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@msmadisonhope
Sometimes you make choices in life, and sometimes choices make you.
Gayle Forman, If I Stay (via amargedom)
đ˛ Madison x Hunter
HUNTER: Oh...okay. Give me a few mintues to get settled and I'll call you.
MADISON: Yeah, okay.
đ˛ Madison x Hunter
HUNTER: He's not? So then where is he?
HUNTER: When...in November? When... did you..?
MADISON: I think... maybe we should finish this conversation in person? Or at least over the phone.
đ˛ Madison x Hunter
HUNTER: When you were with the father? He didn't break up with you because of it did he?
HUNTER: ...wait... you're due in November?
MADISON: He's not the type for that.
MADISON: That's what the doctor said, yeah.
đ˛ Madison x Hunter
HUNTER: How is it then? If you don't mind me asking. Did you and the father split up?
HUNTER: Did you know you were pregnant? Does he know?
HUNTER: Sorry, this is none of my business.
MADISON: Did I know I was pregnant when?
đ˛ Madison x Hunter
HUNTER: That's what I figured. Thank you.
HUNTER: Oh? So... you just wanted to have a baby?
MADISON: Not exactly?
MADISON: I mean, in general, yes, I've always wanted to have kids, but this was not exactly planned.
đ˛ Madison x Hunter
HUNTER: Sorry.. I looked up your number. This didn't feel like something to say over social media.
HUNTER: I'm sorry... I didn't know you were seeing someone. Of course you wouldn't want me propositioning you right now.
HUNTER: I'm sorry if I made you uncomfortable.
MADISON: Well, the teacher directory is typically for emergencies, but I'll let it slide.
MADISON: But... I'm not seeing anyone. So you don't have anything to apologize for.
windycityhunterâ:
I definitely wouldnât mind that. Or leave it a bit open ended even. I get that, and it feels like itâs been going on forever but thatâs even more a reason why itâs going to be a slower process than weâd like it to be. I feel like I can definitely see that with you.
Yeah, we can do that too. Changing half the worldâs mindset is a struggle, but I also have twenty-some kids I can influence in the right direction on a daily basis, and they give me hope for it all. I gotta practice what I preach, after all.
@windycityhunter replied to your photoset: msmadisonhope made a post Not sure if itâs the spa...
Congratulations Madison. Lizzie will be sad that youâll be off on Maternity leave during part of next year.
Thanks! At least most of my time off will be between Thanksgiving and Christmas, so sheâll have enough to keep her occupied! But missing the kiddos will be one of the hardest parts.
@windytina replied to your photoset: msmadisonhope made a post Not sure if itâs the spa...
So excited for you! If you need any help with your classroom set up Iâm here because youâre not doing that anymore!!
Shhh. I can scoot desks around. Iâll use you for the heavy lifting at my apartment ;)
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Not sure if itâs the spa day or something else that has me glowing. đ¤ đ¤ˇââď¸ #comingsoon #novemberbaby #babyandme
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@mamamccarthy: time to change my handle. am i âgrandmaâ? âgrammyâ? hmm. decisions, decisions
windycityhunterâ:
Yeah, I get that too. Iâd say Iâm not really a one off kind of guy, but maybe now thatâs all I can really be. Youâre not wrong about that either; I mean that men who are pigs are men who are pigs regardless. I see a lot of that sometimes in my work. I think itâs okay to correct them if you feel the need to. Â
Thereâs nothing wrong with that, really. But, if our schedules ever mesh up again, you could be a two off kind of guy. I feel like a lot of the tolerance for their crap is going away, not quickly enough, but progress nonetheless. No one has ever accused me of being afraid to speak my mind, so if theyâre ever out of line, I will.
windycityhunterâ:
It works.  I canât just up and proposition you right now. You canât come over because of who you are and if one of the kids wake up and see or hear you here⌠and I canât just leave either. Iâm sorry. Fair point. The way I see it; and here I apologize for my gender as a whole, men have shown in the past to not always respect the bonds of marriage when it comes to women they are attracted to. I canât help but feel like that is in part why some people might feel the need to address a married woman with another title to make that distinction. But it all goes back into why are there so many titles for a woman to begin with? Why does a woman change her name? Itâs a richly steeped tradition that might not seem fair, and Iâm not here to argue that, but at the time, it made sense. Maybe it doesnât anymore. Â
You donât have to apologize. I get that things are more difficult than that. Iâm not looking to be propositioned at the moment anyway. All of that is incredibly true, but at the end of the day, men who are pigs are men who are pigs regardless of a womenâs title. So it may all be a moot point. I think, for now, I really just have to resign myself to being maâamed now and again, and accept that it usually comes from a place of good intentions.
windycityhunterâ:
Hunter, Hunt, are both good with me. If? Ouch Madison. I thought we had a pretty good time.  Yes, I definitely can see that and I agree, thatâs why I said someone the same age or younger would be Miss. I suppose I can understand that, but at the same time, I feel like sometimes there just isnât enough respect for people who have committed themselves like that. Â
Hunter it is then. We did. But unless youâre propositioning me right now, still qualifies as an if. I could probably get into a long debate about respect for women in relationships, but Iâll be brief enough. The way I see it, if a guy is single or married, heâs still Sir. Why does a woman need a new title?
windycityhunterâ:
Exactly! Smart girl. Â
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windycityhunterâ:
Alright. Iâm on it. Maybe Iâll go for something good. Itâs a big year after all next year.
Whatâs next year? 25 and celebrating your car insurance rate going down?
windycityhunterâ:
It definitely wouldnât be the first time someone outside of family, and the Military, have called me Captain. I have to admit, I kind of like hearing it during sex.  You should have set him straight. I feel like there is an age or other subtle signs to watch for. For instance if they are over forty and are older than you, then use Maâam. If theyâre wearing a wedding band, no matter the age, use Maâam. It shows respect for the relationship. Maybe thatâs just me though. Whatâs your take on it, as a woman?
It seems so formal. I think I like Hunter better. But Iâll keep it in mind, if we ever revisit that matter. Iâve always thought of it as an age thing. I never had a specific age in mind, maturity maybe. Elders, women in charge, and the like were maâam. People at my equal would be Miss. I donât think a wedding band is relevant. I could be a Mrs now and I still wouldnât want to be a maâam.