OMG!!! I think this is mainly hormones but... My sister in law posted on Facebook saying that her friend from Ohio is coming to her wedding. That's cool but you mean he wedding that you could've had here in the United States and could've saved people a shit ton of money? The wedding that you still want your brother to go to even after his wife has their 2nd child. I'll be in the hospital for at least 3 days and after I get home you want him to fly to another fucking country so he can go to his sisters wedding. WTF am I chopped liver? I don't mind letting my daughter go because it will be nice to only have to one child to deal with for a little bit but come on. I mean yeah my best friend said she will come stay with me which is awesome cause I love her but seriously? No your wife just had a baby and can't drive for 6 weeks but you should still totally fly to Mexico for 3-4 days for your sisters wedding. Ugh!!!! Come on really, what the fuck kind of logic is that? Abandon your wife and new child for 3-4 days because they don't really matter as much as your parents and sister. She'll be ok. No I'm fine, I just had major surgery and have a newborn child but you should go to the wedding. If it wasn't for my friend saying she would stay with me I wouldn't be able to bathe until he got home because I would be so worried about my child and busy that I wouldn't be able to even try to take care of myself.