The Land of Mr Pibearian @mrpibearian - Tumblr Blog

It was nice...

It was nice having a place where you could post some pics, be body positive and celebrate regardless of size.

While none of my shots seem to be flagged under the new policies, probably because I don’t take bare ass/genital shots, I don’t expect to continue using this space. So many people are disappearing, migrating elsewhere or whatever, there’s not much point.

Not to mention, I’m pretty much not expecting any consistency down the line, or for the NSFW threshold to creep forward. I’d rather not play the game of wondering if my stuff is going to butthurt tumblr admin or not at some point.

So that means this is the end of the line for me. Thanks for all your kindnesses everyone

I'm not a butt guy and usually don't care for mine. But these shorts made me look twice

(shorts are from cut2medesigns)

A little birdie told me that big guy fans like belly peeking from a shirt shots

Also trying some snazzy new underwear (from cut2medesigns)

bob-belcher

Again

closed again tomorrow it looks like. Whatever shall I do? ;)

They closed work due to freezing rain so you can see I'm making good use of the extra day off

See? Fresh and clean 4/4

A little soothing warm water

3 / 4

Perhaps a bit lower? 2/4

Figured haven't posted anything in forever and thought fresh new photo, fresh and clean..... Get it? Eh? *Cough*

1 / 4

dillondean

I don’t think straight people realize how fucking scary it can be to show affection for another man in public. It’s terrifying. And you always have this sixth sense while it happens, like, the people around me might be staring, but do they want to hurt me? Will they follow us to our car?

mrpibearian

My bf, being the great guy that he is, dropped me off at the airport on Thursday before this happened.

I said goodbye to the dog in the backseat, and put on my backpack. Turned and he was there for his goodbye kiss.

I felt myself tense up. Trying to calculate just how long I could kiss him to minimize being spotted by someone who happened to be looking this way, but not deny him the love I always want him to feel. So anxious that I divert into a safer hug as soon as I can because, hey maybe they'll think we're brothers because brothers hug, right? The kind of moment that is full of love when we're on our way out the door to work at the same time and have no one but the dog to see. A moment instead filled with anxiety, because I'm afraid. Of what? I don't know, could be words, could be something thrown, or someone doing something to my bf's truck, or hell, some tsa officer on their way in decides to give me a hard time when I hit security.

Or earlier this year, our 5 year anniversary and we're out for dinner to celebrate. Enjoying our food having a good laugh. The waiter stops by and asks if we're celebrating anything tonight. And I freeze. I look to my bf wondering what should we say. Should we say anything? Will we be mistreated if we say anything? Will nearby tables overhear?

Nothing happened in either case. I wish I could say these were isolated incidents. But throughout our relationship, each apartment we rented, trying to buy a house, opening a joint account, every time our neighbours comment on having seen the other out with the dog, the million times we get asked while out if we're brothers.

That fear is there. It's exhausting.

projectd2046-blog

d20: d6: d4:

No dice roll today because this is more important. If you didn’t know, wildfires are raging through the province of Alberta and the city of Fort McMurray has, so far, seen the worst of it. I’m asking you to share this and please assist. How? Well, here is some info on that taken from moneysense.ca (link: http://www.moneysense.ca/news/how-you-can-donate-to-fort-mcmurray-fire-relief/)

The Canadian Red Cross has set up a place to make contributions at Alberta Fires Emergency Appeal: https://donate.redcross.ca/ea-action/action?&ea.client.id=1951&ea.campaign.id=50639

You can also donate $10 dollars when you text the word FIRES to 45678.

Other ways to donate:

Text the word REDCROSS to 30333 and a $5 donation will be added to your wireless bill

Text the word REDCROSS to 45678 and a $10 donation will be added to your wireless bill

Moneysense has more information on donations including Federal Government donation-matching, something helpful that AirBNB is doing, and Edmonton Emergency Relief Services collecting diapers, toiletries, etc, but the best thing you can give is still money.