halp!

[mooredemidendem]

Sometimes I think about starting an online dating shameblog.

[mooredemidendem]

Peer support and back up can be so vital on the LGBTQ+ journey of self discovery, but we don't always have supportive people in our lives or feel safe asking those around us. That's why I'm so glad organizations like Queer Culture Coaching exist. If you haven't heard of them, check them out. (x)

'Peer support at Queer Culture Coaching is a safe container for you to ask your questions about your identity self-discovery, or allyship questions so you can better understand and support others. Topics can include anything queer related, neurodivergence, disability, polyamory, and conflict resolution.'

[161afa1312acab]

[sinestrocas]

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

When your fluffy cute slow burn is taking too long, create a series so you can skip ahead in the timeline

Fandom: Supernatural (TV 2005)   Rating: Explicit Relationships: Castiel/Dean Winchester Characters: Dean Winchester, Castiel (Supernatural), Trans! Dean Winchester Additional Tags: Trans Male Character, Trans, Trans Character, Self-Acceptance, Gentle Dom Castiel (Supernatural), Light Bondage, Mirror Sex, Necktie, trans affirmation, Fluff and Smut, Plot What Plot/Porn Without Plot, Established Relationship, Established Castiel/Dean Winchester, FTM transition, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Gender Dysphoria, top surgery, Gay Castiel (Supernatural), Openly Gay Castiel (Supernatural), Light BDSM, BDSM Series: Part 2 of Textually Active

Summary: Castiel Novak and Dean Winchester have been together for some time after finally bridging the gap from friends to partners. Dean is having trouble accepting himself, and therefore with sharing his desires with his partner, who has known him through every stage of his transition, including the years before it began. Gentle Dom Castiel has an idea of how to help Dean learn to love himself, but it’s risky, This wasn’t something Dean had ever asked for before.

Or Cas makes Dean watch in the mirror while he compliments, caresses, and loves Dean’s entire mid-transition body.

While this is meant to be a Trans Identity affirming story, some readers may find it triggering for gender dysphoria.

[weloveshortvideos]

[jazzcochina-deactivated20180807]

OMFG THIS IS ME TALKING TO BABIES

[benepla-deactivated20180521]

im obsessed w this video

[bonehandledknife]

Omfg u think this is funny without sound fucking turn it on i beg of u im laughjng sohard icangbreatheee

[gunk-droid]

[thesmallbutknowingclown-deactiv]

THE WAY THE BABY IS KINDA NODDING KILLS ME

[dankmemeuniversity]

[natalieironside]

My blog is a safe space for burnouts, flakes, layabouts, ne'er-do-wells, underachievers, and anyone who can't be arsed

[natalieironside]

Patron Saint of just hanging out

[marzipanandminutiae]

someone in the notes on that “stop fetishizing old houses” post commented that builders before the 1970s were too concerned with elegance and grandeur, and that was all really just wastefulness

and I think about my apartment, a duplex from 1912, surely built for a middle- or working-class family. spartan, really; quite basic and no-frills. not much to look at from the outside. just like a thousand buildings of similar provenance in the Boston area.

there are flowers molded in the chunky, cast-iron radiators

there’s a design of concentric circles in the carved door-lintels

many buildings of this type have a little stained-glass window somewhere

 I think about ornate door hinges in the staff wing of a country estate from 1878.  think of patterned wallpaper in a mansion’s kitchen, from 1797. I think about purely functional spaces someone looked at and said, “this needs beauty”

the past was certainly guilty of waste in many ways. but I cannot call making a house more than just a box to live in one of them

[headspace-hotel]

We need to take away the word fetishize from people

[brothfan1997]

not to be 24 on main but my parents got me a new vacuum cleaner for xmas and after a year of shit garbage vacuums it is literally the most exciting thing in the world like. i could not tell you how absolutely like. invigorating it is to get to vacuum my apartment and then see how much cat hair came out of the carpet

[violenceenthusiast]

[weltenwellen]

Louise Glück, Poems 1962-2012

[traumatizeddfox]

if no one else helped you get through trauma but you, i see u and i am rooting for u!!

[deanwasalwaysbi]

"I don't know anyone who died from the spanish flu"

[hidden-in-plain-fright]

do you know how hard it is to be a demi and want to cuddle so bad but not have a significant other to cuddle with so you are down to do it with almost anyone but you know the moment someone hits you up you’ll get all defensive and want to get to know them and end up wasting your time because you feel as if you cant get that close to anyone ever

…

it’s pretty hard

[3haruki3]

Just because I am demiromantic doesn’t mean I will fall in love with all of my friends! Demiromantic means you can only develop feelings with someone you know ,have deep connections with. This doesn’t mean you develop feelings for everyone you have deep connection with. So don’t worry fella , just because we are friends doesn’t mean I will fall for you!!!!

[mooredemidendem]

"Necessary but not sufficient"

[theharvestcollective]

[gayboyellenripley]

Me: Ah, yes, I am definitely aromantic, not a shred of romantic attraction here

My demi-romantic ass: *falls in love with my best friend of three years*

Me: Uh oh

[mooredemidendem]

My sexuality is not a comment about you.

[mooredemidendem]

I'm not here to make you feel better about who I am.