm busy 😔) but those are very pleasurable as well

[moonofvex]

recently I've been meeting a very dommy girl online and we've grown so fucking close in a span of a single month, she's the soft caring kind of domme and I feel free to trust her and open myself fully.

anyway just speaking my heart out because I'm catching some real feelings for her haha, domme gals rock forever and you are loved and never let anyone say otherwise!

I was sent this ages ago, I'm sorry that I never got around to answering 😅 that is so exciting for you; I really hope it worked out, you know, that you still have a really meaningul relationship with her and that it bloomed into all you wish for from someone in that dynamic with you ❤️

I had met someone online (sort of) that I could envision myself to be in a dom/sub partnership with and had some romantic feelings, (see post below) but it didn't really go how I hoped in those moments. Probably because of me 😅 feelings are complicated but there are some that are harder for me to work through. I was going through a lot in my life at the time when I was interacting with them, so I was navigating putting myself out there during a time where I was faced with a lot of inner turmoil about society, people, and myself. I just was not where I wanted to be at that time, although I had done a lot of inner spiritual work, who I fully wanted to be hadn't came together yet. But now, I can say I have met myself where I needed to and I'm honestly ready to put it behind me, at least the negative aspects of the scenario. I did send him a message years later (it's been a few since then, even) letting him know I had been thinking about him despite the passing years and that I hoped he was well, but I guess he was either busy or just didn't care to answer- either way, you seem to have had more luck than me! He's still on my mind- because I do want to deeply love him. I know that in my heart, I am drawn to him because of a deeper reason. It's not based on something that is obvious or that you can see. It's a deeper knowing. And that's only for me to share with him, potentially.

Anyways, just sharing my own vulnerabilities; I haven't been in a domme headspace in a very long while, probably because of a deep sense of longing that comes with being alone sensually. And I haven't felt deeply loved in a very long time, by anyone, other than myself- just because I should do what is in my best interest. Again, I really hope things worked out well for you and your partner, you seem to be very lucky! You should send me an update if you're still out there 😌

[jeaniefranklins]

Sex scene as character study is so good. What is your relationship to your body? What is your relationship to your partner? What lessons have you absorbed from the culture about yourself as a sexual being? How much do you have to trust someone before being comfortable with intimacy? What fears and insecurities come to the fore for you when you take your clothes off? It's so good.

[headspace-hotel]

How do they communicate? How do they expect others to communicate? How well do they understand their body and their own capacity for pleasure? What do they tend to do to make their partner feel comfortable? How comfortable are they showing emotion in front of others? How much insight do they have into what their own emotions mean and are connected to? What are they focused on during the encounter? How conscious are they of exchanges of power and vulnerability? very very very good

[moonofvex]

I have had a crush or casual, yet extreme hyperfixation on someone for about 5 years now. He probably has no actual clue or ever has, nor have I spoke with him in any way other than passively. I have also never had this experience before, making me feel even more stunned. Typically, I don't even have serious crushes. I haven't interacted with him mutally in over four years but it's been a really long while of feeling like my life and future should involve him. I feel drawn to him, like we are connected somehow, like we belong together. There's a special place waiting for him with me. I've written about him deeply- nothing I've shared online but as time has passed, my thoughts have became more bittersweet and have aged well. I've had dreams about him, probably only in ways he's ever dreamed of himself. I think of us together as our most grown, healed, and complex selves, even in older age. I imagine us being deeply romantic with each other and very strongly in love- I have never experienced that feeling or idea, ever. I imagine in the future if we were to connect, I would disclose to him my deepest desires and feelings, everything from the beginning. I'm attracted to him, which is rare because despite me liking men conceptually, I rarely actually feel attraction to them. I think he's sexy, or at least I see him that way in my mind. I like his quirks and what makes him unique or different. I have felt longing for him so intensely that for a few days every so often, I think of nothing but him and feel like my life feels wrong without him in it. But then life takes over, I have to ground myself in what is real, and I am quickly reminded it is mostly fantasy. I've never completely let it go or forgotten about him. At this point, if it wasn't built off of anything real or true, then I wouldn't feel this way after this long. He sparked something in me no one ever has before and I feel crazed because we hardly spoke to begin with. I just got these feelings from deeply thinking and pondering about him and my own life. I miss when we interacted, which wasn't much at all. Maybe something would had came from it had I put myself out there differently, but I was going through different things then and experiencing different feelings. I truly wonder how long I will feel this way over him, I feel shocked it has continued thus far.

[moonofvex]

When is the last time you had sex?

I'm only asking because your blog gives a mixed idea about that.

i haven't mentioned or shared much about my sex life itself, so i'm not really sure how. for whatever reason, you're asking, not because the answer isn't written out for you already but because you're simply wondering. you shouldn't feel ashamed for wondering. however, you are asking me a very personal question, after all

i have not had any sexual encounters with anyone other than myself, within the last three years. for a while i identified as demisexual because i couldn't feel sexually attracted to anyone that i wasn't emotionally attracted to. i partially still resonate with that label of course, but as i've said before, labels can be confining. my goal with that is to not shy away from discomfort and to keep my mind open to ideals that i haven't learned how to navigate yet when experiencing relationships, feelings, and sex, especially. despite however i may feel about the experience of myself, these factors include potentially sharing spaces with other people and their own set of unique traits and feelings, so i must keep that in mind

what i have shared here has been partial fantasies or just going along with others' known fantasies, but no one knows my deepest or actual fantasies

i had a few casual conversations and encounters within that time frame, but nothing ever led to what i would define as sex. emotionally, i just couldn't find myself further attracted to the very few people with whom i had been interested in during that time, these being people that i actually knew in physical life, in whatever form i was interested in them by

i've learned a lot about myself and what i want to further experience within the last few years. i understand my desires and needs intricately. for me, as i have shared before, sex is a sensitive subject entirely and it is okay with me that i am not having a lot of it

[moonofvex]

Do you have any content anywhere that we can buy without sending you a dm?

no, i do not

[moonofvex]

What are your thoughts on boys trying lingerie and stuff?

i think if a person who identifies as a male wants to try on or wear lingerie, then that is their choice and i'd admire however or whatever they wanted me to see them as 😌 i personally think it's very cute. boy cheeks look perfect as is and they're already very pleasing to grab and spank. but the accent of pretty underwear definitely makes it a little more of a showing 😙

[moonofvex]

Are you still around?

yes, i still check my notifs here occasionally. i am taking a break from this blog. i may be back eventually?

[groovymoonie]

I think kissing is so underrated. Sitting in someone’s lap and just making out for hours is a big mood.

[moonofvex]

what types of sexual things are you into?

it honestly depends on the energy of the person that i am engaging with and what types of energies they bring out in me. i consider myself a switch, but- usually i enjoy soft teasing with words (usually done while whispering, but not always) praising, soft/slow touching, kissing (i also love kissing stomachs or thighs), or making my partner make eye contact with me while i give them instructions. i like making a submissive use their words when speaking to me and have them repeat back phrases to me when i'm asking them a question. i'm into body worship a lot in general, so i tend to spend a lot of time slowly caressing and teasing as an attempt to learn their bodies, which i enjoy admiring them during that process (it gets me quite aroused). intimacy to me is mainly about comfortability and connection. i believe, at least for me personally, enjoying sex comes from a place of allowed and nurtured vulnerability. it's a sensitive subject and most things that i'm sexually into stem from the feelings of closeness that they make me feel to a partner. i'm not sure if you were referring to kink specifically or not, but i obviously like bondage, which mainly includes shibari. i like waxplay. i also enjoy some role playing but it strictly depends

[moonofvex]

Can we see your tattoos, pretty pretty please? 💕

You are SO attractive. Your blog has stolen my heart and has placed in on a soft pillow & is just showering it with compliments. Goodness,,,, I’m swooning. 🥰🥺

my goodness thank you so much. i can definitely try to do that for you sometime! i'm quite busy lately and i'm getting more done very soon, so i'll have to do an updated photoset of them! thank you so much for your kind, sweet words. you're very much appreciated

[moonofvex]

Day dreaming of being led to the bedroom on leash by you before you turn me into a edging blushing leaky mess of a soft boy 🥺🥰

how adorable; it sounds like you'd be so well behaved for me already, huh? soft boys are good boys ☺️ of course, i'd never take advantage of that and always keep you safe with me

[moonofvex]

Are we allowed to reblog your content?

for sure ☺️